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OrangeBlossomBaby 09-28-2022 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by ElDiabloJoe (Post 2140399)
Well, YMMV. My 92 (93 in Nov) mother lives alone, 600 miles from nearest family in a state that is strict with DL renewals. She just got hers renewed last month for another 4 years. So, Your Mileage May Vary. There are no absolutes. There does not have to be a time that comes when they both cannot drive.

He didn't say "when the time comes for you to turn 92 or 93 years old." He said when the time comes when you can no longer drive. Eventually - everyone gets to that point. But not everyone is willing to admit it. And not everyone has the mental capacity to recognize when it's happening to themselves.

My aunt insisted she was an excellent driver. She continued insisting this after she smashed into a light pole - because she claimed the curb crumbled while she was taking a turn (it didn't, it was still 100% intact after the crash). She insisted this again when she failed the vision test. She insisted all was well even when people who COULD see fine, tried to drive her car but couldn't see out the windshield because it was coated in a thick layer of nicotine from 20 years of driving as a chain-smoker and NEVER cleaning the windshield.

The only surprise with my aunt, is that she never killed anyone with her horrible driving. She had her license taken from her when she was around 80. She drove anyway.

LuvNH 09-28-2022 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby (Post 2140730)
He didn't say "when the time comes for you to turn 92 or 93 years old." He said when the time comes when you can no longer drive. Eventually - everyone gets to that point. But not everyone is willing to admit it. And not everyone has the mental capacity to recognize when it's happening to themselves.

My aunt insisted she was an excellent driver. She continued insisting this after she smashed into a light pole - because she claimed the curb crumbled while she was taking a turn (it didn't, it was still 100% intact after the crash). She insisted this again when she failed the vision test. She insisted all was well even when people who COULD see fine, tried to drive her car but couldn't see out the windshield because it was coated in a thick layer of nicotine from 20 years of driving as a chain-smoker and NEVER cleaning the windshield.

The only surprise with my aunt, is that she never killed anyone with her horrible driving. She had her license taken from her when she was around 80. She drove anyway.

she sounds like a great lady, .... unless you were on the road when she was.

DaleDivine 09-28-2022 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by JSR22 (Post 2140199)
I am 100% certain that retiring in TV was the correct choice for my husband and I. He has 13 Championship golf courses to play and terrific practice facilities. We have made many friends that we socialize with and go to restaurants. I am very active in a number of clubs and have made a lot of good friends. We do not have children so no worry about them helping us. We have experienced no issues with health care. We still drive so no transportation issues. When we stop driving, we will use Uber. If owning our hoe becomes difficult there are large amount of Independent and Assisted Living Facilities.Life is Great here!

Gotta watch how you say HOE nowadays. Some people get offended...
;);)

DaleDivine 09-28-2022 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Djean1981 (Post 2140360)
Ba humbug! There is no perfect place. Once you can't drive there will be transportation issues anywhere - except maybe Europe. As far as family goes, I know people that moved closer to their family when they got older and they still didn't see their family more than a couple times a year. Unless you move in with family or on the same street, if they work, it may not matter much. At least here, there are tons of activities. There are transportation services with Sumner county if you schedule in advance, Uber, etc.

It's SUMTER County...
:welcome::ho:

DaleDivine 09-28-2022 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2140361)
Try using your wisdom which is more precious than peals instead of attacking the obvious

More precious than laughter???

:popcorn::popcorn:

Bilyclub 09-28-2022 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Laker14 (Post 2140526)
Joel, I suppose you may reach someone who hasn't already made a decision, but really, your audience here is nearly 100% made up of people who have already made theirs.
Will you share with us your agenda? You have been a member here since 2020, and nearly all of your posts are critical of TV, because there is no free public transportation.
What is your story? Do you think you'd be happy here if only there were free public transportation?


OP also has issues with our diversity. Most of the post contains subtle jabs at our way of life.

OrangeBlossomBaby 09-28-2022 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Bilyclub (Post 2140801)
OP also has issues with our diversity. Most of the post contains subtle jabs at our way of life.

I actually have issues with our lack of diversity. But to me, the blame for that lack belongs to the diverse. If we want our Villages to be truly inclusive, then the people who want to be included need to actually move here. I count myself among those diverse people who have moved here and advocate for diversity.

Yes, I'm white, and heterosexual, a woman who identifies as such, with all the appropriate bits. I'm also non-Christian, and non-conservative, and I embrace diversity rather than fear it. It's also why I was adamant about /not/ moving to the Villages unless I could live in an area with less restrictive restrictions than "south of Sumter" has. I like the differences, the creative touches my neighbors add to their yards and their houses. I see no cars on cinder blocks. And a brief talk to a neighbor (or at worst, a call to community standards) usually gets a wayward property back on track in little time, with little effort.

And if the neighbor is someone I know (as opposed to an absentee landlord I've never met) who's out of town for a month, then I'll yank the vines off their house myself.

Bilyclub 09-28-2022 06:43 PM

OBB I totally agree with you on diversity. Everybody who can afford to live here can. There is nothing stopping them. As far as subsidizing people to move here just to say we have diversity, hell no.


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