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Taltarzac725 01-12-2016 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by dbussone (Post 1170748)
Is she playing a drum or a bugle? And what is the song? I trust a piece by John Philip Sousa.

Actually this woman has no accompanying band just probably a lot of admiring glances from men in cars and golf carts going by. I met her husband a few years back.

Chellybean 01-12-2016 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1170677)
How would you like to hear his freakin music blaring through your house @ 6:15 every morning for -4+ years-my next door neighbor feels this guys is looking into her house--get real--this isn't a game --this guy is NUTS

Also- we all heard him SCREAMING @ his wife for spending $16.00/ without asking his permission--this happened 3 years ago

what i like to know is how we went from working out at 6:30 am in speedo's to yelling at his wife, to looking in to someones windows.
Come on with the houses so close proximity, it is impossible to walk on the side of a home without walking 5 feet from someones windows.
It sounds like no one likes this person because he's different and all you folks in my opinion need to get a life if you are listening to a husband and wife having a dispite.
Jezzzzzzz!!! i am glad i don't live in your neighborhood!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dbussone 01-12-2016 09:46 PM

Neighborhood Narcissist
 
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Originally Posted by Taltarzac725 (Post 1170778)
Actually this woman has no accompanying band just probably a lot of admiring glances from men in cars and golf carts going by. I met her husband a few years back.


Thanks Tal I have nothing to better that. And I bet they are a very nice couple.

Taltarzac725 01-12-2016 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by dbussone (Post 1170831)
Thanks Tal I have nothing to better that. And I bet they are a very nice couple.

They seem to be. I met the husband in a professional setting though but should not say anymore or someone will figure out whom I am talking about if they have not already. He is a funny guy.

CFrance 01-13-2016 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by tomwed (Post 1170603)
And if you wear a spedo and spend too much time in the sun you could get melimegalomanoma.

But everyone can rest assured you aren't packing.

Fraugoofy 01-13-2016 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1170229)
I live in Tamarind Grove, to put it very blunt. There is a man who exercises in his drive way @ 6:30 am blaring music every morning. Today this was the topper-@ 12:30 he was sprawled out on his front lawn in shorts--bare chested - stretched out in some un Godly stretched position.

This guy is a first class nut--the neighborhood refers to him as Miami Mike

Sorry for the loud music at 630am. Maybe if you joined him in YOUR speedo it might make a point? Let me know if you need any help and I will dig out my teeny tiny polka-dot bikini...

Barefoot 01-13-2016 01:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1170677)
Also- we all heard him SCREAMING @ his wife for spending $16.00/ without asking his permission--this happened 3 years ago

This happened three years ago and your neighbors are still talking about it? :shocked: It must be a really quiet neighborhood.
I can see that the blaring music at 6:30 AM might be a problem. However if your neighbor is doing yoga at noon, why would that offend you?

rubicon 01-13-2016 05:24 AM

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Originally Posted by RickeyD (Post 1170598)
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a personality disorder in which a person is excessively preoccupied with personal adequacy, power, prestige and vanity, mentally unable to see the destructive damage they are causing to themselves and others. It is a cluster B personality disorder.[1]

It is estimated that this condition affects one percent of the population, with rates greater for men. First formulated in 1968, NPD was historically called megalomania, and is a form of severe egocentrism.[2]

yea a ja beep

rubicon 01-13-2016 05:38 AM

Wow! This thread is popular I cant believe how many posts since I first visited it but then I do play golf in the cold weather.

don't really care what people do and am aware that there are probably things about me that others dislike.

However on the serious side I believe there is a noise ordinance to refrain from noise until 8:00AM. At least that is best as I can recall. Besides being thoughtful is one of my good traits:D and I never do yard work until 8:00 AM so as not to disturb my late sleeping neighbors

I also agree that the two people being discussed are no doubt really nice people and I hope they would view all this chatter as just having a little fun

In fact I hope no one participating on this thread takes it that seriously. Its just another past time distraction ,etc for me . an opportunity to visit about various topics express an opinion but like a bad golf shot once done I think upon no more.

speaking of which I have to shower( hope that's not too personal) and get to the golf course for an early tee time

RickeyD 01-13-2016 05:55 AM

Neighborhood Narcissist
 
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Originally Posted by tomwed (Post 1170759)
I'm not sure what you are suggesting. Could you put it in your own words?


