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Catfishjeff 08-25-2022 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Trouble Vince (Post 2129183)
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
Vince

We escaped California almost three years ago and have never had second thoughts. We fly back from time to time when we need our mountain fix or to taste fine California wine (and order a few cases). Coincidently just this week I have met several happy transplanted Californians. You will be able to touch and feel The Villages experience when you do your lifestyle visit.

Villagesgal 08-25-2022 12:31 PM

Move here, you'll love it. Moved here 21 years ago at age 47. Never had a problem with finding people my age. Move in age here keeps getting younger and younger. My neighborhood north of 466 is quickly changing with original purchasers leaving for assisted living or moving to be with kids and younger people in their 50s and early 60s moving in, so you'll find people your age everywhere. I used to live in LA. This is 1000 times better. Come on a visit for a few weeks, rent a golf cart, drive all around and ask everyone you meet how they like it here and if they would do it again. You'll find that the majority will say yes they would, but should have done it earlier when they were younger. Hope to see you here soon. You'll love it.

Trouble Vince 08-25-2022 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by ElDiabloJoe (Post 2129554)
If you've "watched all the YouTube videos..." you have surely seen Rusty's video channel. Your singles question is probably best answered by one of his videos, link to follow:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oKGmRdMzvCg

Hope this helps (from a fellow So Cal native).

I have watched his videos, they are very good.

Trouble Vince 08-25-2022 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Villagesgal (Post 2129654)
Move here, you'll love it. Moved here 21 years ago at age 47. Never had a problem with finding people my age. Move in age here keeps getting younger and younger. My neighborhood north of 466 is quickly changing with original purchasers leaving for assisted living or moving to be with kids and younger people in their 50s and early 60s moving in, so you'll find people your age everywhere. I used to live in LA. This is 1000 times better. Come on a visit for a few weeks, rent a golf cart, drive all around and ask everyone you meet how they like it here and if they would do it again. You'll find that the majority will say yes they would, but should have done it earlier when they were younger. Hope to see you here soon. You'll love it.

Thank you so much for the words of advise, sounds like a good plan.

Taltarzac725 08-25-2022 02:22 PM

https://www.districtgov.org/images/d...bs-Listing.pdf

I hope this works.

Larchap49 08-25-2022 02:23 PM

Retirement
 
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Originally Posted by Trouble Vince (Post 2129183)
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
Vince

You there is a very active Republican club with many single members

Trouble Vince 08-25-2022 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Taltarzac725 (Post 2129700)

It did! Thank you.

ElDiabloJoe 08-25-2022 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by The Chipster (Post 2129562)
We lived in The Villages for 3 years and really enjoyed it. But, beware. If you are of a progressive state of mind, you will be living amongst about 70% who think the other way, and make their feelings known. Too bad our society has developed this way but it is what it is.

As opposed to us that have lived decades in a progressive area who were bullied, threatened, and intimidated into silence for daring to have opposing thoughts. There are like, 6 places in the U.S. where we can be ourselves while the progressives can say, do, and feel what they want - demonstrably and vociferously - without fear of reprisal, disdain, professional censure or physical injury nearly everywhere else in the country and on every college campus, government agency, tech corporation, etc. Surely you won't take this bastion away from us?

ElDiabloJoe 08-25-2022 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Trouble Vince (Post 2129616)
Wow, thanks for all of the replies. There are some great points and a lot to think about. I very much appreciate all the info. I'm combat vet (Iraq- 1st Marine Division), and have been a Police Officer for 25 years so there's a reason why I want to leave CA. I look forward to learning more.

Same. LASO/OCSD w a little time in Gardena and Anaheim.

Nana2Teddy 08-25-2022 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Catfishjeff (Post 2129650)
We escaped California almost three years ago and have never had second thoughts. We fly back from time to time when we need our mountain fix or to taste fine California wine (and order a few cases). Coincidently just this week I have met several happy transplanted Californians. You will be able to touch and feel The Villages experience when you do your lifestyle visit.

Happy to hear this! I’m native Californian for 68 yrs now, and can’t wait to move to TV. Hubs is native Michigander, but has been in Calif since 1974 straight out of college. He’s ready to move on too. We did our lifestyle visit in June, and have wished we were back there ever since. Hopefully our home will sell soon so we can get back to the fun, and wet stuff (rain!). 😅

TOMTOFVIL 08-25-2022 07:03 PM

Vince, I moved to The Villages from Thousand Oaks about 2 years ago and love it. Some noticeable differences you have to travel about an hour for things you are accustomed to such as COSTCO, restaurant variety, etc. Also, the weather is much different especially if you plan on living here full time.

La lamy 08-25-2022 07:52 PM

I believe the club you will be interested is called South of 60. I'm in my 50's and loving TV.

juddfl 08-26-2022 01:42 PM

I moved here with my husband when I was 51 years old. I'm now 73 and I love it here as much if not more than when I first moved to The Villages. Do the lifestyle package and then maybe rent for a couple of months to make sure. If you golf you'll be in 7th heaven. By the way, there are over 3000 clubs and I'm sure you will find many that are what you want. Come visit, you'll love it!

