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bumpygreens 04-02-2020 09:30 AM

Welcome to "Florida's Friendliest Hometown". My guess is that slogan dates back to when this was just Harold and his trailer park. You get this many people together anywhere and things are likely to get stupid, as you can probably surmise from some of the comments. We are retired, folks. Why is everyone in such a hurry and so intolerant of others? Our week consists of six Saturdays and a Sunday! What's wrong with giving pedestrians the right of way? How do you expect them to carry on a conversation walking single file? Especially if they are walking with their grandchildren. I've seen threads of people in golf carts complaining about the bicyclists. The bikes should have the right of way over a motorized vehicle. I walk for exercise, and use my golf cart for transportation. When I'm in my golf cart, I slow down for bikes and walkers. Going slower than I'd like for a few seconds isn't going to alter the trajectory of my life. If you're in that big of a hurry, go around through the grass. It's a golf cart. They are designed for that.

PennBF 04-02-2020 09:39 AM

Remember
 
IT'S NOT WHAT YOU SAY IT IS THE WAY THAT YOU SAY IT. :ohdear:

Topspinmo 04-02-2020 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by EdFNJ (Post 1738418)
Basically what many folks call the "golf cart path." Multi-modal refers to the FACT that it can be used by any "mode" of transportation from feet to wheels and NOT reserved for golf carts.

Nope, it has some restrictions.

Topspinmo 04-02-2020 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Bogie Shooter (Post 1738696)
Hey, this topic of how to walk on paths was discussed on this thread...…..and was solved in 65 posts!
:swear:
https://www.talkofthevillages.com/fo...llages-304671/

But, but, just like the cov19 was solved yesterday becomes problem tomorrow

Villagesgal 04-02-2020 10:01 AM

Try living on a championship golf course. Male golfers don't seem to care that others can hear them loud and clear. Not a day goes by when I set on my lanai and hear them swearing about bad shots. I am embarrassed for them. Do they use that language at home? People, try to stop using such profane language out in public, it just shows others how crass and low life you are.

Skunky1 04-02-2020 10:05 AM

Just because you’re a psycho thinking you have the right away Doesn’t mean you have to take it! Slow down ,stop if necessary. Don’t be a bad actor.


doesn’t mean you have to take it

Topspinmo 04-02-2020 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by cwwilber@gmail.com (Post 1738672)
Pedestrians have the right of way.

BS, you can’t walk out in front of train

Topspinmo 04-02-2020 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by bakon (Post 1738580)
So if walking I should be …..and if bike riding I should.... where are these rules?
I understand facing but is this a rule?
We walk on paths in Pittsburgh on the right side, bikes go around on left.

So you would rather be ran over from behind and have chance to get out of the way? I alway pick chance to jump out of the way. But, that’s me.

bhendricks772@gmail.com 04-02-2020 10:10 AM

DianeM.. your replies are a disgrace!!!

Psa1000 04-02-2020 10:11 AM

I, too, am so disgusted by the people who have become mean Seniors. Whatever happened to the world to create this "I can do and say whatever I want" attitude?

Topspinmo 04-02-2020 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by vintageogauge (Post 1738676)
The OP did not say they were on the MMP, in the area of Putt and Play where there were there are wide walking trails, more like sidewalks which is where they most likely were, the MMP runs along side the trails with grass in between. With all of the people that are walking now because of the virus, it makes more sense for those on bikes to use the MMPS on which they are allowed and stay off the walking trails, problems with pedestrians solved.

Problems are rarely even solved, because new day starts the problem all over again.

bumpygreens 04-02-2020 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Villagesgal (Post 1738738)
Try living on a championship golf course. Male golfers don't seem to care that others can hear them loud and clear. Not a day goes by when I set on my lanai and hear them swearing about bad shots. I am embarrassed for them. Do they use that language at home? People, try to stop using such profane language out in public, it just shows others how crass and low life you are.

Maybe it's low self-esteem. They must be cursing at themselves. I've never seen a bad shot that wasn't caused by operator error.

LiverpoolWalrus 04-02-2020 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by txfan (Post 1738496)
It’s curse, not cuss.

