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Old 09-27-2022, 12:24 PM
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I’m literally days/weeks from purchasing in TV (The village of Richmond - Fingers crossed, as this village location is extremely popular with people seeking new builds). I’m a single 61 year old male, that will be all-about pickleball/bocce ball/water volleyball, and to a lesser-extent golf. I love having a late afternoon glass of wine at either Harvest or Blue Fin, grabbing a bite there, and then moving onto Brownwood square for entertainment. I’m pretty social, and have found it easy to meet people while eating at the bar, at the squares, having coffee, at the pools and rec centers, etc. I did two lifestyle visits this summer, and have been doing homework on TV daily for about five years, so I feel I have a real good grasp of TV. I’ll be coming back out for a few weeks in a few days. Here is my question — How can I quickly get paired up with a partner or team to engage in the activities I listed? Do I just contact the various clubs, and do they pair me up? I know I’ll eventually meet people who share my interests, but until I do, how do I “hit the ground running” and engage in these activities? Thanks for your replies, and so looking forward to becoming a TV resident and member of the community very soon!😀
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Old 09-27-2022, 01:24 PM
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Definitely check out the clubs and activities that interest you. Good place to find folks that share similar interests. Introduce yourself to the neighbors, you might find you "click" with someone close. And, be open to new activities and experiences.
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Old 09-27-2022, 01:29 PM
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There is 100k people here! Don’t rush into a relationship! Enjoy your freedom and live the dream before someone rips your heart out and steals your soul !
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Old 09-27-2022, 01:50 PM
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There is 100k people here! Don’t rush into a relationship! Enjoy your freedom and live the dream before someone rips your heart out and steals your soul !
OMG! Sounds like somebody done somebody wrong, big time. 😨

Actually, I read the post that OP wanted to pair up for sports and other social activities, not necessarily a romantic pairing.
While I consider your advice basically sound, I admit it startled me a bit. Somebody needs a drink to calm him down. Me. One 18yo single malt, 2oz strait up.

Now, back to the hurricane coverage for relaxation. 😎
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Old 09-27-2022, 01:58 PM
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Go to City Fire...you sound like a full scale Romeo. Remember, bring a wad of bills. $50s on the outside, $1 in between. The green haired babes will be all over you.
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Old 09-27-2022, 02:03 PM
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Go to City Fire...you sound like a full scale Romeo. Remember, bring a wad of bills. $50s on the outside, $1 in between. The green haired babes will be all over you.
"Green haired babes"? Sounds like an episode of Star Trek. 😐😈👧👴👹👽
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I'm an old married guy but for what it's worth...start by choosing a pickleball court near you and then go and play several times a week during open play -sunrise until 10. You should take the classes offered if you haven't already. Within a few weeks you will get to know a lot of the players. That can progress into joining one of the many groups that meet on certain days to play.

For male companionship consider playing softball. They play over 5,000 games a year here in several different leagues.

Your neighborhood will likely have a golf group of some sort.

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Old 09-27-2022, 02:15 PM
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You didn't mention where you would be staying for a few weeks, if in The Villages you'll need a resident ID card to participate in organized groups, if outside of TV I don't think you could play on any of them. Once you get your card you can start signing up.
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Old 09-27-2022, 02:33 PM
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Just to clarify - I’m not looking for any romantic pairings - lol - just anyone to share my activities with 😀
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Hang out at City Fire, flash some big bucks and maybe you'll get lucky.
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Look at a listing of clubs and join some that interest you. Due for most is very cheap.
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"Green haired babes"? Sounds like an episode of Star Trek. 😐😈👧👴👹👽
The woman from the original series were all very hot. I was partial to Yvonne Craig aka batgirl. Her body was green.
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Old 09-27-2022, 07:42 PM
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Water Volleyball that Im familiar with is at Everglades Rec in Marsh Bend.

Basic (beginner) 1pm Monday, 3pm Thursday. 1pm Friday, 1pm Sunday

Best to arrive 30 minutes before start time to get a ticket for entry, bring your rec card.
New players will be assigned a court to be instructed on rules of play, etc.

After being acclimated, you can join the general population.

Also Ezell Rec is building up a pretty good program, not sure of their schedule.
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Old 09-27-2022, 10:10 PM
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After being acclimated, you can join the general population.
I wonder if the rules are the same in the nearby Village of Coleman for joining "gen pop".
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Old 09-28-2022, 05:40 AM
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go to districtgov.org to the recreation tab for a list of all clubs in the villages.
also, pick up a recreation news paper and go to the sports pool pages for listing of all sports pools and their activities/days and times.
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