Simply trying to put things into proper prospective. Personally, I don't like people ganging up on anyone because they are different in appearance or behavior. I abhor the feeding frenzy by pseudo intellectuals who use witty phrases and words to bash people and simultaneously gather support from others under the guise of mature innocence and wisdom.
I also don't like when one person who 's opinion deviates from the norm is summarily bashed so as to appear "weird", out of touch, with the same old love it or leave it attitude.
People are different for a reason, they are individuals. If someone has the resources to buy a ticket into paradise they are entitled to live their life in any way they choose without harassment as long as they do no harm to others.

Chellybean 01-13-2016 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by RickeyD (Post 1170887)
Simply trying to put things into proper prospective. Personally, I don't like people ganging up on anyone because they are different in appearance or behavior. I abhor the feeding frenzy by pseudo intellectuals who use witty phrases and words to bash people and simultaneously gather support from others under the guise of mature innocence and wisdom.
I also don't like when one person who 's opinion deviates from the norm is summarily bashed so as to appear "weird", out of touch, with the same old love it or leave it attitude.
People are different for a reason, they are individuals. If someone has the resources to by a ticket into paradise they are entitled to live their life in any way they choose without harassment as long as they do no harm to others.

Well SAID!
Someone said ( read above ) that this is lighthearted, come on this is nothing more than bashing and bulling-in to someone that is different. Grow up folks!

graciegirl 01-13-2016 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Chellybean (Post 1170911)
Well SAID!
Someone said ( read above ) that this is lighthearted, come on this is nothing more than bashing and bulling-in to someone that is different. Grow up folks!



It might well be if we were naming names and kicking fanny. We don't know exactly where Chatbrat lives....don't know if there are dozens of Speedo wearers. Don't even know who Chatbrat is or who you are. The Speedo wearer or the driveway exerciser probably don't read TOTV...and if they do...well one needs to get a longer and NEWER bathing suit and the other could turn off the music. In my opinion. Which is worth absolutely nothing except to people who love me.


I am not anonymous.


Are you coming to the Friday TOTV gathering? Didn't think so.

tomwed 01-13-2016 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by RickeyD (Post 1170887)
Simply trying to put things into proper prospective. Personally, I don't like people ganging up on anyone because they are different in appearance or behavior. I abhor the feeding frenzy by pseudo intellectuals who use witty phrases and words to bash people and simultaneously gather support from others under the guise of mature innocence and wisdom.
I also don't like when one person who 's opinion deviates from the norm is summarily bashed so as to appear "weird", out of touch, with the same old love it or leave it attitude.
People are different for a reason, they are individuals. If someone has the resources to by a ticket into paradise they are entitled to live their life in any way they choose without harassment as long as they do no harm to others.

This is like a college campus. We're all about the same age, we all can use the same amenities and separate checks is the norm. That's huge. There's not a lot of diversity here. The speedo doesn't matter to me. Like you said, he's not hurting anyone. For all I know it could have been a made up story to lighten the conversation.

There's a lot conversations out there about people who are not like us. They are on tv and in the news all the time and we are constantly reminded that we ought to be afraid. I'd rather talk about speedos.

Taltarzac725 01-13-2016 08:13 AM

Why Speedos are still huge in France | Fashion | The Guardian

Maybe the guy is French? Non? https://youtu.be/QJfCxgXr8dk

graciegirl 01-13-2016 08:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Taltarzac725 (Post 1170923)



J'en doute. Je pense que l'on est égoïste et l'autre est hors de style. Nous habite U.S.A.

tomwed 01-13-2016 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1170925)
J'en doute. Je pense que l'on est égoïste et l'autre est hors de style. Nous habite U.S.A.

Think about it. Speedo is an Eye-Talion word. If it was French it would be called a Rapidité.

graciegirl 01-13-2016 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by tomwed (Post 1170928)
Think about it. Speedo is an Eye-Talion word.



I think you are right. I love Italian food. Except for squid. Never have tried it. Sissy.


Tom. Diversion, humor, changing the subject and reasoning hasn't worked.


