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12-02-2021 04:32 PM |
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Originally Posted by E Cascade
(Post 2035837)
I have learned that in some districts that people who want to hide behind being anonymous can make complaints without the home owner ever knowing who is doing this. The District does not help, but rather elevates the problem. In our village we have someone who thinks they should be the designated mischief maker and our District board will not disclose who is being the cause of making a mountain out of a mole hill. If someone has a problem the District ought to require that another owner approach the neighbor with their personal concern before causing a major problem for all. There are enough power-over people/institutions/etc making life less tolerable and we ought to put out effort here to diminish this kind of behavior. I know of one happening in our village in which a spouse was concerned that the other spouse would have a heart attack over whatever the problem was. Rather than being a help, the trouble maker was being a problem in and of herself. Any suggestions, opinions would be appreciated. FL has some strict laws about stalking that all need to be aware of.
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This is an issue everywhere that people live together. Seriously but teasing a little.
I was concerned about neighbors turning each other in for nonsense because someone I knew in another state but living in a similar planed community had a neighbor launch a complaint about a tree that had been there for years. I heard only one side of the story which is normal in this type of issue. He was sued by the architectural committee.
The case went on and on. Last I heard he had spent 20,000 in legal fees. Before it was resolved he passed away. I believe his daughter inherited the property and sold it.
Who she sold it to? They had plenty of money. I doubt she had an concern for the complaining neighbor when she sold the property.
When exploring places to go when I stopped working I became aware of an island for sale off North Carolina. It was several acres a nice looking house in the pictures and had a small herd of wild horses. I could, I would set up my own KINGDOM. Somehow I think my wife would murder the king in his sleep or perhaps during a hurricane.
Far as anonymously turning in neighbors, I've never had anyone turn me in for anything.
Like most of us I am perfect in my own mind. However, it would not take much to discover who turned you in.
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