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CarolSells 01-19-2012 06:38 PM

Just Wondering......
 
Charlie Brown would say, "I guess I just don't understand". I think that the moderator(s) do a great job. I'm sure that they get tired of wading through all of the poop, too. However, last weekend I responded to a post about an experience that one poster had at a restaurant. In my post I said that I believed that his account was true but that he should beware of the types of responses that he would receive. It was all very tongue-in-cheek. One kind poster got it and laughed but the thread was deemed "off topic and inflammatory" and was removed. Fair enough. Rules is rules.

But my question is, why is it okay and appropriate for posters to attack another poster or their questions or opinions? Case in point: Today a person started a thread asking where to get a tattoo. It degenerated into how that person would be perceived by one if they sported a tat,etc. On topic? Non inflammatory? The posts stand.

Why is it okay to tell posters who have any questions about what they would like to see in TV or have any negative comments about anything that they don't like or have noticed to "just move out or buy in Orlando"? These comments are in the true spirit of the board's purpose of exchanging ideas? I think NOT!

Just my inquiring mind wanting to know.

:cus:

angiefox10 01-19-2012 06:45 PM

I have the same question. Sometimes posts are just removed. Often times people are kidding with each other and those posts are removed and the really mean posts remain. I don't get it.

I know the post you are referring to. People who didn't read it were lead to believe there was something wrong with it and didn't understand it was a joke because it was removed. By removing the post, there was no way to explain.

golf4me 01-19-2012 06:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CarolSells (Post 442664)
Charlie Brown would say, "I guess I just don't understand". I think that the moderator(s) do a great job. I'm sure that they get tired of wading through all of the poop, too. However, last weekend I responded to a post about an experience that one poster had at a restaurant. In my post I said that I believed that his account was true but that he should beware of the types of responses that he would receive. It was all very tongue-in-cheek. One kind poster got it and laughed but the thread was deemed "off topic and inflammatory" and was removed. Fair enough. Rules is rules.

But my question is, why is it okay and appropriate for posters to attack another poster or their questions or opinions? Case in point: Today a person started a thread asking where to get a tattoo. It degenerated into how that person would be perceived by one if they sported a tat,etc. On topic? Non inflammatory? The posts stand.

Why is it okay to tell posters who have any questions about what they would like to see in TV or have any negative comments about anything that they don't like or have noticed to "just move out or buy in Orlando"? These comments are in the true spirit of the board's purpose of exchanging ideas? I think NOT!

Just my inquiring mind wanting to know.

:cus:


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angiefox10 01-19-2012 06:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by golf4me (Post 442673)
fo·rum
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noun, plural fo·rums, fo·ra  [fawr-uh, fohr-uh] Show IPA.
1.
the marketplace or public square of an ancient Roman city, the center of judicial and business affairs and a place of assembly for the people.

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So.... are you being mean.... or are you being funny. Because it's hard for me to tell.

Posh 08 01-19-2012 06:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CarolSells (Post 442664)
Charlie Brown would say, "I guess I just don't understand". I think that the moderator(s) do a great job. I'm sure that they get tired of wading through all of the poop, too. However, last weekend I responded to a post about an experience that one poster had at a restaurant. In my post I said that I believed that his account was true but that he should beware of the types of responses that he would receive. It was all very tongue-in-cheek. One kind poster got it and laughed but the thread was deemed "off topic and inflammatory" and was removed. Fair enough. Rules is rules.

But my question is, why is it okay and appropriate for posters to attack another poster or their questions or opinions? Case in point: Today a person started a thread asking where to get a tattoo. It degenerated into how that person would be perceived by one if they sported a tat,etc. On topic? Non inflammatory? The posts stand.

Why is it okay to tell posters who have any questions about what they would like to see in TV or have any negative comments about anything that they don't like or have noticed to "just move out or buy in Orlando"? These comments are in the true spirit of the board's purpose of exchanging ideas? I think NOT!

Just my inquiring mind wanting to know.

:cus:

:agree:

golf4me 01-19-2012 07:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by angiefox10 (Post 442674)
So.... are you being mean.... or are you being funny. Because it's hard for me to tell.

