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nancyre 09-27-2022 08:17 AM

Transporation
 
Para-Transit is available in the Lake County portion of the Villages, I believe Sumter now too. Food delivery from instacart, Walmart & Krogers.

LuvNH 09-27-2022 08:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Villages Kahuna (Post 2140354)
You neglected to mention all the good stuff in The Villages that offset all your negatives. There’s no question that living here is a different lifestyle than we’ve been accustomed to. But the vast majority of people moving here enjoy the variety and depth of opportunities available to us here. The Developers sales program is even called a Lifestyle Preview. Most people try it… and like it.

This thread has nothing to do with LIKING TV, it has everything to do with how to live here when you can no longer drive or no longer want to take part in any of the vast numbers of clubs and interests available. Also lets not forget you have to get to the clubs. People need a viable alternative to the dreaded nursing home or assisted living. It is a mobility/transportation issue.

chrissy2231 09-27-2022 09:09 AM

TV
 
We have Uber & Lyft...PLUS, the most helpful population of residents I have ever encountered!

ElDiabloJoe 09-27-2022 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Stu from NYC (Post 2140211)
When the time comes you both cannot drive, this is not the right place or you. Until them lots to recommend here.

Well, YMMV. My 92 (93 in Nov) mother lives alone, 600 miles from nearest family in a state that is strict with DL renewals. She just got hers renewed last month for another 4 years. So, Your Mileage May Vary. There are no absolutes. There does not have to be a time that comes when they both cannot drive.

Stu from NYC 09-27-2022 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by ElDiabloJoe (Post 2140399)
Well, YMMV. My 92 (93 in Nov) mother lives alone, 600 miles from nearest family in a state that is strict with DL renewals. She just got hers renewed last month for another 4 years. So, Your Mileage May Vary. There are no absolutes. There does not have to be a time that comes when they both cannot drive.

As the old saying goes nothing is for sure but death and taxes.

For us we love the activities we are able to go to. When that stops happening for us think we would be better off in an apartment where there is better transportation options.

From what I have heard, and hopefully that is wrong, lyft and uber not that readily available here.

Laker14 09-27-2022 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2140361)
Try using your wisdom which is more precious than peals instead of attacking the obvious

are you just reading fortune cookies to us today?

Dgodin 09-27-2022 09:17 AM

Great place to retire
 
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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2140198)
Younger retirees and older ones don’t usually give a thought to the availability of transportation. They’re accustomed to hopping into cars and going where they wish, whenever the spirit moves them.
But that independence and freedom rarely lasts forever. If you intend to stay in a new community as you age, you may eventually want one where you can use buses, trains, light rail, cabs and ride-sharing companies.
So, long before you need it, assure yourself that your new town has plenty of ways to get around.
It’s self-evident, but it’s worth saying: Older people consume more medical care. And they often require care from specialists and facilities specializing in orthopedics and geriatric care.
Find out whether your destination has what you need by talking with folks and calling providers.
Housing is the biggest factor in most Americans’ budgets. Eliminate a mortgage payment or rent, and you can keep housing costs from changing while your income is fixed.
Moving to an area where housing prices and rents are high can put a serious strain on your retirement budget. Think twice before doing so
.Many Americans cycle into and out of retirement. Some retirees grow bored and want the stimulation they used to get from work. Others learn that their retirement income doesn’t stretch as far as they’d hoped.
You, too, may want to work again after being retired for a while. In addition, a town with plenty of living-wage jobs is a healthy, livable town with a strong economy — the best kind of place to live.
Talk with people you meet to gather a sense of how friendly the community is. If you are looking for a faith community, investigate the congregations that might appeal to you and attend services at several to test the waters.
Ask yourself where and how you will make friends. Shop the grocery stores at a couple of different times of day and week to see if people are interacting or simply hurrying in and out. Try to pick up a sense of how warm and open to newcomers the town is.
Even those who are not social types may be unhappy in an atmosphere that is cold, exclusive or frenetic.
Where do people gather in the community you are considering? Try to look at the place with the eyes of someone who has just moved there: Visit the coffee shops, senior center, parks and movie theaters.
If you speak a language other than English, is there a cultural center where you’ll feel at home?
If you plan on staying in the community for the rest of your life, it’s smart to look at resources you may need down the road. Ask real estate agents and others you meet about the availability of home health care aides. How many agencies are in town? Are their services highly recommended?
Even if you don’t mind not seeing family members for extended periods of time, think about the fact that your children or loved ones may one day need to take an active role in your care — perhaps even becoming your caregivers.
Great distances make caregiving stressful and often agonizingly difficult for adult children who are also raising families and working.

