What have you gained from TOTV?
 

I realized I should have started a new thread....but I didn't and I asked this question on Graciegirl's 'Congrats page'. So....I will start a new thread....because I am interested.

So.... Graciegirl....I do have a question....
What have you gotten out of TOTV?

For me, someone who said she would NEVER ever get into that crazy social networking thing,....I have gained so much. I have met some wonderful people....and made friendships that I know and hope will be lifelong friendships....worth more than all the money can buy.

I have had "free entertainment".....laughing, smiling and enjoying some of the posts.

I have felt sad, as well. I know the posters who resent the success that the Morse family has.........and they are so very eager to tear down the Morse family. I know as soon as I see them post that it will be a negative post. I still don't "get it". Why? Jealousy....and the fact that perhaps they are not of same political persuasion?

I have gained a wealth of information about The Villages....more than words can tell. The pros, the cons, the what if's....yes, a wealth of information.

There are so many positives that I have received from being a member of TOTV.

How about you, Graciegirl....and how about the rest of you who post and read TOTV?
What have YOU gotten out of TOTV????

Oh, I have enjoyed different message boards for a few years. Got started on cruisecritic.com in 2004 when we were planning our first cruise and have met some lifelong friends from that participation over the years. Last year I began participating in some Havanese message boards, based upon my furkid Baxter come into our family. And my new obsession????? TOTV of course! I love the friendliness of people and of those who are willing to share their knowledge and themselves with others through the written word.

I look forward to meeting some of you on a visit or two. Perhaps someday I'll be your neighbor! To me, message boards are more entertaining than tv and way more educational!

Group Hug! :wave:

This is one of the best message boards I've ever been on and I have tried a few. I guess it's because we all live here and respect each other. We're all in the same boat. :wave:

As far as people being positive or negative, I try to be understanding of those who seem negative. Being negative in return won't make them positive, it will just make them more negative. Depression aften comes with advanced age.

I for one admire the Morse family and what they have accomplished. But it doesn't mean I have to like every aspect of what goes on in The Villages. As long as I'm alive and able to think for myself, I will no doubt have my own opinions, likes and dislikes.

:wave:

....not sure yet,...too soon to tell:undecided:

Succinctly
 

"My Sanity". :)

SPOTD Award!
 

Oh...........I know it's my own thread....and I actually gave my own award to me yesterday........but I can't wait any longer. This post deserves the Swimdawg Post of the Day Award. It's too good! Congratulations!

I was looking so forward to finally winning a SPOTD award. :)

I am honored.

SPOTD Award
 

And to think some are excited about getting those Nobel Peace Prize Awards, Academy Awards, Grammy Awards, Golden Globe, People Choice Awards...and all those other trivial awards....they just don't know what they're missing. They would give anything to get the SPOTD Award.

I'm glad you're honored. You deserve THE SPOTD Award.
Now....I have to go and find MY sanity.

hummmm What have I gotten out of TOTV?????
 

I came to this forum googling about TV and it ALWAYS brought me to TOTV. I think it took awhile to actually sign up and only then because I wanted to know if I could put my "whole body vibration machine" on the lanai... but I digress.

Well.... Kinda like visiting The Villages, I got caught up in the questions, answers and then the people. Now, it's my connection with TV! I don't live there now and it's how I keep up with what's going on while I'm still in Chicago!

The unexpected surprise has been the number of people I have met, the friends I have made and the laughs I've had!

I agree with 2BNTV

THE FRIENDS!!!!

Swimdawg,

You know we are old but with our readers.... We can still read the fine print!

Just sayin..... :p

What I've learned from TOTV
 

I've learned that you have to respect others views

I've learned that even though we live in perhaps the greatest place on earth, never to lower your expectations of services and people just because we live here. No need to be taken advantage of.

I've learned that this is one of the friendliest forums I've ever been on.

I've learned that being on this forum is a must when buying or building a home and when you are contemplating outside services.

I've learned that every one has an opinion and likes and dislikes, however, they may not be the likes and dislikes of others....ie, restaurants, golf courses, or music. Use it as a guideline.

I've learned that if you need a friend, the best place to look is TOTV.

I've learned that after you all told me that the building process is a really tiring one, I now believe you.

I've learned that I'm not as young as I used to be, but younger than the average frog in TV! Except I feel 80 today....

First this has to be a chick thread. But i didn't read of any restriction in responding??

Secondly I have learned some very beneficial things about people and about myself

Thirdly a gentle reminder. It doesn't necessiate because someone has an adverse opinion concerning the Morse family or for that matter The Villages that they are jealous, negative or any other slight remark about the person speaking. It may only mean that something has disturb the individual, usually on the business end, and the complaint may be factually correct and the offended justified in responding. Succintly if someone steps on my toes don't suggest that because I yelled ouch that I am beginning negative. So please don't mischaracterize a person's reason(s) for their complaint(s) and at least find out why they opine in that manner. Thank you.

Fourth what does SPOTD mean?

Let Me Count The Ways
 

1. Smart members.
2. On-line friends.
3. Entertainment.
4. Laughs.
5. Comfort in knowing I can get advice on anything.
6. Learned there is a bond.
7. “Nuts and Bolts”, by Zcaveman.
8. All expenses included in living in TV, (not posted online estimate).
9. Surprised to find out that being closer to shopping, doctors, etc, is more important than closeness to the squares.
10. Sinkhole coverage.
11. Wind insurance.
12. Flood insurance.
13. Buffalo Stampedes, (just wanted to see if you are still listening). :)
14. House protection from lightening.
15. Golf carts, (electric versus gas).
16. Reserved seats in the squares that are not occupied, gets people hot.
17. Don’t mess with the girl’s squirt gun posse.
18. Making the move to TV easier.
19. Knowing someone who will invite me over for coffee, (listening Gracie?) :)
20. "My Sanity", (SPOTD award winner).

Dear Rubicon,

I didn't get any idea this was a "chick" thread. I don't know but I'm thinking it's pretty much a generic question.

Also when I read it, no one came to mind and if someone had, It wouldn't have been you.

That being said, you are on this forum quite a bit so I would assume you get something positive out of it. What would that be?

I know I've learned so much here and I've found that many of the posters like to kid around as do I so it's a place to have fun!

So... What gives with you? What do you get out of it.

While you tell us... Let's have a cup of coffee and relax. :mornincoffee: Because, while I've perceived that you aren't completely happy here in TV, more often then not, your posts are enjoyable to read.