It depends on where you come from. I’ve always used the word “swear.” Curse is something else, much worse.

IvorT 04-02-2020 10:20 AM

Adults aren’t free to use any language they choose. Try telling a cop that he’s an AH.

Topspinmo 04-02-2020 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by eyc234 (Post 1738431)
This is a MULTI MODAL pathway, not a road or a street. You do not have to walk into the traffic and you do not have to walk in a single file. First words are MULTI MODAL, not cart, bike, roller blades or anything else. It also does not say anything about a transportation street, road, boulevard, alley or anything near. It is for multi, which for you who do not understand means many with no limit to the means of movement. If she wanted to pass and did not have room, wait until you have room and pass.

If it had been me, my ugly side might have come out and she would have accidently fallen off her bike!!!!

See, you’re attitude the problem. You think you can wander all over block path, and put yourself in unsafe conditions and blame someone else. You are also responsible for you’re own safety. There is limitations on MMP, walking trails, and streets. None of them are free for all.

nevjudbaker 04-02-2020 10:35 AM

I have to agree with the biker as far as walking on your side so people can pass you. The language no but everywhere I go no matter how large the walking area is it seems I have move over because two people take up the whole area. I was always taught to stay on the right side. Just be considerate so others can pass you with ease.

Marvic 1 04-02-2020 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Villagesgal (Post 1738738)
Try living on a championship golf course. Male golfers don't seem to care that others can hear them loud and clear. Not a day goes by when I set on my lanai and hear them swearing about bad shots. I am embarrassed for them. Do they use that language at home? People, try to stop using such profane language out in public, it just shows others how crass and low life you are.

I agree with you, but:
As we all know by now that its a way of life for just about everyone to be using curse words. Just listen to the Hollywood fakers or late-night so call comedians, you know the one our naive generation is truly following, respect is long gone....

Rgilbert 04-02-2020 10:37 AM

Manners run in both directions. I ride my ride on the paths and often come up behind walkers. Like most bikers I have seen, I simply warn them "coming up on your left". There's no sense in startling anyone let along be a jerk about it - regardless whether they are 'right' or not. There are more important things to worry about.

Velvet 04-02-2020 10:45 AM

Well, it brings up the question, should bikes be allowed where people walk?

vintageogauge 04-02-2020 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Villagesgal (Post 1738738)
Try living on a championship golf course. Male golfers don't seem to care that others can hear them loud and clear. Not a day goes by when I set on my lanai and hear them swearing about bad shots. I am embarrassed for them. Do they use that language at home? People, try to stop using such profane language out in public, it just shows others how crass and low life you are.

We lived on a country club golf course for 13 years and when we came down here we told are agent absolutely nothing on a golf course, swearing, urinating, throwing trash on the fairways and tee areas, the noise from mowers and large sprinklers, no privacy on the decks, etc. Never again would I live on a golf course. We bought our home on a nice peaceful pond and really enjoy the quiet and peacefulness.

karostay 04-02-2020 11:34 AM

Perhaps she didn't have a bike seat and felt irritated

MrExcite721 04-02-2020 11:36 AM

From The Villages CDD
 
Multi-Modal Path Information and Safety
The purpose of this web page is to provide information to residents regarding the Multi-Modal Paths in the community as well as information for golf cart safety. Please check out the links below. We hope you find the information useful! If you have any questions about the information provided please contact the District Customer Service Center at 352-753-4508.

Golf Cart Safety
In a community of 100,000 residents, golf cart safety is important both on the multimodal paths and on the roadways. To encourage golf cart safety, we have several educational materials available to help inform both residents and guests about safety. Golf cart safety brochures are available in the Customer Service Center located at 984 Old Mill Run or by clicking on the header of this announcement. You can also view a video addressing many of the concerns related to golf cart safety in The Villages by clicking the following link: Golf Cart Safety Video.