I didn't aim to hurt anyone's feelings about their choice of bathing suits or about exercising, did you? I think exercising and wearing bathing suits are an excellent choice. I can't help trying to find a bit of humor in things that aren't that serious to begin with. I think you will agree?

RickeyD 01-13-2016 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by tomwed (Post 1170922)
This is like a college campus. We're all about the same age, we all can use the same amenities and separate checks is the norm. That's huge. There's not a lot of diversity here. The speedo doesn't matter to me. Like you said, he's not hurting anyone. For all I know it could have been a made up story to lighten the conversation.

There's a lot conversations out there about people who are not like us. They are on tv and in the news all the time and we are constantly reminded that we ought to be afraid. I'd rather talk about speedos.


Never did like the college campus. Quit and joined the military knowing I'd be with people more like myself. Not that I couldn't keep up, just didn't like those people at all and didn't want to spend my career with people like them.

HimandMe 01-13-2016 08:30 AM

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Originally Posted by rubicon (Post 1170883)
Wow! This thread is popular I cant believe how many posts since I first visited it but then I do play golf in the cold weather.

don't really care what people do and am aware that there are probably things about me that others dislike.

However on the serious side I believe there is a noise ordinance to refrain from noise until 8:00AM. At least that is best as I can recall. Besides being thoughtful is one of my good traits:D and I never do yard work until 8:00 AM so as not to disturb my late sleeping neighbors

I also agree that the two people being discussed are no doubt really nice people and I hope they would view all this chatter as just having a little fun

In fact I hope no one participating on this thread takes it that seriously. Its just another past time distraction ,etc for me . an opportunity to visit about various topics express an opinion but like a bad golf shot once done I think upon no more.

speaking of which I have to shower( hope that's not too personal) and get to the golf course for an early tee time

Of course this is just a distraction as most know if they read long enough....we should thank him for all the entertainment.

tomwed 01-13-2016 08:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Taltarzac725 (Post 1170923)

With all due respect Tal, how can a speedo be huge? Think about it, for one, diving would be out of the question.

graciegirl 01-13-2016 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by RickeyD (Post 1170936)
Never did like the college campus. Quit and joined the military knowing I'd be with people more like myself. Not that I couldn't keep up, just didn't like those people at all and didn't want to spend my career with people like them.



My folks didn't have money to send kids to college. There are people who are good people who have a lot of formal education and those who have learned about life in the military or by working hard all of their lives. I am pretty sure all of us are more compassionate because of terribly hard and bitter things that have happened to us inevitably.


If we have the ability to read people pretty well and truly care about others, we have won the lottery.

golfing eagles 01-13-2016 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1170934)
I think you are right. I love Italian food. Except for squid. Never have tried it. Sissy.

Never??? Fried calamari with Vincent's hot sauce---can't beat it (except maybe lobster)

looneycat 01-13-2016 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Taltarzac725 (Post 1170402)
Are you out of lobster jokes yet???

Cannot really say I have any problem with the guy going around wearing just speedos. The early morning noise though would bother me.

how did the lobster feel after he was eaten? a shell of his former self!
why doesn't the lobster share with friends? because he's shellfish!
:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

dbussone 01-13-2016 08:54 AM

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Originally Posted by looneycat (Post 1170959)
how did the lobster feel after he was eaten? a shell of his former self!

why doesn't the lobster share with friends? because he's shellfish!

:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:


Well done! :)

graciegirl 01-13-2016 08:54 AM

Is squid one of those varmints that count as shellfish? When shellfish and I get together, one of us has to use the epipen and hurry to emergency.


I bet squid is a mollusk. I looked at it in the fish case at Publix. I think you have to grow up eating it. We Germans eat a bunch of other ugly stuff.

golfing eagles 01-13-2016 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1170965)
Is squid one of those varmints that count as shellfish? When shellfish and I get together, one of us has to use the epipen and hurry to emergency.


I bet squid is a mollusk. I looked at it in the fish case at Publix. I think you have to grow up eating it. We Germans eat a bunch of other ugly stuff.