We carefully considered our needs in relation to advancing age, and expected mobility and medical issues.
The villages was a good choice. We have a single story low maintenance home which is now just 4 years old.
We have 5 grocery stores in approximatey a 2 mile radius, all of which are golf cart accessible. And we expect to be able to use a golf cart for transportation even after we no longer feel safe driving a car.
Medical facilities are also close and golf cart accessible.
And The Villages has a lot of lifestyle offerings with plenty of sports activities. When we can no longer play sports we'll join some of the less active clubs.
So yes it is important to consider all of the issues related ro rerired living and we believe the Villages is a good choice.

mikeycereal 09-27-2022 10:45 AM

I'm retiring in TV and I'm not a golfer.

I lived in Vegas and wasn't a gambler.

I lived in Colorado Springs and wasn't a skier.

I grew up in Hawaii and wasn't a surfer.

Wherever you move to.... there you are! :cool:

Laker14 09-27-2022 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by mikeycereal (Post 2140427)
I'm retiring in TV and I'm not a golfer.

I lived in Vegas and wasn't a gambler.

I lived in Colorado Springs and wasn't a skier.

I grew up in Hawaii and wasn't a surfer.

Wherever you move to.... there you are! :cool:

What aspects of TV did you find the most appealing?

Vermilion Villager 09-27-2022 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Villages Kahuna (Post 2140354)
You neglected to mention all the good stuff in The Villages that offset all your negatives. There’s no question that living here is a different lifestyle than we’ve been accustomed to. But the vast majority of people moving here enjoy the variety and depth of opportunities available to us here. The Developers sales program is even called a Lifestyle Preview. Most people try it… and like it.

Exactly!
The OP list a whole host of things to consider. Question for him is do you consider a nursing home a retirement community? The answer is of course not. The villages is a retirement community and nobody ever said or implied it is a place you are guaranteed live until the day you die.

coffeebean 09-27-2022 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by LuvNH (Post 2140382)
This thread has nothing to do with LIKING TV, it has everything to do with how to live here when you can no longer drive or no longer want to take part in any of the vast numbers of clubs and interests available. Also lets not forget you have to get to the clubs. People need a viable alternative to the dreaded nursing home or assisted living. It is a mobility/transportation issue.

Prior to needing to rely on other services when you cannot drive an automobile, there is getting around in a golf cart. I know people who are legally blind who still drive their golf cart around The Villages and so far, have been safe doing so.

Stu from NYC 09-27-2022 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by coffeebean (Post 2140457)
Prior to needing to rely on other services when you cannot drive an automobile, there is getting around in a golf cart. I know people who are legally blind who still drive their golf cart around The Villages and so far, have been safe doing so.

Scary. They will be safe until they are not and hopefully others will not pay for them still driving.

justjim 09-27-2022 12:25 PM

Everybody in The Villages should read post #7. Thank you for your insight as to the medical facilities available to residents in the area. My wife and I were spoiled prior to TV because we lived in a Midwest city with a medical school and many available doctors and excellent hospitals. It’s not perfect here (no place is) but considering the number of retirees it’s ahead of any retirement community in the country IMHO.

coffeebean 09-27-2022 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Stu from NYC (Post 2140459)
Scary. They will be safe until they are not and hopefully others will not pay for them still driving.

Agree to a point. I truly believe they will stop driving their cart when they feel they are not safe to do so. It is not like driving a car so there is that.

mikeycereal 09-27-2022 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Laker14 (Post 2140433)
What aspects of TV did you find the most appealing?

price of new house & loc/lifestyle, + near family


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