To promote golf cart safety in The Villages, The Villages Homeowners Association created a video that can be supplemented with their monthly Golf Cart Safety Clinic. The Golf Cart Safety Clinic is held at 9:00 a.m. on the third (3rd) Wednesday each month at Colony Cottage Recreation Center. To view the video, please click on the following link: Golf Cart Safety - The VHA.
Golf Cart Rules of the Road and Safety Tips
Please click on the header of this announcement to learn about Golf Cart Safety and Rules of the Road. We encourage all golf cart drivers in The Villages to Slow Down and Enjoy the Ride!! For additional copies of the attached brochure, please visit your local recreation center or the Customer Service Center located at 984 Old Mill Run.

Share the Path
"Who is allowed to use the multi-modal paths throughout The Villages?” This is a question that the District receives on a regular basis. The multi-modal paths are for use by NON-AUTOMOTIVE traffic such as bicycles, golf carts, pedestrians, and skaters. It is not legal…nor is it smart…to drive vehicles such as smart cars, motorcycles, or mopeds on any of the multi-modal paths in The Villages. For additional information, please click on the header of this announcement to read a memo from District Counsel regarding the use of multi-modal paths.
Announcement from the Florida Department of Highway Safety and Motor Vehicles
Effective July 1, 2013, The Florida Legislature amended FS 319.14 to allow the conversion of a Low Speed Vehicle (LSV) to a golf cart. For additional information on the process of converting a LSV to a golf cart, please click on the header of this announcement or the following website link: Low Speed Vehicles.

DianeM 04-02-2020 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by JoMar (Post 1738428)
Were you riding the bike? Attitude fits.

As I said earlier, didn’t even know what multimodal was so no. Nice try though.

DianeM 04-02-2020 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by PugMom (Post 1738470)
i'm sorry for you. hope there are better days ahead

My days are terrific but thank you.

DianeM 04-02-2020 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Denvercane (Post 1738476)
You’re an AH just like the lady.

Not really but I’m sure you have one

fdpaq0580 04-02-2020 11:45 AM

Thanks
 
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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1738690)
I know Missy. Her children were visiting and then this crisis imposed itself. I am guessing that they do not want to return home on a airplane and that they are reluctant to drive with an overnight due to the risk of being infected. I do know the family to be hardworking, rule followers, kind and polite....and Missy is one of the best cooks I have ever met, except for her dad who bakes awesome loaves of bread. Whole group is salt of the earth.

Thanks Gracie. Feel bad about their experience. Staying put at this time is not a bad idea, imo. Sadly, I think they may be visiting for a lot longer than expected. Hope the tp holds out till they can get safely home. Also, be prepared for things to become uglier as stress and frustration grows.
Best wishes to all

DianeM 04-02-2020 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by maggie1 (Post 1738512)
Said the woman on the bike.

Sorry sweetie but it wasn’t me. Nice try though.

DianeM 04-02-2020 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by theruizs (Post 1738561)
Why are there so many angry, me first, get out of my face people here in TV. I had been told this is one of the friendliest places in Florida. I do love it here, but after 8 years of running into people with Diane’s kind of attitude I will never tell anyone this is a really friendly place.

My post wasn’t angry just truthful.

DianeM 04-02-2020 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by nututv (Post 1738585)
So it's bad to curse in front of the wee "little treasures" but it would be ok to shove a stick in the wheel, shove her bike where the sun doesn't shine etc. haha I think I get it. Golly I'm sorry kids but that b**** just swore at you all. Here hold my milk and cookies and watch this!
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Possibly a good reply would be... sorry that you had to hear that kids but we were (and I'm assuming here but I'll bet I'm correct) in the wrong walking on the wrong side, blocking the entire path and not giving her a way around.
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I've never been hit by a bike that was doing 20 but I did hit a jaywalker once at about that speed. Hurt him a lot more than it hurt me. A lot more.
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And to DianeM who said "I am polite but if I do swear, I’m not looking around first."... will you marry me. lol


I love you. :BigApplause:

DianeM 04-02-2020 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Shoresands (Post 1738598)
Yes they are but, as my father used to tell us kids, "The use of profanity is a feeble attempt by a weak mind to Express itself forcefully." Enough said!

Nothing feeble here sweetie.

