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hulahips 04-30-2015 07:51 PM

I personally love the sound of them but because we are so close to each other I won't put them up for exactly the reason you mentioned

sunnyatlast 04-30-2015 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by buckscounty (Post 1053930)
Not too many people like wind chimes, they are very annoying.

I think the small, high pitched ones that TINKLE are annoying and sound cheap. But big tenor and bass pipe ones can be deep and soothing. Those are costlier, but worth it. Low tones don't carry like high-toned TINKLY ones do.

Lovey2 04-30-2015 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by teritat (Post 1053924)
Thanks for all your suggestions and comments. I went over today and explained about the noise of the wind chimes. My neighbor was not pleased but she did say she would move it. I thanked her and left to go out to dinner. Just drove past her house and the wind chimes are gone. Not sure I'll ever be invited over for drinks, but I can open my front door and it's quiet!

You did the right thing. Maybe she'll give it some thought and realize it was more neighborly of you to go to her, than call Code Enforcement, or whoever.

gerryann 04-30-2015 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by teritat (Post 1053924)
Thanks for all your suggestions and comments. I went over today and explained about the noise of the wind chimes. My neighbor was not pleased but she did say she would move it. I thanked her and left to go out to dinner. Just drove past her house and the wind chimes are gone. Not sure I'll ever be invited over for drinks, but I can open my front door and it's quiet!

Good for you! You handled it in a friendly neighborly fashion. 👍

kcrazorbackfan 04-30-2015 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by kstew43 (Post 1053561)
wait till they go out to dinner and place them on the ground so they appear to have fallen. maybe the neighbor will take them down to check them out and possibly move them. can't hurt trying.....

Wouldn't recommend doing that; you never know when a neighbor is going to have small, discreet cameras watching their place or a passerby sees you doing that. Things could go bad in a hurry. Just man-up (or lady-up) and go discuss it with the neighbor. It's one thing to go onto a neighbor's property, it's another to mess with their belongings.

Buffalo Jim 04-30-2015 08:42 PM

Perhaps you should thank them with a gift card for lunch or dinner or perhaps some flowers . Might ease any bad feelings .

Fraugoofy 04-30-2015 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Buffalo Jim (Post 1053968)
Perhaps you should thank them with a gift card for lunch or dinner or perhaps some flowers . Might ease any bad feelings .

Really good suggestion for sure!

Barefoot 04-30-2015 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by teritat (Post 1053924)
I went over today and explained about the noise of the wind chimes. My neighbor was not pleased but she did say she would move it. I thanked her and left to go out to dinner. Just drove past her house and the wind chimes are gone. Not sure I'll ever be invited over for drinks, but I can open my front door and it's quiet!


Good for you! You identified a problem and handled it with class. Well done. :thumbup:
I sincerely hope that my neighbors would tell me if there is anything we are doing that they find annoying.
Much better than simmering in silence.

maybe 04-30-2015 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by jimmemac (Post 1053495)
I have a wind chime on my front porch and I would hope my neighbor would say something to me if it really bothered her.

With the small lots most of us have, and the frequent winds, I highly suspect they already do bother some of your neighbors. When it comes to hearing sounds from neighboring lots, I think most of us prefer zero.

graciegirl 05-01-2015 03:58 AM

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Originally Posted by maybe (Post 1054006)
With the small lots most of us have, and the frequent winds, I highly suspect they already do bother some of your neighbors. When it comes to hearing sounds from neighboring lots, I think most of us prefer zero.


I agree.

Most people wouldn't tell you that something bothered them, even if asked. So perhaps if you have wind chimes you should think twice?

A word to the wise is sufficient.


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