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kittygilchrist 10-29-2015 07:42 PM

Should Hween Behavior be PC?
 
Going to a more or less private party. Talk abt graciousness vs staying in character. Is it ok to say and do stuff that you otherwise would not, because you are dressed as someone whose ethics you loathe?

goodtimesintv 10-29-2015 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by kittygilchrist (Post 1137694)
Going to a more or less private party. Talk abt graciousness vs staying in character. Is it ok to say and do stuff that you otherwise would not, because you are dressed as someone whose ethics you loathe?

Are you dressing in a pantsuit?

kittygilchrist 10-29-2015 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by goodtimesintv (Post 1137697)
Are you dressing in a pantsuit?

No, was that a guess?

Villager Joyce 10-29-2015 08:14 PM

I wouldn't go as that person.

tomwed 10-29-2015 08:33 PM

Are you going as Bill Cosby? I wouldn't bring any Jello Shots.

kittygilchrist 10-29-2015 08:42 PM

You guys are making me happy.


Someday, I could go as an angel, maybe.

dbussone 10-29-2015 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by kittygilchrist (Post 1137728)
You guys are making me happy.


Someday, I could go as an angel, maybe.


Do it this year Kitty. You qualify now.

kittygilchrist 10-29-2015 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by dbussone (Post 1137751)
Do it this year Kitty. You qualify now.

Mayyybe we can get some more opinions about my possible behavior...?

redwitch 10-29-2015 09:52 PM

If you loathe the character, why would you want to behave as that character? Maybe dress as the character and say you are showing the silly side of that person. That way, you can look loathesome but still be goofy.

fred53 10-30-2015 04:41 AM

As long as you enjoy the costume you are wearing and it isn't blatantly racist, or a known serial killer of recent times go as whoever you please as you can't please everyone and those who are, or might be offended, will find something offensive about everything.

rubicon 10-30-2015 05:28 AM

One should not be rude nor act in bad taste however, political correctness on its face is both rude and in bad taste and a scourge on good communication.

Villager Joyce 10-30-2015 07:05 AM

My rule of thumb is if you need to say "I mean no disrespect" or "I probably shouldn't say this" then don't---in costume or not.

kittygilchrist 10-30-2015 07:24 AM

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Originally Posted by rubicon (Post 1137797)
One should not be rude nor act in bad taste however, political correctness on its face is both rude and in bad taste and a scourge on good communication.

:0000000000luvmyhors: You are as smart as a whip!

graciegirl 10-30-2015 07:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Villager Joyce (Post 1137824)
My rule of thumb is if you need to say "I mean no disrespect" or "I probably shouldn't say this" then don't---in costume or not.



Good advice. My folks said if you have to think about it more than once, don't do it.


It all depends on your company, and the atmosphere if something is funny or not. We all have all seen costumes of the pregnant nun and laughed and never ever thought twice about it.


Just go as a Princess. You can never go wrong.

billethkid 10-30-2015 08:05 AM

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Originally Posted by rubicon (Post 1137797)
One should not be rude nor act in bad taste however, political correctness on its face is both rude and in bad taste and a scourge on good communication.

Thank you!

Right or wrong is the best medicine and recall that it's interpretation will vary from person to person.

Just don't do anything you would not anybody else to do....but have have doing it.


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