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mamamia54 08-03-2021 07:28 PM

With the influx of northerners. Really. I smile at everyone I pass. I can easily strike up a conversation like I knew you all my life! We also pass golf carts and I smile and people stay stoned faced. I said so my hubby so much for the friendliest town. More like some people are miserable no matter where they live. Lighten up, be happy and enjoy what’s left of our lives.

MaryAnne28 08-04-2021 05:24 AM

When I walk in TV and in NY, I mostly greet those passing by. When I don’t, it’s not because I’m unfriendly. It’s either because I have my earbuds on and talking/listening to the person on the phone. Or it could be I have something I my mind that I’m thinking about and not looking around. I am from NY and considered friendly. Don’t take it personally and don’t label those that don’t acknowledge you today. Tomorrow they can be the first one saying hello.

JMintzer 08-04-2021 07:22 AM

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But they get a pass if they have a dog... :icon_wink:

ROCKMUP 08-04-2021 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Mrodmh (Post 1982751)
If you expect to be thanked, don’t do it. Saying “you’re welcome” in a passive aggressive way is completely immature.

I do expect people to act correctly, simple decency isn't difficult nor does it cost you a single thing. If you're so lazy or self absorbed that you can't be bothered to reply, its what you'll get. I was raised better than that.



Immature, maybe but I'm good with that.

mady101 08-04-2021 09:47 AM

Thank you for the poem, Smiling is Infectious. Brought a smile to my face and will pass it on.

cswett5234 08-04-2021 10:31 AM

Compliment only please!
 
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Originally Posted by Travelingal702 (Post 1982840)
....A few nice words can make a person's day and it certainly doesn't hurt the person making the compliments. Kindness goes a long way!

good point, I know if I see a woman and there's something striking about her (nice shoes, cool hair, pretty dress...), I quickly mention it in passing and keep right on moving, not stopping to engage or make things awkward for her...just a short, "....hey, cool hair by the way..." and keep on walking. They don't need to think I'm stalking them or expecting dinner or more, just a simple compliment.

Gpsma 08-04-2021 01:04 PM

Oh please this isnt Podunk where u came from...TV has become a city.

I dont feel obligated to be Jed Clampet and wave and smile at everyone.

Someome waves or says hello i wil, respond. But im not driving in my car or golf cart thinking I should be the greeter of the Villages.

Velvet 08-04-2021 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by cswett5234 (Post 1983489)
good point, I know if I see a woman and there's something striking about her (nice shoes, cool hair, pretty dress...), I quickly mention it in passing and keep right on moving, not stopping to engage or make things awkward for her...just a short, "....hey, cool hair by the way..." and keep on walking. They don't need to think I'm stalking them or expecting dinner or more, just a simple compliment.

Some people don’t like to be commented on their looks, or what they wear. It’s not like everyone dresses for others’ attention. It is personal and they simply don’t care whether someone else likes it or not and they are not interested in hearing about it. There are better ways to start a conversation. Or a short genuine smile, that is usually appreciated.

DruannB 08-04-2021 09:46 PM

Today I accidentally scared the crap out of a woman who had stopped at the McDonald’s drive up. I ran up to her car because I heard a baby crying loudly. The woman was on her cell phone. Her newborn was in the back seat next to the door—which was wide open. When I got her attention and told her that her door was open, she looked back at her baby and started to cry. She said she had been driving for miles with the door open. I thank God I was friendly enough to get her attention but I have been worried ever since about a mother that ignores a newborn crying. And is on her cell phone while driving. We used to say it takes a village to raise a child. Obviously, it still does.

Nucky 08-05-2021 03:39 AM

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Originally Posted by banjobob (Post 1982628)
When we bought here 9 years ago everyone seemed to wave as being part of big family . With the influx of northerners small town old fashioned friendliness is gone, scowls and gloom seems to be their natural manner.

Yeah those Canadian People are Rough!

You’ve gotta be kidding?

Two Bills 08-05-2021 04:12 AM

I was taking an early morning walk past Lake Sumpter a while ago, when I saw a guy swimming.
He was a really friendly chap who waved and greeted me several time before dissapearing. I acknowledged his greetings, wished him good morning, and continued my walk.
I heard on the news later that some poor man was found drowned at Lake Sumter.
So sad.:icon_wink:

La lamy 10-01-2021 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Two Bills (Post 1983826)
I was taking an early morning walk past Lake Sumpter a while ago, when I saw a guy swimming.
He was a really friendly chap who waved and greeted me several time before dissapearing. I acknowledged his greetings, wished him good morning, and continued my walk.
I heard on the news later that some poor man was found drowned at Lake Sumter.
So sad.:icon_wink:

Wow, that was dark humor!!! :1rotfl: :1rotfl: Glad there was a winky face included.

JMintzer 10-01-2021 04:31 PM

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