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in my experience, the people who are truly homeless do not tend to beg. they're the ones you see sitting quietly in a parking lot somewhere, with a cart or bicycle, minding their own business. those hit me the hardest. there's this one 'kid', probably in his 20's, in Leesburg who sits outside a building near DQ. he reads, (no phone) and looks pretty downtrodden. i will openly give to him, buy a meal, or whatever because i know what it's like to be down on your luck & just trying to get by. someone like him will never turn down goods, some food or even a friendly smile, & ive never seen him ask for $$.
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Yes I donate. I am from California and this is nothing. Every street corner is covered with people holding cardboard signs. I pretty much assume they wouldn’t be there unless they really needed it. But that’s just me.
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Early in the pandemic, Trump gave us $2400 (I think) for sitting on our butts, so I decided to give more to the people who are actually working, and I have kept doing that. |
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They tell you not to fed the animals because they will become dependent on hand outs the same goes for the homeless ..
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Meth is a great destroyer of teeth too and there is a connection between meth addiction and bulimia. |
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As I specified - this girl's face was clear. Only her teeth were bad. Bulimia can cause that. |
Giving money directly to "homeless" people keeps them poor and dependant and handouts. Instead give to charities that work to end the reasons they are destitute.
Of course most beggars are not homeless. |
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And I need a billion bucks, should I start a gofundme campaign? I’m honest too.
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.......Or they could (?) move to a home where there is no grass like maybe an apartment or an island of all rock surrounded by water - or a houseboat. Put your $ where your pie-hole is! |
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......I am very glad that you have had GOOD experiences with homeless people. Some are wonderful and if I were homeless, and could afford an RV, I would stay at Walmarts or other mall areas. In point of fact, I do stay in my compact car when I treat myself to motorized vacations to explore the US 1st hand and up close and personal. I also take naps on blankets in a public park during daylight hours - I only have to watch out for those male dogs that lift their legs. .......As I wrote on Pg 7 # 99 - I have had a mixed bag of early adult experiences with homeless people. But, strangely enough, I have had MUCH worse luck dealing with people that attend church regularly, which may be a compensation thing, as the psychologists believe. Compared to them - the homeless are angels. |
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Someone posted that the Walmart beggers are picked up by a white van at the end of the day. That reminds of the young kids who arrive in a white van and go door-to-door selling magazine subscriptions. In the 70's and 80's I've had them at my door. Probably the same people, magazine sales are down, so they just got a new angle.
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.............I can hear the jingle in my head......Pot, its a win / win NOT a sin / sin... Hee, he ...hee, he.......That's all folks! |
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You are quite right about the condition of the Walmart on Rt441. As a matter of fact, there are scammers and crooks working inside the store also. Not the employees, but the supposed customers that will work you in a heartbeat. I've been there once in the past 8 years and even then, I ended up leaving without purchasing anything. I know what it is like to be broke, but I have never begged or taken welfare, even though I qualified for it. Once you become addicted to handouts, you will start to expect them. You can work three part-time jobs to pay you way until you get a decent full-time job. If you are single, it's easy but if you have a family it is desperate. You do not have time to beg. You HAVE to find some work and you will take whatever is offered. Even cleaning toilets, raking leaves, or performing anything for a few bucks. No, as guilty as it makes me feel, I do not give money out to anyone hanging out by the stores where I have to shop. If someone says they are hungry, I will buy them a meal. But, I do not give them money. |
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Even little me has a suggestion, or 2 or more.........start a JOBS program like back in the real old days of Democracy giving all the willing a place to work and make money - even if you have to bend the minimum wage laws. ......Stop the STUPID**** ZONING LAWS that favor the wealth disparity, racism, and homelessness. I don't say,"let them eat cake" BUT I DO say:" let them live in tents". .......Put the Drug Cartel KILLERS of their addicted customers and coyotes that are caught into Japanese-style prisons for long terms. Attempt to rehab the addicted customers. ........Make POT legal and ALL others (except maybe for Native American ceremonies) and study peyote to see if it has bad side effects. .....Control the legal pharmacy DRUG overuse and "pill mills" and greedy and lazy Doctors that overprescribe. .......I think that would be a good START! And also worry about 2024. The future needs to be so bright that I will need shades! |
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At the end of one particular day, some of the homeless people invited me to THEIR home - the cemetery two blocks away. I went, and they shared the food they had bought with what they'd acquired through panhandling, and we passed around a couple quarts of Miller (blech but it's the thought that counts), and I slept in a beat up sleeping bag next to a wino who had his own blanket and pillow. We were up past midnight talking about life, experiences. A couple of the folks were drug addicts and one was having an unpleasant experience with drugs that night, but they gave him his space and he zoned out without incident. I can't say I'd ever want to be homeless, and I'm not sure I'd want to make a vacation out of sleeping in graveyards. But it opened my eyes to the experience, and gave me some empathy I hadn't had prior to that. Perhaps because I actually DID "walk in their shoes" for a day, I'm able to be a little less judgmental about the concept of homelessness. For those "christians" who choose to judge - remember your catechism or bible lessons or whatever you folks get when you're kids. Does this make me naive? Nope. In fact, it makes me a little more experienced and "enlightened" than you. It gives me the "street cred" that you apparently lack. I know when I see an addict, and I can tell when someone actually needs money to survive and is down on his luck, and when someone is doing just fine and is trying to scam me out of my money. As for the guy eating the McDonald's burger - I actually watched an Sonic Employee hand out bags of food to each of the three people with signs - one at the Walmart driveway corner, one near the Dollar store, and one at the driveway across the street where McDonald's is. Seems minimum wage employees are more generous than wealthy old people. Not surprised. A little disgusted, but not surprised. |
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....the point of that IS that each person makes a RISK calculation when they give money (not food or water) to a homeless person - or even money to a national charity. How much is the money you give do you (the giver) think goes to good, or waste, or even greed and bad (that is the RISK CALCULATION)? .....Many a TRULY good person IS so GOOD or NAIVE that they don't bother to look for any unintended consequences of their action (the giving). I am NOT TRULY good and I tend to be suspicious snd look for the unintended results of mine and other people's actions - even US leaders! |
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But it would be more traffic and smoke.........double Boo! |
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