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A 14 day ban? My OPINION when people resort to name calling it lowers my OPINION of them. |
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Some folks do not understand when they are miserable because they enjoy being miserable. I guess that even a few nice photos shared is also "click bait" to some. |
Summer is the best in TV and not something on my negative list.
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Back when I first came on ToTV there were "someone" who disparaged the community, the developer etc. I asked the question to one individual with "then why do you live here?" The answer that came back was "because I like the life-style!" Really?? My take is, you can't take it both ways. Some people will complain and gripe because they lack something within themselves. They can't find satisfaction with anything. Social media is an outlet for them (anonymously) to dump. What I would say to them....start a gratitude journal. List everything you're actually grateful for.....then see if the attitude changes.
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"The wife loves it and the guy hates it." i could write a book on that. First of all we allow the use of the word HATE, far too often. Not too long ago everything was awesome. The word was so over used that it lost all meaning. I do my best to keep my HATE LIST empty. Empty so that when something qualifies for the list I can give it my full attention. Right now it is empty. You can find something to like anywhere. There is always the sport of trying to understand your wife. Hate is a mindless yet powerful emotion. It feeds on itself. It is a MOB emotion. We see it endlessly HOW CAN YOU NOT? |
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As far as social media. Most are one line. Posters, assume that you fill in the MISSING details with proper information and that you know or care to know their life history while we all hide behind anonymity . It is clearly a problem with no solution |
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Honestly, I moved here to put some distance between us and family. Didn't like the drama. I do not care whether anyone else in the Villages likes it or not. I am fine with it, but I was also fine with my last home. What other folks think about the Villages doesn't matter because it has absolutely no effect on how I think of it. But, one of the many things that I do like that comes to mind is the fact that in every neighborhood in the Villages, there is ALWAYS a neighbor that is at home, in case one has an emergency. There is always someone in the neighborhood that "SEES" anything unusual happening. And there is always someone around to lend a hand when one needs assistance. Generally speaking, even though some are cold spirited persons from the proverbial "Northern" territories/states, they are good people. I don't know if it is just the general attitude here or what, but most folks that seem to be harsh still come thru when someone needs assistance or directions.
Yep, some neighbors complain about the "developers" but I ignore it. As far as I am concerned, after I purchased I did not need to have any association with the "developers." When I first moved here, I subscribed to the "Sun" but found that I was just recycling a lot of paper that I did not even get a chance to peruse. I discontinued it because it turned out to be a waste of a few bucks that could be used elsewhere. My spouse loves it here so that is all that matters to me. Keep your dogs off my lawn and I will have no complaints. I do not care about the stupid drivers, how you park or whether or not you knock down the gates because you are too stupid to stop. I don't care about decals on the mail boxes, or little white crosses in your yard. But, I do love it when family complains about the snow up North while I enjoy the sunshine on my legs when I wear shorts all year long. I also love it when I can go a whole year without observing a "gator" and when a family member visits, we suddenly see one that seems to be posing for us as we drive through the Villages. When you are granted years of time with your spouse that shouldn't have happened without God's intervention, you appreciate even the "grouches" in the Villages. Too bad that sharing your feelings with others doesn't always result in a change in their disposition. |
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Let’s see? Joined in feb 2021? And now have villager’s figured out. Good job 👏. |
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We wound up buying after 10-12 days of coming for our first trip (again, my wife was quite hesitant), but since we've settled on the house and been to our home 5-6 times, she can't wait to get back... Just when you think you've figured them out... ;) |
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Thank you for your sage comments and opinions.
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I am not continuously amazed; nor am I even continually amazed. Some people seem born to gripe and that is what they do. Even in a near Eden, they will be looking for the cracks in the sidewalk so to speak. Too, things that once amazed me no longer do. In fact it take a lot to amaze me much anymore. Granted, some of the unprecedented insanity that has arisen since the start of the pandemic did initially amaze me but no longer does as I have become inured to it..
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Enough already! : :Screen_of_Death: |
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I felt the same way when I worked. I had employees that would come into my office and complain about everything. I couldn't understand why they worked there!! No one was holding a gun to their head. Find a better employer that doesn't frustrate you! But they stayed. Well... until I forced some of them out. Can't do that here... sigh... |
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There are a lot of people that would rather say something in hopes that others will gather on the same idea and create change. Then there are those of you that just take it as it is and never move to change anything because you just play the hand you are dealt like nothing is wrong with it - aka the sheep. Also the problem with this country. Personally I vent everything, it makes sense it creates change and I don't bend over for anyone. |
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some people get their kicks stomping on a dream. But I don't let it get me down...." |
I have lots of boxes for the people who have any complaints..
we r retired people!! Just chillllax and enjoy!! |
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I try to remember to be positive, even when things are not going perfectly - and that there remain stresses, challenges in folks day to day lives - and their pasts as is the case for all of us. That said, I choose to be happy, recognize and be grateful & thankful for gifts and opportunities given to me and the situation I currently find myself in. As someone else posted - some will find issues with everything, unfortunately they will not be happy with much of anything. And “if you have your health, you have everything” right? Respectfully, DB |
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I love a year ago or so, a guy came on here complaining about life in the villages. Turns out he had rented here 8 years prior for only a month and lives elsewhere in Florida. Why would you follow the forums of a place you hate 8 years after you left it?
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