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DonnaNi4os 08-15-2024 10:44 AM

Communication with our neighbors is key to staying happy in the friendliest home town. Reporting them would not be the way I would go. Instead I would attempt to contact them
and assume that they are not aware of the situation. Kindness is key above all else to having a good relationship

Marmaduke 08-15-2024 11:13 AM

We still have a neighbor who would never give any of us his contact info.
He said, "my wife's sister looks in from time to time."

We said, 'well, if your house gets struck by lightening, or other things of equal or lesser emergence, how will 'she' know?

He shrugged.

Baaaaad Neighbor, who NEVER does anything beyond mandatory mowing.
Absolutely NOTHING to maintain the trees, shrubs and beds.
Hope he "stays" in Michigan because he doesn't do a thing when he's here either.
There's always A FEW!

graciegirl 08-15-2024 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by retiredguy123 (Post 2360204)
Are you are assuming that they have a weeding service? Most people don't.

That answer may not be accurate but it is diplomatic. I am a huge fan of diplomacy.

GizmoWhiskers 08-15-2024 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 2360168)
Your neighbor has his lawn mowed weekly and that will take care of the weeds on his lawn. You are worried about some weeds next to your garage that the lawn mower didnt get? And youre only here a month?

Welcome to Florida

Not necessarily on weed pulling. A lot of landscapers do not include that. There are also the ones that bill for it but don't do the job they bill for and snowbirds trustingly pay.

Weeds are a problem when the seeds blow with the wind and one pays to keep up with them while others may careless so no it's not a insignificant "welcome to FL" moment. Same with landscaping bug treatments.

I would contact the neighbor and let them know its not being done. Then go from there as far as filing a complaint if the weeds continue. I do know that Community Standards doesn't do much unless the yard is over the top unsightly.

Pugchief 08-15-2024 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by retiredguy123 (Post 2360277)
The Federal Government says that Round-up does not cause cancer.

Well then, you know it's true. Because the govt is always honest and Monsanto doesn't ever hire lobbyists.

retiredguy123 08-15-2024 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Pugchief (Post 2360446)
Well then, you know it's true. Because the govt is always honest and Monsanto doesn't ever hire lobbyists.

You can believe the Government or you can believe a group of lawyers who convinced 12 gullible jurors that Round-up causes cancer.

Pugchief 08-15-2024 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by retiredguy123 (Post 2360450)
You can believe the Government or you can believe a group of lawyers who convinced 12 gullible jurors that Round-up causes cancer.

Now that's a tough choice. Is neither an option?

ffresh 08-15-2024 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by alicevt (Post 2360306)
We had a weed person who just stopped coming. It took a while to find another so contact your neighbor and see if that’s what happened. It is very hard to find someone reliable. We just have stone!!

YES, this is exactly my present case. Our mower walked away and hasn't come back for whatever reason I have no idea. We thought we had this all worked out before we left. People complain about short staffing in restaurants and big box stores, etc.. Well I can tell you for a fact that finding someone to SHOW UP and cut your grass (as a snowbird, particularly) is next to impossible from 1000 miles away. Did I mention weeds; no one wants to pull weeds. I have made countless phone calls of late. Some promise to show up but never do and the process begins anew ad infinitum - very frustratng and exhausting.

My point is, assuming your neighbor is remiss is an assumption that may be unwarranted. A neighborly phone call/text/email would be in order, upon the assumption that they may be unaware. :shrug:

Incidentally, if you or anyone has any suggestions for mowing in Tall Trees, I'm all ears ... thanks

FredF

jimjamuser 08-15-2024 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by retiredguy123 (Post 2360147)
I don't disagree with contacting the owner, if possible. But, don't you think it would be good to know if they are violating any rules before doing so? What is the rule for weeds in your yard? I don't know, but Community Standards should be able to advise the OP.

I agree with this post and I would like to throw a slightly different light on this weed situation. It was stated that they have a lawn service and some have noted that the lawn services can sometimes be less than professional. What I would add is that since these folks have just arrived from Ohio that they may be thinking about GRASS in terms of northern grass which is a different variety than Florida grass.In the summer Florida has many more weed seeds flying around in the air than in Ohio. And weeds here in the villages gets spread by the professional grass cutters themselves. They are NOT going to stop and wash off their lawnmowers blades and undercarriage EACH time between different lawn customers. So THEY also spread WEED seeds. In Ohio, likely most of their neighbors did not leave on vacation for a half of each year. And many were probably younger and cut their own grass. Florida summer heat and RAIN are more the problem than INCONSIDERATE NEIGHBORS. When people move to any NEW location they need to leave some of their former judgments (like summer lawn quality) back at their old location.

jimjamuser 08-15-2024 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by retiredguy123 (Post 2360286)
Most people do it themselves. I use Round-up with a battery operated sprayer. Very convenient.

