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allenmo 03-30-2021 08:01 AM

Been here 12 years, never seen that

merrymini 03-30-2021 08:36 AM

It made one person happy but what about all the people behind her? This is what happens when you DO NOT HAVE AND PLAY BY RULES!

cafw1 03-30-2021 09:09 AM

Speaking of entitlement, privilege etc.. I am a white woman ---sometimes referred to as having "white privilege" and I had an interesting experience yesterday in a Villages parking lot. I was driving down an aisle in the parking lot and a black woman started to back out of her parking space so I beeped my horn so she wouldn't hit me ---expecting her to stop---surprise ----she refused to stop and I had to quickly back up so she wouldn't hit me. My question is would I be politically correct to describe her behavior as "black privilege"?

golfing eagles 03-30-2021 09:11 AM

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Originally Posted by cafw1 (Post 1923218)
Speaking of entitlement, privilege etc.. I am a white woman ---sometimes referred to as having "white privilege" and I had an interesting experience yesterday in a Villages parking lot. I was driving down an aisle in the parking lot and a black woman started to back out of her parking space so I beeped my horn so she wouldn't hit me ---expecting her to stop---surprise ----she refused to stop and I had to quickly back up so she wouldn't hit me. My question is would I be politically correct to describe her behavior as "black privilege"?

Probably not. The rules only seem to apply to those with "white privilege" Wouldn't it be nice if all the rules applied equally to all people.

MrFlorida 03-30-2021 09:13 AM

Since we're doing a service for the store, I think we should get a 10% discount for checking ourselves out.

golfing eagles 03-30-2021 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by MrFlorida (Post 1923221)
Since we're doing a service for the store, I think we should get a 10% discount for checking ourselves out.

Or, if there was no self check out, the prices might be 10% higher :)

dlb8159@yahoo.com 03-30-2021 09:16 AM

That would be an understatement.

jamesgillen 03-30-2021 10:21 AM

Lazy

newchapter 03-30-2021 10:24 AM

Possibly the same person at Safe Ship Colony yesterday. Inside Safe Ship was full of customers, additionally there was a line of us waiting outside. Up walks a woman that steps in front of the line, opens the door and says, I just want to buy a postage paid envelope. Entitlement? No! I say it's rude, inconsiderate and bad manners.

kkeennyy 03-30-2021 10:36 AM

Go ahead, Kill Jobs. The prices wont go down....

golfing eagles 03-30-2021 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by newchapter (Post 1923275)
Possibly the same person at Safe Ship Colony yesterday. Inside Safe Ship was full of customers, additionally there was a line of us waiting outside. Up walks a woman that steps in front of the line, opens the door and says, I just want to buy a postage paid envelope. Entitlement? No! I say it's rude, inconsiderate and bad manners.

Did anyone say "that's nice, but the place for that is at the end of the line"?

Buckeyephan 03-30-2021 11:07 AM

How about the man in the resident line at the Gilchrist gate who sat with a line forming behind him. I was next so I got out with my key card. I told him he could press the red button and the gate would open. He said he knew that but figured someone would help him instead. Drove off without saying thanks. It takes all kinds.

Altavia 03-30-2021 11:50 AM

Having helped parents an in-laws through final stages of age related mental disabilities, I suggest taking a deep breath and showing a little patience/kindness. You never know what that individual may be going through. And you may be there sooner than later.

Villageswimmer 03-30-2021 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Robbie0723 (Post 1923336)
Having helped parents an in-laws through final stages of age related mental disabilities, I suggest taking a deep breath and showing a little patience/kindness. You never know what that individual may be going through. And you may be there sooner than later.


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juddfl 03-30-2021 04:07 PM

MrFlorida sounds like my friend. We went to Public on Sunday and employee said we could go to self checkout. My friend said that when Public starts paying her to ring up her order and bag it, she will go to self checkout. Another women overheard this, cheered her on and said she feels the same way. It made me laugh. My friend feels by refusing to use self checkout , she is helping save an employee's job.

Dot Rheinhardt 03-30-2021 04:10 PM

Several days ago I had only a few items and everyone in the lines with cashiers had many items, but I stood in one. An employee saw me and directed me to the self help line and rang up my items for me. I thought that was very nice of him. One time my husband was in the hospital and wanted one item. I got this and got in the 10 and under line (Publix). The lady ahead of me had $100 worth of items. It took a long time to ring her up. When it was my turn, I asked the cashier why she was permitted in that line, and she said if they have started to unload on the conveyer, they take them.

Larchap49 03-30-2021 04:45 PM

Self serve
 
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Originally Posted by Bogie Shooter (Post 1922737)
You saw one instance, why would you wonder if this is a thing around here???

