2 adult children and 12 year old moved in across the street.

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Old 08-06-2020, 04:15 PM
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I believe that to be technically correct, the requirement is that one resident (not necessarily the owner) must be 55+.

Also, the no child under 129 for more than 30 days a year is a deed covenant, not part of the "law" for 55+ communities.

I believe that we need to be concise in these type conversations.

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Or have a reference source to point to.
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Old 08-06-2020, 04:23 PM
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Since you know that this is their adult daughters, you must know the neighbor pretty well. Wouldn’t it be easier to speak to them privately about the situation of a under 19 visiting for over 30 days.
Good advise, hate it when people turn you in to the authorities for no good reason
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Old 08-06-2020, 06:42 PM
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Since you know that this is their adult daughters, you must know the neighbor pretty well. Wouldn’t it be easier to speak to them privately about the situation of a under 19 visiting for over 30 days.

so you really think that talking to them is going to make a difference?

if the kid is there after 40 days, that kid is going to be there for the long haul

drop a dime...the kid isn't allowed to live here

sorry for your troubles...but honor the deed restrictions
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Old 08-06-2020, 07:09 PM
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Wonder how long these folks are even in the house? If not 30 days why worry about it.
Read the OP. He already said more than 30 days.
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Old 08-06-2020, 07:16 PM
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I believe that to be technically correct, the requirement is that one resident (not necessarily the owner) must be 55+.

Also, the no child under 129 for more than 30 days a year is a deed covenant, not part of the "law" for 55+ communities.

I believe that we need to be concise in these type conversations.

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We can start with the age of the children.
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Old 08-07-2020, 03:42 AM
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Read the OP. He already said more than 30 days.
oops your right, my bad.

Would have casual conversation with people first as to their plans and than consider next action if any.

If for example kids lost their job during this period and had no place to live and parents took them in for now would do absolutely nothing.
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Old 08-07-2020, 04:45 AM
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At the moment have other things to worry about.The kid will be bored out of their mind and push parents to move out
Or looking for trouble......
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Old 08-07-2020, 07:56 AM
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Since you know that this is their adult daughters, you must know the neighbor pretty well. Wouldn’t it be easier to speak to them privately about the situation of a under 19 visiting for over 30 days.
Great idea to talk to them first. There is so much going on in our country that could be the reason they are still there. Give them a chance to explain.
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Old 08-07-2020, 08:00 AM
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I have never filed a complaint in The Villages because I don't care about lawn ornaments. But, I would file a complaint if a neighbor violated the no child rule. That rule is one of the main reasons that I moved to The Villages. If someone has a special hardship because of the virus, they could ask The Villages to waive the rule.
I agree. I moved to The Villages as a 55 and older community. Why can’t people follow those rules! But with this large community it will be hard to keep track. No such thing as 55 and older community
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Old 08-07-2020, 08:24 AM
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I agree. I moved to The Villages as a 55 and older community. Why can’t people follow those rules! But with this large community it will be hard to keep track. No such thing as 55 and older community
There are circumstances in everyones life that causes them to do things they would not otherwise do.

In this case as long as they are not bothering anyone else why make a mountain out of a molehill?
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Old 08-07-2020, 08:42 AM
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How do people know whether someone in the neighborhood is visiting or moved in?
How do they know they are relatives of one kind or another?
How do they know the age of the visitors?
How do they know how many days someone has been at a particular address?
Etc.
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Old 08-07-2020, 08:55 AM
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Report this! If allowed to stay the child will need to be registered for school. A school bus will be coming to the neighborhood to pick up and drop off child. As child becomes a teenager other problems will develop. Non of us bought into this when purchasing a home here with our life savings.
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Old 08-07-2020, 09:04 AM
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How do people know whether someone in the neighborhood is visiting or moved in?
How do they know they are relatives of one kind or another?
How do they know the age of the visitors?
How do they know how many days someone has been at a particular address?
Etc.
It would be pretty easy to determine that a 12 year old lives in the neighborhood.
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Old 08-07-2020, 09:13 AM
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I for one don't miss looking at Grandma dancing at the square with the very young either.
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Old 08-07-2020, 12:48 PM
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I for one don't miss looking at Grandma dancing at the square with the very young either.
I rather enjoy watching the young kids "dancing" in the squares with each other and with grandma. What I don't want is for the young kids to live full time in my neighborhood. We left the "bedroom community" behind and want to live in a senior community.
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