There are also propane flame weed killers for those that worry about Round-Up. Burn up those little rascals!

LeRoySmith 08-15-2024 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by jimjamuser (Post 2360484)
There are also propane flame weed killers for those that worry about Round-Up. Burn up those little rascals!

I'm trying the flame thrower approach with mixed results

jimjamuser 08-15-2024 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by coleprice (Post 2360378)
My neighbors on one side are also snowbirds and they hired someone to "watch their house" while they're away. The person that they hired didn't take care of their weeds, so I texted them to let them know. They asked the person "watching" their house to abate the weeds, but the person never did, so I pulled the weeds in the island on their lawn and around their lamp post, then sprayed those two areas. I spray my flower beds for weeds every week, so I now spray the two aforementioned areas in their yard too. It only takes a couple of minutes extra per week. If it's not too much trouble for you, that might be better than reporting them . . . You'll be a good neighbor and keep the neighborhood looking nice.

personally, I would not want unauthorized neighbors TRESPASSING on my property. Just being well intentioned should NOT justify trespassing. Maybe they don't appreciate spraying on THEIR yard.

jimjamuser 08-15-2024 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Elixir34 (Post 2360414)
I solve the problem with minimal effort. When I trim my yard, I trimmed the neighbors bushes. When I hit my yard with Roundup to control weeds, I hit my neighbors also. Maintains a good relationship with my neighbor and controls the weeds without a lot of effort or expense.

Thats OK as long as you have their PERMISSION.

Indydealmaker 08-15-2024 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by retiredguy123 (Post 2360147)
I don't disagree with contacting the owner, if possible. But, don't you think it would be good to know if they are violating any rules before doing so? What is the rule for weeds in your yard? I don't know, but Community Standards should be able to advise the OP.

Common sense is a better guide than the rules. Weeds should not be discernable from the frequently mowed lawn.

CarlR33 08-15-2024 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Pugchief (Post 2360169)
Can you post a picture? We are gone most of the summer, and the weeds in the rock beds are a nuisance but rarely grow "so high". Curious how bad it really is and if it's worth causing strife with the neighbors over.

We drove by a couple of houses close to each other a week ago and the houses quite frankly looked abandoned because how bad the yard had grown with weeds. The front doors even had multiple business cards (I assume for lawn care) stuck in the door. If this was the house next to me I could feel your pain. Take a picture and send it to the neighbor and ask? Heck for all you know the lawn care guy is charging them for weekly when they only mow just before they arrive back from the north, LOL

retiredguy123 08-16-2024 08:05 AM

OP, I would suggest that you download and read your deed restriction document from the website, "districtgov.org". Here is what mine says about weeds:

"Maintenance of landscaping shall further mean the exercise of generally accepted garden-management practices necessary to promote a healthy, weed-free environment for optimum plant growth".

Obviously, this is very subjective and common sense is not sufficient to ensure the agreement of everyone. That is why I would suggest getting an opinion from the Community Standards office as to whether your neighbor is in compliance with their standards. That is their job. You don't need to "turn them in" but it will at least give you an official opinion when you discuss the issue with the neighbor.

Bogie Shooter 08-16-2024 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by retiredguy123 (Post 2360688)
OP, I would suggest that you download and read your deed restriction document from the website, "districtgov.org". Here is what mine says about weeds:

"Maintenance of landscaping shall further mean the exercise of generally accepted garden-management practices necessary to promote a healthy, weed-free environment for optimum plant growth".

Obviously, this is very subjective and common sense is not sufficient to ensure the agreement of everyone. That is why I would suggest getting an opinion from the Community Standards office as to whether your neighbor is in compliance with their standards. That is their job. You don't need to "turn them in" but it will at least give you an official opinion when you discuss the issue with the neighbor.

Doesn’t “getting an opinion” begin the “turning them in” process?
I don’t think Community Standards just drives around giving opinions…….they respond to complaints.

LeRoySmith 08-16-2024 09:20 AM

Good neighbors are great things to have, we lucked out and are surrounded by a great group of folks. They keep an eye on things while you're gone and let you know so it doesn't get out of hand. I'm confident I could ask anyone of them and I'd get assistance and that goes the other way as well.