Better get used to it when the $15.00 minimum wage goes into effect. There won't be cashiers anywhere.

CFrance 03-30-2021 06:38 PM

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Originally Posted by golfing eagles (Post 1923224)
Or, if there was no self check out, the prices might be 10% higher :)

That's okay with me if it will keep cashiers from losing their jobs. I can deal with it financially better than they could by going on unemployment.

xcaligirl 03-30-2021 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Bill14564 (Post 1922748)
If I had seen it more than once I would know it was a thing around here. But since I have only recently moved here, I thought I would ask before making an assumption.

I've seen it several times!

coffeebean 03-30-2021 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by RICH1 (Post 1922952)
Sometimes the Porterhouse steaks don't scan, I hate to ask for help! The stores are so busy and the store reps don't want to be bothered, seems best to keep my mouth shut.

I'm not quite sure what you are saying here? Just a joke. Right?

coffeebean 03-30-2021 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by scottiesrgreat@gmail.com (Post 1922986)
No, not yet. I work 8 hours a day and run to the grocery to pick up a quick lunch - hoping to breeze thru the self-checkout. 🙂

I deal with it - no biggy - but, I do see a lot of people requiring assistance — in the self-checkout.

Requiring assistance is not the same as expecting the employee to scan all the groceries and bag them too.

coffeebean 03-30-2021 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by GOLFER54 (Post 1923095)
Employee should have shown her by scanning one item, then tell her the rest is up to her.

I cannot agree with you more. The employee that scanned all the items and bagged them should have instructed the customer what "self checkout" lanes are for.

coffeebean 03-30-2021 09:04 PM

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Originally Posted by cafw1 (Post 1923218)
Speaking of entitlement, privilege etc.. I am a white woman ---sometimes referred to as having "white privilege" and I had an interesting experience yesterday in a Villages parking lot. I was driving down an aisle in the parking lot and a black woman started to back out of her parking space so I beeped my horn so she wouldn't hit me ---expecting her to stop---surprise ----she refused to stop and I had to quickly back up so she wouldn't hit me. My question is would I be politically correct to describe her behavior as "black privilege"?

Did you lay on your horn? I would have. But I'm from New York!

coffeebean 03-30-2021 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by MrFlorida (Post 1923221)
Since we're doing a service for the store, I think we should get a 10% discount for checking ourselves out.

I don't look at it that way. I see those self check outs as a way to get out of the store quicker, especially when I only have a few items to check out.

coffeebean 03-30-2021 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by newchapter (Post 1923275)
Possibly the same person at Safe Ship Colony yesterday. Inside Safe Ship was full of customers, additionally there was a line of us waiting outside. Up walks a woman that steps in front of the line, opens the door and says, I just want to buy a postage paid envelope. Entitlement? No! I say it's rude, inconsiderate and bad manners.

What did the employee say to this customer? I surely hope the customer was requested to go to the end of the line.

OrangeBlossomBaby 03-30-2021 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Robbie0723 (Post 1923336)
Having helped parents an in-laws through final stages of age related mental disabilities, I suggest taking a deep breath and showing a little patience/kindness. You never know what that individual may be going through. And you may be there sooner than later.

That's all well and good, until you come across one person who has "been going through something" and the next person has been "going through something" and the next person has been "going through something."

Think of it in the reverse. Does it not occur to you that maybe *I* am "going through something" and just want to get my stuff and get the heck out of the store, and not have to deal with self-entitled jerks who are all insistent that they are "going through something" and therefore deserve to be jerks about it?

Maybe the person next in line at the self-serve has a wife in the hospital about to give birth, and he's trying to surprise her with that bouquet of flowers before the kid pushes out. And maybe that's WHY he's in self-serve, and not waiting in line at the cashier's aisle. And maybe that jerk ahead of him who demands to have a cashier - in the self-serve aisle - will cause this guy to be late because of COURSE that jerk has coupons, three of which are expired and one of which is torn and won't scan, and of COURSE their credit card won't work because they took out their gas card by mistake...and of COURSE those three things that they got from three completely different departments of the store are priced wrong and they need someone to check each one..

Yeah - sorry. If you can't do self check-out, then get in the cashier's aisle. You are in the way of people who have "just been through" something.

Girlcopper 03-31-2021 05:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Stu from NYC (Post 1922740)
Very true.

We see no reason to do the store's work for them so we do go to a cashier.

