[ficoguy]

I took a lot of BS in 47 years of work.....so excuse me if I feel like I've earned a little bit of perks - having a nice pristine environment, friendly people, lots of recreation opportunities, the "privilege" of being able to dine out a couple times a week instead of jamming a ham sandwich in at my desk during "lunch minute" - so yeah, its my turn. If you call that spoiled, then you've had it way too easy

[ficoguy]

I help family first - relatives back in NJ who have been laid off from the casinos - sent my stimulus check to my brother, and my tax refund to my sister. Charity starts at home.

[Tom53]

Interesting video on YouTube, not political!

Tomfoolery - The Great Realisation | Facebook

[dewilson58]

Originally Posted by ficoguy

I took a lot of BS in 47 years of work.....so excuse me if I feel like I've earned a little bit of perks - having a nice pristine environment, friendly people, lots of recreation opportunities, the "privilege" of being able to dine out a couple times a week instead of jamming a ham sandwich in at my desk during "lunch minute" - so yeah, its my turn. If you call that spoiled, then you've had it way too easy

Breath, Breath.
The OP had a nice post about appreciation, not attacking you and your privileges.

There are millions of retired hard workers.


Like the OP said, "Let's step back and show some appreciation for our good fortune!!!"

[Travelingal702]

Originally Posted by DeanFL

....apparently it's SO MUCH easier to complain, moan, find faults, point fingers, be angry, grumble, whine, and generally be a glass-is-half-full (or empty) person.

I always say that if I would open a ToTV thread saying "what a beautiful day in The Villages", some would mention a cloud, wind, or certainly dog poop.

We are so fortunate, and so appreciate that every day.

There are ALWAYS people who must look at the negative side of anything. They are happiest when they make others unhappy. I happen to have a relative like that. So much so, that I cut off all contact with them. There will always be nay sayers in the world and no amount of "positive think" will change them. I am a positive thinking person and shy away from negative people.

[Don Ferguson]

Originally Posted by GoodLife

The whole world works their butts off, only a small percentage gets to retire in their 50s and 60s to a comfy lifestyle.

Completely wrong! The whole world does NOT work their butts off. AND that is exactly why only a small percentage gets to retire to a comfy lifestyle!

[timinthevillages]

Disneyland for adults. Gotta admit I'm spoiled. But also understand that we're in some tough times. I'm just going to relax and wait it out. Let people act the way the want and I'll choose my actions and participations. If I complain does that help or do I just get more upset. And if that's the case then who's problem is it really? In due time we will be back to normal and we'll have many more things to complain about. Like they dont change the pretty flowers enough.
Awww the good ol days.

[tedquick]

It was just last night that, during a Zoom meeting with a group called Faithful Friends, we commented that we now have an opportunity to sit back, realize how unbelievably fortunate we are and turn this pandemic into a growth and maturity adventure. We recognize how blessed we are to have, not only the environment that we have to live in, but more importantly, the great friendships that are available to all who wish to connect or reconnect.

[Grill Meister]

I have posted this before, but you kindly remarks prompts me to post it again.

1. There are no bombs raining on our heads
2. I am not a prisoner held in solitary confinement, as millions are.
3. I am not a refugee trying to escape with my life.
4. I am not standing in line waiting to fill a pot of water.
5. I have access to fresh food and I'm not starving.
6. I have hot running water.
7. My country has not been ruined by years of war.
8. I can reach my friends by phone and check in on them.
9. My friends check in on me because they care about me.
10. Any whiplash I feel about this strange turn of events is itself a sign of privilege.
11. More than half of the world would gladly trade their everyday problems for the modest inconveniences I am experiencing.
12. I may have anxious dreams but I'm dreaming them on a proper bed and I'm not sleeping on the sidewalk.
13. By staying at home, I'm helping the planet rest.
14. As long as I have my mind I can create, imagine, dream and not be lonely.
15. This global crisis connects me to people around the world and reminds me of our common humanity. This is a good thing.
16. When something tragic happens to another country next time, I will respond to it not with superiority, but humility and recognition. 17. I will fight for positive changes and economically just policies in my own country.
18. I am surrounded by books.
19. I am surrounded by love.
20. The tulips have already begun to bloom.

[Raceone]

Originally Posted by Clarinet

Last night as I sat down with my wife for yet another lovely dinner I remarked that we are indeed fortunate, regardless of this worldwide event.
We have a home, food on the table, good health, healthy kids and grandkids, still able to do many things safely.

Then I read the discussions on TOTV and the subjects people are concerned about and I just have to shake my head. Are golf problems, market value, carts, seating at bars, lawn care that important to everyone? Have any of us had to stand in line for hours for food handouts? Make a choice between medicine and food? I would bet that 90% of the world's population would gladly take our places. Let's be thankful for what we have and not make "things" and $$$$ our main focus. If you would like to help someone perhaps you could donate part of that (probably not needed) stimulus check to a foodshelf.
Let's step back and show some appreciation for our good fortune!!!

Well said & completely agree!

[GoodLife]

Originally Posted by Don Ferguson

Completely wrong! The whole world does NOT work their butts off. AND that is exactly why only a small percentage gets to retire to a comfy lifestyle!

Traveled much? Most every place I've gone people are working hard. There's about a billion people living on less than 2 dollars a day, they are too busy getting enough food each day to think about a cushy retirement. My point wasn't that Villagers have not earned their nice lifestyle or that it's their fault others never get that opportunity. Thank God you were not born in Sub Saharan Africa and maybe just stop the incessant whining and enjoy what they have like the OP said.

[Janlindsey4@gmail.com]

Amen!

[Janhug123]

Absolutely👍

[jarodrig]

Originally Posted by Clarinet

Last night as I sat down with my wife for yet another lovely dinner I remarked that we are indeed fortunate, regardless of this worldwide event.
We have a home, food on the table, good health, healthy kids and grandkids, still able to do many things safely.

Then I read the discussions on TOTV and the subjects people are concerned about and I just have to shake my head. Are golf problems, market value, carts, seating at bars, lawn care that important to everyone? Have any of us had to stand in line for hours for food handouts? Make a choice between medicine and food? I would bet that 90% of the world's population would gladly take our places. Let's be thankful for what we have and not make "things" and $$$$ our main focus. If you would like to help someone perhaps you could donate part of that (probably not needed) stimulus check to a foodshelf.
Let's step back and show some appreciation for our good fortune!!!

My wife and I donated ALL of our stimulus check to two local charities......

I would encourage others to do the same.

I would speculate that 90 % of folks here don’t need it .......

[Curtisbwp]

Amen