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Spalumbos62 03-06-2023 03:48 AM

Wow..tough crowd...not sure what to make of this post. At first I felt sorry for him, then thought it wasn't his clothes but some racism,then he's called a liar,then he's challenged...it was like ping pong back and forth...lol...I'm dizzy

mrf0151 03-06-2023 04:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Robbb (Post 2194839)
As a new resident of the Villages I stopped by the Arnold Palmer course this afternoon to check it out and see if they had a driving range. When I went into the clubhouse, to ask about a driving range, I was met by a (seemingly demented) old lady who gleefully went rambling on and on about how I could not golf there because I was not "dressed correctly". She never really explained what the dress requirement was, (I was dressed in nice shorts with a sports shirt on), she just kept mumbling something about a dress code. I walked out just as she was starting to say "you really should not be here"

Management, I am a retired senior executive of a fortune 200 company, I have played some of the most exclusive courses on the planet, I am VERY familiar and ACCEPTING of dress codes, however I have NEVER hear of a dress code for a golf shop or driving range. And I have NEVER heard an employee, demented or not, say "you really should not be here. I find this comment reprehensible, demeaning, and potentially racist. In our era of heightened awareness of inclusion, do you really want employees standing in your golf shop determining who "should and should not be there". I encourage you to train your employees on the proper presentation and explanation of any dress code you enact, in addition I encourage you to enforce that code consistently and without exception. It did not go unnoticed that many others in the shop, restaurant, and driving range, were dressed much more casually than I, but none of them seem to have drawn the wrath of your demented clerk.

Well now, it looks like this poster has been exposed and you have been caught with your pants down. Definitely not within dress code.

Dusty_Star 03-06-2023 05:35 AM

Perhaps an Ageist might not be Happy in a Retirement Community
 
Maybe an ageist is not in the right place in a retirement community.

"a (seemingly demented) old lady"

"Do all old people get weird as they age?"

Rango 03-06-2023 08:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Robbb (Post 2194839)
As a new resident of the Villages I stopped by the Arnold Palmer course this afternoon to check it out and see if they had a driving range. When I went into the clubhouse, to ask about a driving range, I was met by a (seemingly demented) old lady who gleefully went rambling on and on about how I could not golf there because I was not "dressed correctly". She never really explained what the dress requirement was, (I was dressed in nice shorts with a sports shirt on), she just kept mumbling something about a dress code. I walked out just as she was starting to say "you really should not be here"

Management, I am a retired senior executive of a fortune 200 company, I have played some of the most exclusive courses on the planet, I am VERY familiar and ACCEPTING of dress codes, however I have NEVER hear of a dress code for a golf shop or driving range. And I have NEVER heard an employee, demented or not, say "you really should not be here. I find this comment reprehensible, demeaning, and potentially racist. In our era of heightened awareness of inclusion, do you really want employees standing in your golf shop determining who "should and should not be there". I encourage you to train your employees on the proper presentation and explanation of any dress code you enact, in addition I encourage you to enforce that code consistently and without exception. It did not go unnoticed that many others in the shop, restaurant, and driving range, were dressed much more casually than I, but none of them seem to have drawn the wrath of your demented clerk.

Decafe Robbb, Decafe

JGibson 03-06-2023 08:34 AM

You lost me at it being “racist”, especially the way people are using that word to get what they want these days.

I don't understand the collared shirt at AP driving range, especially when at Sarasota no color is required.

It's their rules so I can either drive over to Oxford driving range where the people are super nice and don't require a collar or start a moaning thread on TOTV, I go to Oxford plus they have grass all week.

retiredguy123 03-06-2023 08:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JGibson (Post 2194967)
You lost me at it being “racist”, especially the way people are using that word to get what they want these days.

I don't understand the collared shirt at AP driving range, especially when at Sarasota no color is required.

It's their rules so I can either drive over to Oxford driving range where the people are super nice and don't require a collar or start a moaning thread on TOTV, I go to Oxford plus they have grass all week.

Technically, I think it is a Villages rule and it is the same at both places, but Sarasota has stopped enforcing it.

ThirdOfFive 03-06-2023 09:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bogie Shooter (Post 2194864)
Easier to complain on here than face management. Post comes across as somewhat eliteist.

Somewhat?

Two words come to mind; "molehill" and "mountain", in that order.

Robbb 03-06-2023 09:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThirdOfFive (Post 2195006)
Somewhat?

Two words come to mind; "molehill" and "mountain", in that order.

Hmm so its elitist to complain about discrimination.....

retiredguy123 03-06-2023 09:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Robbb (Post 2195018)
Hmm so its elitist to complain about discrimination.....

Did your "sports shirt" have a collar? If not, you didn't comply with the dress code. That's really the only pertinent point.

ThirdOfFive 03-06-2023 09:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Robbb (Post 2195018)
Hmm so its elitist to complain about discrimination.....

Unless the issue is more important than the resolution, the appropriate course of action would be to talk to management at the Arnold Palmer Country Club.

BrianL99 03-06-2023 09:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ThirdOfFive (Post 2195006)
Somewhat?

Two words come to mind; "molehill" and "mountain", in that order.


Quote:

Originally Posted by Robbb (Post 2195018)
Hmm so its elitist to complain about discrimination.....

Some folks just revel in playing the "victim".

mike234 03-06-2023 10:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Robbb (Post 2194839)
As a new resident of the Villages I stopped by the Arnold Palmer course this afternoon to check it out and see if they had a driving range. When I went into the clubhouse, to ask about a driving range, I was met by a (seemingly demented) old lady who gleefully went rambling on and on about how I could not golf there because I was not "dressed correctly". She never really explained what the dress requirement was, (I was dressed in nice shorts with a sports shirt on), she just kept mumbling something about a dress code. I walked out just as she was starting to say "you really should not be here"

Management, I am a retired senior executive of a fortune 200 company, I have played some of the most exclusive courses on the planet, I am VERY familiar and ACCEPTING of dress codes, however I have NEVER hear of a dress code for a golf shop or driving range. And I have NEVER heard an employee, demented or not, say "you really should not be here. I find this comment reprehensible, demeaning, and potentially racist. In our era of heightened awareness of inclusion, do you really want employees standing in your golf shop determining who "should and should not be there". I encourage you to train your employees on the proper presentation and explanation of any dress code you enact, in addition I encourage you to enforce that code consistently and without exception. It did not go unnoticed that many others in the shop, restaurant, and driving range, were dressed much more casually than I, but none of them seem to have drawn the wrath of your demented clerk.

I don't understand the "potentially racist" part of your complaint? did you sport shirt have a collar also?

Spalumbos62 03-06-2023 11:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mike234 (Post 2195051)
I don't understand the "potentially racist" part of your complaint? did you sport shirt have a collar also?

I took that as maybe this person was a person of color and the lady was mumbling, diverting or avoiding because of that yet using the clothing issue as reason...again, it's an ambiguous post.

billethkid 03-06-2023 11:19 AM

OP smacks way too much of being nothing more than BAIT!!

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:censored:

dewilson58 03-06-2023 11:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by billethkid (Post 2195090)
OP smacks way too much of being nothing more than BAIT!!

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:censored:

Tasty bait..............was able to set a couple hooks.


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