Byte1 |
08-30-2020 01:07 PM |
I have noticed all kinds of painted driveway designs that no one seems to take offense to. Perhaps a large cross painted onto the driveway would be accepted by all of these "well the rule is the rule" types.
There are a lot of hypocrites on here that espouse "rules are rules" that violate them in other ways every day. Of course, it's easier to just make excuses for their real fears by insisting that you are violating the rules when the real truth is that they are just plain offended that anyone can find happiness and peace by displaying a reminder to themselves and anyone that wishes to ask them why they are so contented. That little reminder gives them peace and happiness and shows folks that they can be welcome at their home. I'll bet there are plenty of visitors to the community that see those little crosses and know that there is a good chance that the neighborhood is friendly.
It does not matter a lot to me whether or not one places such a reminder in their yard. It does not bother me if some agitators wish to argue how it will lead to satanic symbols and star of David symbols. In my opinion, if the neighborhood does not like it they will let you know. There are always those that are being spiritually convicted that will be adamantly against anything that makes them uncomfortable. There will always be those around that wish to silence any view that is contrary to their own selfish banner.
On the other hand, I do not condone placing objects on a property that will obviously alienate your neighbors. To me, if I plan to live in a particular neighborhood, I want to become a good neighbor. I have seen how folks point at a passerby and say "he (or she) is a miserable person." I have never heard anyone mention that they were disturbed by a neighbor placing a small white cross, a Virgin Mary or even a Buddha statue in their landscaping. And folks, even good folks do gossip so it would get around if so.
I put my little lawn flags out on every national holiday to show my patriotism. I enjoy driving down my street and seeing hundreds of American flags lining the streets. Anything wrong with that? I enjoy driving around many neighborhoods during the holiday season to see the multitude of decorations and lights. I try to remember Jewish holidays so that I can pass on my wishes to my Jewish friends. They do not take offense when I give them a small Christmas gift. I honored or respected Ramadan when I was in the Middle East as well as other foreign holidays.
Tolerance is an interesting thing. You can mandate the inclusion or exclusion of tolerance but you cannot mandate one to condone an act or omission. What I mean is that you can legislate PC but you can not make someone condone or like-welcome a particular rule or law.
Live and let live. If a small white cross bothers you because one is breaking a rule, you are a justified stickler. If a small white cross bothers you because it "offends" you, then you should find out why it bothers you. If I say God Bless you, it is meant as a sincere prayer of peace and prosperity to you and not meant as a slight or condescension. God Bless you.
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