Kelevision 08-26-2022 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Trouble Vince (Post 2129183)
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
Vince

I moved in Los Angeles from Orlando in ‘93 and just moved to TV a year ago, though i was born and raised in Leesburg so, I’ve literally watched TV grow from it’s conception.

South of 44 is where the “younger” people seem to be but you’ll definitely be one of the youngest ones. That’s how I feel anyway. I never did a lifestyle visit but did stay in an airbnb north of 44 and bought new south of 44. They have a really different vibe. Good luck! I’m sure you’ll enjoy it here. I’ve only encountered rude people on this site. Never in person anywhere out and about. It’s easy to meet people.

Nana2Teddy 08-26-2022 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by TOMTOFVIL (Post 2129791)
Vince, I moved to The Villages from Thousand Oaks about 2 years ago and love it. Some noticeable differences you have to travel about an hour for things you are accustomed to such as COSTCO, restaurant variety, etc. Also, the weather is much different especially if you plan on living here full time.

How funny! We are in Thousand Oaks. Looking to move there full time, so yep the stuff you mentioned is our biggest concerns (Costco, weather, and for us Trader Joe’s), but I think we’ll adjust eventually. Won’t miss the drought and wildfires.

Moonrunner 09-04-2022 08:17 AM

Good neighbors are nice
 
But those with whom you share activities will most likely become your closest friends.
QUOTE=mtdjed;2129393]I moved here when I was 62 and into a neighborhood of like aged persons. I had commented to my real estate agent that the "New Area" didn't look as mature as some of the older areas. His comment was that "mature areas" equal mature people. What that means is that people older than you with different interests and abilities. So, what I would suggest is an area that is closest to your age and interests.

Recall that birds of a feather flock together.[/QUOTE]

Marathon Man 09-04-2022 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Lindaws (Post 2129443)
No, this is a retirement community. 80% are 55 or older.

If true, that makes 20% under 55.

0.20 x 125,000 = a lot.

ElDiabloJoe 09-04-2022 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Marathon Man (Post 2133167)
If true, that makes 20% under 55.

0.20 x 125,000 = a lot.

2% would be 2,500

20% would be 25,000

GreySkies 09-04-2022 06:17 PM

How old, who cares...
 
The discussion of “Younger versus Older” retirees within a retirement community is very illogical in my opinion. When someone is of age to live in a 55+ community such as TV does age really matter that much? At his stage of one’s life maximizing enjoyment should be first on the list. As a single female in her early 60’s I have no issues dating a man in his 50’s or 70’s, if you enjoy someone’s company, age should be a non-factor.

“We are living in an interminable succession of absurdities imposed by the myopic logic of short-term thinking.” ~ Jacques Yves Cousteau

Trouble Vince 09-06-2022 08:58 AM

Thank you for the input. There is a lot of misinformation about TV and in doing my research I've found many answers, and more questions.

Calisport 09-06-2022 08:50 PM

I'm from southern Orange County. Moved here following a bunch of neighbors that are all very active in sports and activities. In the new areas you will find people even in their 40s that have retired. On my block the average age looks to be younger than the northern Spanish Springs area since we are in the new homes.

JMintzer 09-07-2022 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Calisport (Post 2133834)
I'm from southern Orange County. Moved here following a bunch of neighbors that are all very active in sports and activities. In the new areas you will find people even in their 40s that have retired. On my block the average age looks to be younger than the northern Spanish Springs area since we are in the new homes.

Every section will have turnover.

When people pass on, or move to different facilities, they are typically replaced by younger people...

It happens in my neighborhood up North and it happens in TV...

ElDiabloJoe 09-07-2022 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Calisport (Post 2133834)
I'm from southern Orange County. Moved here following a bunch of neighbors that are all very active in sports and activities. In the new areas you will find people even in their 40s that have retired. On my block the average age looks to be younger than the northern Spanish Springs area since we are in the new homes.

Same Monarch Beach. Essentially Salt Creek Beach area. The Shores.

Whitley 09-07-2022 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Trouble Vince (Post 2129183)
I'll be retiring in the next couple of years from the Los Angeles area, I'll be 55. I'm seriously looking at TV as a place to relocate. I've read all the books, watched all the YouTube videos, and googled everything. I'm 100% on doing a lifestyle visit, but I have a lot of questions. Such as , is there a social environment for a "younger" (lol) single man, ect. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
Vince

There are activities for every possible activity. Left handed CPA archery? Wednesdays. MBA holders who like calligraphy, second Thursday of each month. Try not to take any negative post personally. I am from NY and wear a "Don't NY my Florida" shirt. The sentiment is actually greater in Sarasota, where I am during the week. Being younger (i'm upper 50's) is a plus as we tend to be better able to enjoy all that TV has to offer. Then again I play tennis with a 90 year old who soundly beats me. Would not shock me to find there is a club for people into being beaten, but I digress.

Whitley 09-07-2022 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by bluecenturian (Post 2129480)
There is a club for 50’s. You are out the day you turn 60. Good amount of people in their 50’s. As for activities, as someone in my 50’s, there are plenty of people much older who can beat me in some activities. Age really isn’t a thing here. Just leave the CA way of life there, things are done much different in FL.