Not a shellfish or mollusk---it's a cephalopod---basically a 10 armed octopus, but a lot less "chewy" if prepared correctly. Sprechen sie deutsch? Meine grossmutter ist aus Deutschland.

graciegirl 01-13-2016 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by golfing eagles (Post 1170970)
Not a shellfish or mollusk---it's a cephalopod---basically a 10 armed octopus, but a lot less "chewy" if prepared correctly. Sprechen sie deutsch? Meine grossmutter ist aus Deutschland.



Both of my paternal grandparents came from Germany.

pjcates 01-13-2016 09:17 AM

Thanks for the great laugh!!!

Taltarzac725 01-13-2016 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by tomwed (Post 1170941)
With all due respect Tal, how can a speedo be huge? Think about it, for one, diving would be out of the question.

That is huggggeeeee like with a certain hairstyle challenged person.

Miles42 01-13-2016 09:46 AM

This has been an amusing thread to say the least.

Fraugoofy 01-13-2016 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by golfing eagles (Post 1170970)
Not a shellfish or mollusk---it's a cephalopod---basically a 10 armed octopus, but a lot less "chewy" if prepared correctly. Sprechen sie deutsch? Meine grossmutter ist aus Deutschland.

Ja, ich bin ehemahliger Deutschlehrerin.

justjim 01-13-2016 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Miles42 (Post 1171006)
This has been an amusing thread to say the least.

Well, amusing is one way to put it. Many posts way way off the "subject" but that isn't too unusual for some threads. Perhaps some are like me---don't really know how to respond to the OP. From OP'S description of the neighborhood character, he could be a Narcissist I suppose and for sure sounds like he has a personality disorder.

Hey, I have observed a lot of "weird" people in this old' world. Best to just ignore them (if you can) and go on about your business. :read:

Taltarzac725 01-13-2016 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by justjim (Post 1171157)
Well, amusing is one way to put it. Many posts way way off the "subject" but that isn't too unusual for some threads. Perhaps some are like me---don't really know how to respond to the OP. From OP'S description of the neighborhood character, he could be a Narcissist I suppose and for sure sounds like he has a personality disorder.

Hey, I have observed a lot of "weird" people in this old' world. Best to just ignore them (if you can) and go on about your business. :read:

Or maybe the Midnight Man has lost his pizzazz with the ladies and trying another tactic? Speedos at dawn?

Chatbrat 01-13-2016 03:49 PM

He doesn't wear speedos-he wears ghetto basket ball shorts

RickeyD 01-13-2016 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1171184)
He doesn't wear speedos-he wears ghetto basket ball shorts

You started this. Why don't you just man up, approach this guy and tell him what a dork he is and to please conform to community standards. Posting here ain't gonna do sh*t.:cryin2:

jbdlfan 01-13-2016 04:34 PM

Soooooo, let me get this straight. Exercising in the morning with no shirt and laying in your own yard and getting some sun is weird, narcissistic, nutso, crazy, out of your mind, nut case, etc. But taking a dog to a restaurant, pushing a dog around in a buggy, taking a dog to the store, dog in the front seat while spouse is in the back, stealing Sweet n Lo, roping off chairs at the square are all normal behavior???? Oh, and eating supper at 4:30.
Who would have thunk it.....

Taltarzac725 01-13-2016 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by jbdlfan (Post 1171204)
Soooooo, let me get this straight. Exercising in the morning with no shirt and laying in your own yard and getting some sun is weird, narcissistic, nutso, crazy, out of your mind, nut case, etc. But taking a dog to a restaurant, pushing a dog around in a buggy, taking a dog to the store, dog in the front seat while spouse is in the back, stealing Sweet n Lo, roping off chairs at the square are all normal behavior???? Oh, and eating supper at 4:30.
Who would have thunk it.....

Actually after watching people in Reno and Las Vegas as well as Phoenix, Minneapolis, Chicago, Tampa, St. Petersburg, and especially San Francisco; the guy in the speedo seems to be quite a tame thing to experience or hear about someone meeting.

My neighbor in Palm Harbor-- a Coast Guard helicopter pilot-- used to buzz the house every so often when he was on duty and off to see if his wife was cheating on him. The whole mess resulted in a divorce. No this was nothing to do with me but I was often in the pool on an mattress probably in a bathing suit. Homes in Palm Harbor had fences. Not ours as we had the pool with the lanai and birdcage.

I have no complaints about people treating their Villages' pets very well.


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