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Communication with our neighbors is key to staying happy in the friendliest home town. Reporting them would not be the way I would go. Instead I would attempt to contact them
and assume that they are not aware of the situation. Kindness is key above all else to having a good relationship |
We still have a neighbor who would never give any of us his contact info.
He said, "my wife's sister looks in from time to time." We said, 'well, if your house gets struck by lightening, or other things of equal or lesser emergence, how will 'she' know? He shrugged. Baaaaad Neighbor, who NEVER does anything beyond mandatory mowing. Absolutely NOTHING to maintain the trees, shrubs and beds. Hope he "stays" in Michigan because he doesn't do a thing when he's here either. There's always A FEW! |
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Weeds are a problem when the seeds blow with the wind and one pays to keep up with them while others may careless so no it's not a insignificant "welcome to FL" moment. Same with landscaping bug treatments. I would contact the neighbor and let them know its not being done. Then go from there as far as filing a complaint if the weeds continue. I do know that Community Standards doesn't do much unless the yard is over the top unsightly. |
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My point is, assuming your neighbor is remiss is an assumption that may be unwarranted. A neighborly phone call/text/email would be in order, upon the assumption that they may be unaware. :shrug: Incidentally, if you or anyone has any suggestions for mowing in Tall Trees, I'm all ears ... thanks FredF |
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OP, I would suggest that you download and read your deed restriction document from the website, "districtgov.org". Here is what mine says about weeds:
"Maintenance of landscaping shall further mean the exercise of generally accepted garden-management practices necessary to promote a healthy, weed-free environment for optimum plant growth". Obviously, this is very subjective and common sense is not sufficient to ensure the agreement of everyone. That is why I would suggest getting an opinion from the Community Standards office as to whether your neighbor is in compliance with their standards. That is their job. You don't need to "turn them in" but it will at least give you an official opinion when you discuss the issue with the neighbor. |
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I don’t think Community Standards just drives around giving opinions…….they respond to complaints. |
Good neighbors are great things to have, we lucked out and are surrounded by a great group of folks. They keep an eye on things while you're gone and let you know so it doesn't get out of hand. I'm confident I could ask anyone of them and I'd get assistance and that goes the other way as well.
In my opinion one of the best things about this place. |
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While on the subject, I'll take the opportunity to speak highly of "Terrence" - an independant lawn guy I've gotten to know a bit in our neighborhood. I *think* his company is Outdoor Maintenance. No website. The type of person that you like to see succeed. I believe his number is 352-303-6127. Hope it's OK to post that here. |
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My neighbor goes away for awhile, a couple of times every year. She and I are on good terms, and she asked if I could just keep an eye on the house while she's away. Our neighborhood is a "I have a key" kind of neighborhood. If there's a lightning storm that shorts out the power, I can go into her house and make sure everything's working and the AC doesn't need to be reset. When she's gone, I do the weeding for her. Her lawn guy doesn't go into the flower beds, he only mows the lawn. Hubby and I keep her shrubs trimmed and even, I weed, and she usually pays us (we never told her we expected any money but she offers, so we gratefully accept whatever she puts in the envelope). When she gets back she usually does that stuff herself.
So my suggestion isn't merely to inform your neighbor that their weeds are high - it's to offer to clear up the weeds for them. And maybe your neighbor will buy you dinner to thank you for it, or even pay you for your time and service. |
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So much better than calling community standards. |
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I have watched some try to be nice to someone in the neighborhood, and let them know that new landscaping needs ARC, and just file after the fact. Sometimes it goes well, but mostly it doesn’t. We had the nicest widow 4 houses down, who removed all her landscaping because it was too much trouble. Next door neighbors offered to replace and help her maintain, she started calling late at night, sending ugly mail, and basically became a not so nice person to those who were only try to help. When weekly driveway parties, happened we had authorities show up. It wasn’t easy to live there and like us moved. At least if it was anonymous it might have been easier. |
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