BiPartisan 04-02-2020 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by DianeM (Post 1738394)
This is an ADULT community. If kids hear more than they should then leave them home.

There is a difference between maturity and adult. This type of reaction is a sign of immaturity, I would expect something like this from a Jr High or High school student. Also, a bell?

DianeM 04-02-2020 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by C4Boston (Post 1738607)
I am all for kindness and politeness. However if someone just goes off with me I would have just given it right back with words she never heard before. No excuse for being an a'hole.

Nailed it!

MercerLunatic 04-02-2020 12:00 PM

Not in front of kids!
 
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Originally Posted by DianeM (Post 1738379)
Adults are free to use any language they wish.

I repeat, NOT IN FRONT OF KIDS

if you are an adult, you should know better

Ndomines 04-02-2020 12:00 PM

Bikes anywhere.
 
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Originally Posted by missypie (Post 1738323)
We were in the Fenney area today walking with our 2 grandkids when we heard a ding ding bell. When we turned around she was cussing up a storm telling us to walk in single file. She was riding a bicycle. This is not an easy time for anyone. But to cuss at us was disheartening. I'm sure she is stressed at home, but please not in front of the kids. They are not here on vacation.

What you describe is not unusual.
There are a lot of good people who ride bikes here and they for the most part are easy going nice folks.
BUT There are a number of people with an
I GOT MY RIGHTS ATTITUDES
IF you ask them where they come from more often than not you’ll hear, New York. Before anybody from NY, Long Island or NJ metro areas gets their pantries in a twist just remember folks they cannot help it without a significant emotional event to change their rude, crude and socially unacceptable behaviors.
They are very easy to spot
Actions speak almost as loudly as their words.

DianeM 04-02-2020 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by bhendricks772@gmail.com (Post 1738747)
DianeM.. your replies are a disgrace!!!

Not looking for a replacement mommy but thanks for interviewing.

Travelingal702 04-02-2020 12:03 PM

Low Lifes
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by missypie (Post 1738323)
We were in the Fenney area today walking with our 2 grandkids when we heard a ding ding bell. When we turned around she was cussing up a storm telling us to walk in single file. She was riding a bicycle. This is not an easy time for anyone. But to cuss at us was disheartening. I'm sure she is stressed at home, but please not in front of the kids. They are not here on vacation.

There are low life's in every walk of life. She apparently was one of them. Be glad she didn't run into you as well as cuss at you. She is one of the low life's. Enjoy your grandchildren - they grow up way too fast.

BobnBev 04-02-2020 12:04 PM

Gmta
 
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Originally Posted by eyc234 (Post 1738431)
this is a multi modal pathway, not a road or a street. You do not have to walk into the traffic and you do not have to walk in a single file. First words are multi modal, not cart, bike, roller blades or anything else. It also does not say anything about a transportation street, road, boulevard, alley or anything near. It is for multi, which for you who do not understand means many with no limit to the means of movement. If she wanted to pass and did not have room, wait until you have room and pass.

If it had been me, my ugly side might have come out and she would have accidently fallen off her bike!!!!

gmta!!!!!

DianeM 04-02-2020 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Ndomines (Post 1738861)
What you describe is not unusual.
There are a lot of good people who ride bikes here and they for the most part are easy going nice folks.
BUT There are a number of people with an
I GOT MY RIGHTS ATTITUDES
IF you ask them where they come from more often than not you’ll hear, New York. Before anybody from NY, Long Island or NJ metro areas gets their pantries in a twist just remember folks they cannot help it without a significant emotional event to change their rude, crude and socially unacceptable behaviors.
They are very easy to spot
Actions speak almost as loudly as their words.

Yes we New Yorkers are tough and gritty. You need to grow up early to match your counterparts. I can’t help but think how absolutely boring the Midwest must be with all the goodie types. Thanks but I’ll stay grateful for my behaviors.

BobnBev 04-02-2020 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by DianeM (Post 1738863)
Not looking for a replacement mommy but thanks for interviewing.

:a040::a040::a040::mademyday:

nututv 04-02-2020 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by DianeM (Post 1738851)
I love you. :BigApplause:

Well that's a good start. lol


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