Wow, do they ask for your birth certificate or some other proof of age. I'm 57 but have the appearance of a bronze 35 year old god. Thinking I can fool them for a few years past 60, but not if they check ID's.

Trouble Vince 09-07-2022 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by whitley (Post 2134028)
there are activities for every possible activity. Left handed cpa archery? Wednesdays. Mba holders who like calligraphy, second thursday of each month. Try not to take any negative post personally. I am from ny and wear a "don't ny my florida" shirt. The sentiment is actually greater in sarasota, where i am during the week. Being younger (i'm upper 50's) is a plus as we tend to be better able to enjoy all that tv has to offer. Then again i play tennis with a 90 year old who soundly beats me. Would not shock me to find there is a club for people into being beaten, but i digress.

lol

Marathon Man 09-07-2022 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Whitley (Post 2134030)
Wow, do they ask for your birth certificate or some other proof of age. I'm 57 but have the appearance of a bronze 35 year old god. Thinking I can fool them for a few years past 60, but not if they check ID's.

Yep

asianthree 09-08-2022 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Whitley (Post 2134030)
Wow, do they ask for your birth certificate or some other proof of age. I'm 57 but have the appearance of a bronze 35 year old god. Thinking I can fool them for a few years past 60, but not if they check ID's.

So bronze, like the way baby shoes we’re bronzed in the 50’s:1rotfl:

Caymus 09-08-2022 07:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Whitley (Post 2134030)
Wow, do they ask for your birth certificate or some other proof of age. I'm 57 but have the appearance of a bronze 35 year old god. Thinking I can fool them for a few years past 60, but not if they check ID's.


The smallpox scar won't let you fake 35.:D

kkingston57 09-08-2022 01:09 PM

Will be a culture shock coming from LA, regarding weather. May-Mid October hot and humid. Suggest renting 1st. A lot of singlle woman in TV and most are looking for active men

VILLAGERBB 09-08-2022 01:23 PM

California to TV
 
Suggestion: Rent for a while before you decide to move.

Trouble Vince 09-13-2022 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by VILLAGERBB (Post 2134334)
Suggestion: Rent for a while before you decide to move.

That's the plan

Jimjr 09-14-2022 02:30 AM

Me too

swiftwego 10-13-2022 09:03 AM

Absolutely tons people your age and single . I’m single and did the same research etc. Did Life Style visit and everyone is happy to answer questions and you’ll find TV is very friendly . Everyone experienced same things moving here and hundreds of people from California ! I’d recommend if you love biking, nature, baseball, astronomy, wood working, air gun, archery, swimming, younger population buy South of 44. I watched a lot of Jerry and Linda the Newcomers and Rusty Nelson on YouTube.

CindyLouWho 11-07-2022 12:14 PM

Hi Vince.... I moved here two years ago next March. I am your age and I have found that it is a BIG challenge to meet singles our age here and date. The VAST majority are older than us. Don't discount them though, their spunky and some run circles around many 30 year olds. However, I understand and it's not easy at all unless you're interested in attractive older women or Central Florida Locals. I have recently notice a few more of us than I have in the past so maybe the next wave is upon us and WE will be the aged majority at some point in the future. Theres so much here though that change is for certain. Best of Luck!

Trouble Vince 12-08-2022 10:01 AM

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Originally Posted by CindyLouWho (Post 2155600)
Hi Vince.... I moved here two years ago next March. I am your age and I have found that it is a BIG challenge to meet singles our age here and date. The VAST majority are older than us. Don't discount them though, their spunky and some run circles around many 30 year olds. However, I understand and it's not easy at all unless you're interested in attractive older women or Central Florida Locals. I have recently notice a few more of us than I have in the past so maybe the next wave is upon us and WE will be the aged majority at some point in the future. Theres so much here though that change is for certain. Best of Luck!

Thank you for the info. I sent you a PM......

Mayrath 01-07-2023 08:44 AM

can I see her pic in a bikini? LOL

La lamy 01-07-2023 07:03 PM

Yes you can find 'young clubs" in TV, but please also be open-minded to get along with people of all ages.

Pairadocs 01-08-2023 01:30 AM

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Originally Posted by dwoodley1975 (Post 2129371)
Do you play tennis?Is there Volley Ball group around here?

A LOT of tennis, a LOT of volley ball, a LOT Of water polo/volley ball. We have been here 18 years, came in our 50's, still do TKD and scuba (also Karate clubs here, snorkeling , canoe, and kayaking are VERY popular here and all over Florida. Don't be surprised though, if you go to Karate group, or TKD group and find 2, 3, 4th dan black belt men and women in their 70's and even 80's. I'd say to you it is more a matter of YOUR physical and mental health, than your age, as to which of the over 3,000 activities, lessons, and clubs you wish to participate in ! You have probably already seen the list of singles clubs. There are quite a lot, but there are also many associated with local churches that are not listed in the Villages weekly rec guide. At least on area church has weekly singles volleyball in their family center gym, probably others also, and do not require church membership to play, open to anyone in the community.


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