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Welcome to the new Villages

What are ya talking about? Screaming and flipping someone off is just a NY "Hello".
We all become mentally ill retardz as we age...Just sooner if you are from NY/NJ :)

Golf carts give way to everyone...Except the Visitor lane at the gates...but don't count on it.

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Originally Posted by MorTech (Post 2023974)

Golf carts give way to everyone...Except the Resident lane at the gates...but don't count on it.

Not necessarily
Please read post #112

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Originally Posted by HORNET (Post 2023952)

Welcome to the new Villages

Welcome to the new country.

Some people forget their retired and still have that work anxiety in them.

I’m so sad for many of you who have written about the indignities you have suffered on a daily basis , wow to have seen so many bad drivers who don’t yield , people parked in cross walks , long lines everywhere, inconsiderate golfers , I’m just glad I live in the alternate village the one where everyday is a good day and where people don’t sweat the small stuff because it’s just life

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Originally Posted by charlieo1126@gmail.com (Post 2024091)

I’m so sad for many of you who have written about the indignities you have suffered on a daily basis , wow to have seen so many bad drivers who don’t yield , people parked in cross walks , long lines everywhere, inconsiderate golfers , I’m just glad I live in the alternate village the one where everyday is a good day and where people don’t sweat the small stuff because it’s just life

Where's that, Fantasyland???:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

Yes fantasyland where many of the friends I have contact with live and the nice strangers I meet in the course of the day or at the bar while waiting to be seated for dinner yes that fantasyland

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Originally Posted by HoosierPa (Post 2023812)

I lived in Boca Raton for 20 years. I left because of the people. Bet you can’t guess where most of them are from. Fast forward and retirees from the same area are flocking to the Villages. I rest my case.

I find in my experience that the people of the NE tend to be very friendly. Even more so than those from the Mid West. I am not convinced being from a specific region is a large determining factor of how polite someone is.

Just don't go during peak hours

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Originally Posted by Bill14564 (Post 2023038)

This will be our second season seeing the snowbirds return though I'm not sure last year really counted. We've noticed a marked increase in rudeness in the last couple of weeks; does it always get this way and do we get to enjoy another five months of this?

Just this week:

- Car coming through the Residents gate honked at a cart that had the audacity to pull into the neighborhood rather than crossing the road. The cart didn't impede the car, it was well into the diamond lane before the car reached it, but apparently not sitting and waiting for the car to pass was an offense.

- Car swerving out of the Residents lane and coming through the open gate on the Visitors side without stopping honked at a cart stopped in the center area waiting for exiting cars to pass. Since the incoming car did not stop at the gate it's possible the cart was still part way in the lane when the car reached it which would have caused the car to have to actually slow down after it raced through the open gate.

- Shopper in Publix trying to push my wife out of the way with their cart as (edit) she was looking at the turkey breasts. "I want one of those," seemed be the signal that her time had expired and she was required to move or risk being bumped.

- Shopper exiting Publix making rude comment about me being stopped to load groceries. Not parked, actually sitting in the drivers seat with the vehicle in drive as groceries were actively being loaded but apparently I was inconveniencing them somehow.

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It's really like that everywhere in Florida, during the Fall and Winter, especially in TV where you have so many cranky old folks and then there's the people that come and visit THEM, who are just guests and don't care how they act because they come from some rat race other city where it's common to be rude, impatient and honk their car horns.. Your best bet is to go places when it's not the peak time. Early, early morning or late, late evening. Have dinner at the restaurants at like 3PM. And bring your patience. I honestly feel sorry for those people. Here we are in this beautiful area that most people can appreciate and be retired and just RELAX.. Some people have trouble trying to relax, I think! LOL