In my opinion one of the best things about this place.

mntlblok 08-16-2024 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by CarlR33 (Post 2360571)
We drove by a couple of houses close to each other a week ago and the houses quite frankly looked abandoned because how bad the yard had grown with weeds. The front doors even had multiple business cards (I assume for lawn care) stuck in the door. If this was the house next to me I could feel your pain. Take a picture and send it to the neighbor and ask? Heck for all you know the lawn care guy is charging them for weekly when they only mow just before they arrive back from the north, LOL

That got me wondering about the Community Watch cars we see going by pretty regularly. Still relatively new here so read up on what all they do. No mention of taking notice of such things. Are they discouraged from bringing up such things? Interesting thread. Drove by a perfectly manicured lawn yesterday with a surprisingly tall and thick stand of weeds amongst the shrubbery. Now having to ponder the continuum between that and an abandoned property. . . :-)

While on the subject, I'll take the opportunity to speak highly of "Terrence" - an independant lawn guy I've gotten to know a bit in our neighborhood. I *think* his company is Outdoor Maintenance. No website. The type of person that you like to see succeed. I believe his number is 352-303-6127. Hope it's OK to post that here.

retiredguy123 08-16-2024 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Bogie Shooter (Post 2360731)
Doesn’t “getting an opinion” begin the “turning them in” process?
I don’t think Community Standards just drives around giving opinions…….they respond to complaints.

According to Community Standards, they would be glad to provide an opinion based on a photo as to whether the neighbor is violating their deed restriction. It would NOT initiate a complaint. To me, this would be valuable information to have before discussing the issue with the neighbor.

tophcfa 08-16-2024 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by jimjamuser (Post 2360484)
There are also propane flame weed killers for those that worry about Round-Up. Burn up those little rascals!

Knock me over with a feather, look who’s promoting the use of a fossil fuel?

OrangeBlossomBaby 08-16-2024 02:58 PM

My neighbor goes away for awhile, a couple of times every year. She and I are on good terms, and she asked if I could just keep an eye on the house while she's away. Our neighborhood is a "I have a key" kind of neighborhood. If there's a lightning storm that shorts out the power, I can go into her house and make sure everything's working and the AC doesn't need to be reset. When she's gone, I do the weeding for her. Her lawn guy doesn't go into the flower beds, he only mows the lawn. Hubby and I keep her shrubs trimmed and even, I weed, and she usually pays us (we never told her we expected any money but she offers, so we gratefully accept whatever she puts in the envelope). When she gets back she usually does that stuff herself.

So my suggestion isn't merely to inform your neighbor that their weeds are high - it's to offer to clear up the weeds for them. And maybe your neighbor will buy you dinner to thank you for it, or even pay you for your time and service.

Bogie Shooter 08-16-2024 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby (Post 2360883)
My neighbor goes away for awhile, a couple of times every year. She and I are on good terms, and she asked if I could just keep an eye on the house while she's away. Our neighborhood is a "I have a key" kind of neighborhood. If there's a lightning storm that shorts out the power, I can go into her house and make sure everything's working and the AC doesn't need to be reset. When she's gone, I do the weeding for her. Her lawn guy doesn't go into the flower beds, he only mows the lawn. Hubby and I keep her shrubs trimmed and even, I weed, and she usually pays us (we never told her we expected any money but she offers, so we gratefully accept whatever she puts in the envelope). When she gets back she usually does that stuff herself.

So my suggestion isn't merely to inform your neighbor that their weeds are high - it's to offer to clear up the weeds for them. And maybe your neighbor will buy you dinner to thank you for it, or even pay you for your time and service.

⭐️
So much better than calling community standards.

Shipping up to Boston 08-16-2024 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by denisez1815 (Post 2360078)
Hello everyone, me & my husband just moved here a little over a month ago from Ohio. My question is that our neighbor on one side is a "snowbird" & apparently won't be back until November & he does get the lawn mowed but the weeds are growing so high. I already had to pull the ones that are next to the garage. I hate to complain but I thought property owners are supposed to keep up on that ? Thanks in advance.

I’m one of the few on here that doesn’t subscribe to anonymous reporting.....which is not only encouraged by Community Standards, but also a lot of the old guard here in TV. So my advice is simple. Attempt to reach out to your new neighbors and give them the benefit and courtesy of making them aware of the situation. Start your residency off right and avoid the drama!

asianthree 08-17-2024 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Shipping up to Boston (Post 2360912)
I’m one of the few on here that doesn’t subscribe to anonymous reporting.....which is not only encouraged by Community Standards, but also a lot of the old guard here in TV. So my advice is simple. Attempt to reach out to your new neighbors and give them the benefit and courtesy of making them aware of the situation. Start your residency off right and avoid the drama!

For 17 years, the complaints have been ongoing. If the complaint is filed within the neighborhood I am good with it. Truthfully if I am in the wrong because I either interpret or missed a restriction then, it should be brought up. Three of our homes were submitted, all were within compliance.

I have watched some try to be nice to someone in the neighborhood, and let them know that new landscaping needs ARC, and just file after the fact.

Sometimes it goes well, but mostly it doesn’t. We had the nicest widow 4 houses down, who removed all her landscaping because it was too much trouble. Next door neighbors offered to replace and help her maintain, she started calling late at night, sending ugly mail, and basically became a not so nice person to those who were only try to help. When weekly driveway parties, happened we had authorities show up. It wasn’t easy to live there and like us moved. At least if it was anonymous it might have been easier.


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