I dont see it as doing the work for the store. I see it as not having to stand in a line a mile long just because I want to prove a point and not check myself out. Why waste my time when I can be in and out quicker

Girlcopper 03-31-2021 05:10 AM

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Originally Posted by scottiesrgreat@gmail.com (Post 1922980)
Hmmm..... I go to the grocery every day ..... I prefer to go thru the self check-out..... usually faster - I have few items and I like to bag my own products. Now that you mention it - I have seen this happen quite a lot ..... I just saw it with an older couple.... I thought the assistant was just trying to help them with one thing .... but she scanned and bagged everything for them......then - it took the couple about 5 minutes to figure out how to scan their credit card. I see this about once a week.... where someone needs significant assistance while going thru self-checkout.

Then they shouldnt go thru self checkout if they dont know how to do it. All that does is cause others who are looking for a quick exit to wait because of their inconsideration. Defeats the purpose but then again many of the entitled dont care about anyone but themselves

MickeyStevens 03-31-2021 06:11 AM

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Originally Posted by kkeennyy (Post 1923286)
Go ahead, Kill Jobs. The prices wont go down....

It's happening everywhere too.

Road-Runner 03-31-2021 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Travelingal702 (Post 1923148)
Ahhh well, you can't fix STUPID! I never go to self checkout. I'd like to think I'm helping keep the employees employed. Given more self checkouts means less people employed.

That's exactly right. However, in a world of $15/hour entry level workers retail is going to be forced to do more of this, not less. I'm still waiting to see what $15/hour's impact on tipping is going to be. My wife never made much more than this herself at the banking/financial jobs she's held, and as she says no one ever tipped her!

RedChariot 03-31-2021 09:38 AM

Everyone today feels entitled. No one cares about other people. But here in TV it is overwhelming. People cut in lines, saving seats. The whole gamut. Why is it so? So many won't adhere to wearing a mask, putting the Publix employee in a position he cannot win either way. For all of the above we choose to use Instacart for our weekly shopping at Publix.

DonH57 04-01-2021 09:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Bill14564 (Post 1922748)
If I had seen it more than once I would know it was a thing around here. But since I have only recently moved here, I thought I would ask before making an assumption.

Ohh. Don't worry. You're new here. Hang on to your hat. You'll see some true entitlement.:1rotfl:

karostay 04-01-2021 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Bill14564 (Post 1922714)
Went to one of the grocery stores here in the Villages today. The lines were pretty busy and I had only a few things so went to the self checkout line. So far, so good.

Woman in front of me called out, "I need some assistance over here."

Asked her if she realized she was in the self checkout line since she had not attempted to scan any items yet. It is fairly obvious by the lack of cashiers, but you never know.

"Yes, I know, but they will do it for you if you tell them to."

One of the workers came over and asked her what problem she was having.

"I need you to check this stuff out for me."

Employee just looked at her then looked at me. I shrugged my shoulders or rolled my eyes and made some comment about being entitled. The employee proceeded to scan and bag the groceries.

Is this a thing around here??? If the lines for the cashiers are all full is it normal to go to the self checkout and demand someone scan your items for you?

Don't know the circumstances Perhaps she never used a self checkout.
There is a small learning curve we all went through it
at the end of the day all being said both made it it home safe and sound really no big deal

Joe V. 04-01-2021 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by karostay (Post 1924686)
Don't know the circumstances Perhaps she never used a self checkout.
There is a small learning curve we all went through it
at the end of the day all being said both made it it home safe and sound really no big deal

OP says: Asked her if she realized she was in the self checkout line since she had not attempted to scan any items yet. It is fairly obvious by the lack of cashiers, but you never know.

"Yes, I know, but they will do it for you if you tell them to."

So, apparently, she has done this before in the self checkout lines. Maybe she feels intimidated by the self checkout procedures is my guess. In any event I see it as no big deal.

CoachKandSportsguy 04-02-2021 11:44 AM

That's what I am thinking having dealt with my aging parents
 
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Originally Posted by Robbie0723 (Post 1923336)
Having helped parents an in-laws through final stages of age related mental disabilities, I suggest taking a deep breath and showing a little patience/kindness. You never know what that individual may be going through. And you may be there sooner than later.

People do change personalities as they age, especially with dementia, and other cognitive declines. . .

And since the average age of the villages is in the 70s, be thankful that there are employees willing to put up with the retired crowd and all their issues

sportsguy

tghoul 04-02-2021 11:49 AM

I read several years ago about a customer who had a full cart of groceries and went to the express 20 or less line. The cashier asked her which 20 items she wanted to ring up.

Number 10 GI 04-02-2021 12:31 PM

There is a whole lot of difference between "I don't know how to do the self checkout, can you show me?" vs "I need you to check this out for me"!


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