I wasn't trying to be mean or funny. I think a forum is a place to discuss things and we won't always agree or stay on track and each person will think he or she is right.

angiefox10 01-19-2012 07:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by golf4me (Post 442688)
I wasn't trying to be mean or funny. I think a forum is a place to discuss things and we won't always agree or stay on track and each person will think he or she is right.

Thanks for the response. I really wasn't sure what you were trying to say. :coolsmiley:

CarGuys 01-19-2012 07:15 PM

Tat??
 
Angi

So I guess I can't get a Tat?

Even Dudley got a Tat in the movie Wild Hogs!

An Apple LOGO! :1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

angiefox10 01-19-2012 07:22 PM

I have a tat for you!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by CarGuys (Post 442694)
Angi

So I guess I can't get a Tat?

Even Dudley got a Tat in the movie Wild Hogs!

An Apple LOGO! :1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

http://i240.photobucket.com/albums/f.../badtattoo.jpg

kentucky blue 01-19-2012 07:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by golf4me (Post 442688)
I wasn't trying to be mean or funny. I think a forum is a place to discuss things and we won't always agree or stay on track and each person will think he or she is right.

Have to agree with you,i remember after my first few post ,i was told "we don't need people like you here,look elsewhere."We all have our own opinions,and to have a forum to express them is refreshing.It's great to have this board that is sooooooooooo informative, and gives us all the chance to participate.To be honest, i'm shocked that the moderator did not delete a few of my post,but i'm grateful they didn't delete.As far as a tattoo,to each their own,it's just not my "cup of tea."

CarolSells 01-19-2012 07:37 PM

Hey! I've been hijacked! I don't have a tattoo. Nothing against them. I might have to get ironed first!

Okay. This is an official hybrid. Comment on my rant or show us your tattoo!

Posh 08 01-19-2012 07:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CarolSells (Post 442711)
Hey! I've hijacked! I don't have a tattoo. Nothing against them. I might have to get ironed first!

Okay. This is an official hybrid. Comment on my rant or show us your tattoo!

http://i1223.photobucket.com/albums/..._4010275_n.jpg

CarolSells 01-19-2012 07:47 PM

Awesome
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Posh 08 (Post 442715)

Posh, that's really pretty! I could be persuaded to get a smallish one like that!

TOTV Team 01-19-2012 11:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CarolSells (Post 442664)
Charlie Brown would say, "I guess I just don't understand". I think that the moderator(s) do a great job. I'm sure that they get tired of wading through all of the poop, too. However, last weekend I responded to a post about an experience that one poster had at a restaurant. In my post I said that I believed that his account was true but that he should beware of the types of responses that he would receive. It was all very tongue-in-cheek. One kind poster got it and laughed but the thread was deemed "off topic and inflammatory" and was removed. Fair enough. Rules is rules.

But my question is, why is it okay and appropriate for posters to attack another poster or their questions or opinions? Case in point: Today a person started a thread asking where to get a tattoo. It degenerated into how that person would be perceived by one if they sported a tat,etc. On topic? Non inflammatory? The posts stand.

Why is it okay to tell posters who have any questions about what they would like to see in TV or have any negative comments about anything that they don't like or have noticed to "just move out or buy in Orlando"? These comments are in the true spirit of the board's purpose of exchanging ideas? I think NOT!

Just my inquiring mind wanting to know.

:cus:

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CarolSells 01-19-2012 11:17 PM

Thanks
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Admin (Post 442815)
There are over 1,200,000 page views and 100,000 visits to the site monthly and a number of people work daily to review and maintain the site. Our main objective is to make sure respect is maintained for each user even if there is a difference of opinion. Sometimes it is an easy judgement call and other times it is not, as often the written word is interpreted or misinterpreted from the original poster's intentions.

If there is ever a concern about a post you can click on the triangle in the upper right corner of that post and it will be directed to admin/moderators for review. At the end of the day I wish I could say we always get it right but we can't and we don't but always make our best efforts. We thank everyone for their support and feedback.

Thank you for the reply. As I mentioned, we all appreciate this site and your efforts. But we all think that we're funny!


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