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jimjamuser 03-02-2023 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Shimpy (Post 2193597)
You didn't mention chipped ham sandwichses. My favorite on a Balsomeo bun in McKeesport

My fav was the menu at Brick Alley!

Velvet 03-02-2023 11:31 PM

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Originally Posted by jimjamuser (Post 2193650)
Getting old is difficult no matter where you live.

Yes, but I think to make people move not because they are incapable of looking after themselves, like bathing, dressing or dementia etc but because they can’t get to places in a retirement community? I guess I’m grumbling because that is what happened to my aunt. They lived in TV for over 30 years. After my uncle died my aunt tried to stay by herself in her home. It became too difficult, district 1 had no sidewalks and no public transportation of any kind. She booked herself, a fully able lady, into independent living and gave up the home she loved for so many years.

Professor 03-03-2023 04:21 AM

Cold cold water from the tap...

Rwirish 03-03-2023 06:04 AM

Absolutely nothing. We have 4 seasons here as we are not far enough south.

Never go back north, all is good here.

Ele201 03-03-2023 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by La lamy (Post 2193292)
Who says "you can never go back"? Having a northern home is the way to go for many of us here. It's more expensive to run 2 homes, but for me who hates extreme weather, it's part of retirement 'heaven'.

You’re one of the lucky ones.

Ele201 03-03-2023 08:13 AM

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Originally Posted by chicksinger (Post 2193516)
I'm also a former native New Yorker and I miss everything you said as well as being able to walk everywhere, not need a car to worry about with all those expenses and of course, all the department stores....I don't like having to go to Ocala or Orlando/Clermont to get to a Macy's.

Interesting that you mentioned Macys, as I was just at Macys Herald Square last night. First time back there since the start of the pandemic. Looked pretty much the same, spoke with the same employees as years ago. But it definitely wasn’t as crowded as before. Still such a great feeling to be there!!

bark4me 03-03-2023 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Taltarzac725 (Post 2193228)
We have been in Florida since 1996 and here in the Villages since June or so of 2005. So, Florida is home.

Rohnert Park, CA; Reno, NV; Scottsdale, AZ; Itasca, IL; Belmont, CA; Minneapolis, MN; Denver, CO; Menomonee Falls, WI; and Provo, UT would all seem quite different now.

And I have run into people here in the Villages from every one of those places. Or, at least, while in Palm Harbor, FL.

Wow. That's alot of places to have lived. We're you running from the law or in witness protection? 😆

ThirdOfFive 03-03-2023 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by jimjamuser (Post 2193650)
Getting old is difficult no matter where you live.

It is, as I believe most of us are finding out.

However growing old is harder in some places than others. When we moved to TV, we left snow, icy sidewalks, large house that needed (as all homes do) routine maintenance, stairs just about everywhere, winter temps that could dive to and often below -40 f., ruinously high taxes (we pay less than 1/2 the property taxes here than we paid up there, on a property here that is valued at approximately 140% of that of our home in Minnesota), a state income tax that is ranked somewhere in the top five of all the states (haven't checked recently so can't say for sure), steadily growing crime, etc. etc. All that and more made our situation up there a far harder place to grow old, than here.

A lot of people don't realize it but much of TV is designed with we older folks in mind. We read articles about Community Watch finding and helping people who, because of declining mental capacities, may have wandered off. We have "Silver Alerts" (like an Amber Alert but for old folks). Most of us have pets; the local radio station has a service called "Pet Patrol" that tries to match up pets that have wandered off with their owners. Homes, if not expressly designed for people with ambulation handicaps, still have extra-wide doorways, open floor plans, grab bars in showers and tubs, walk-in closets, etc. Clubs for varied interests abound. Most everything is a short golf cart ride away: we've actually considered selling the Rav4 because most of the time it just sits in the garage taking up space. Food is cheaper here, and most places deliver. Taxes are less, by a significant amount. Even the businesses and the areas in which they are found are designed with we older folks in mind. Very few steps; the lakewalk at Lake Sumter Landing being the only significant exception to that. Giving the devil his due, a couple of disadvantages here as compared to where we came from is that the quality of medical care here is significantly lower (though we did our doctoring at Mayo Clinic in Minnesota and anything, anywhere, is probably going to suffer in comparison), and the drivers, though equally crazy in Minnesota, are far fewer in number than the crazies down here.

Oh--and I don't have to continually be aware of my surroundings. In Minnesota, I carried a pistol most of the time. Not here, yet. Not even once.

MUCH rather grow old here.

Dusty_Star 03-03-2023 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Vermilion Villager (Post 2193443)
There have been several documentaries about the villages and even I have to admit most of them are way off base. However, I do remember what they said in one of those documentaries.
"The villages is a place you live… The villages is not your home. Look around… There are no cemeteries here. When you can no longer participate in the lifestyle… You will go someplace else."

I suspect all of the "frogs" would disagree.

meme5x 03-03-2023 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Worldseries27 (Post 2193301)
me either

I can’t beat the convenience of being here.. so love the food, esp. the fresh fish at the Lighthouse on 466.. I love my Midwest home but love it here too! Especially the Daily Sun… St. Louis paper is awful plus it costs $2.50… and so biased…

JMintzer 03-03-2023 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by bark4me (Post 2193740)
Wow. That's alot of places to have lived. We're you running from the law or in witness protection? 😆

Well, he did "shoot a man in Reno, just to watch him die..." :icon_wink:

richdell 03-03-2023 11:03 AM

I miss some of the local businesses and the leaves turning colors in the fall.

Michael 61 03-03-2023 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Velvet (Post 2193615)
If you can’t get used to the outside restaurant food - and I have tried and tried, over the years, then learn to make your own. It takes time and effort but it is so worth it if you are a foodie. And just watch your popularity soar! Start with perfecting one meal. Let that be your signature dish. Prepare it at least 30 times before you decide that it is perfect.

Right On Velvet! I have mastered three entrees, that I am always asked to bring to pot lucks, Lasagna, Chicken Enchiladas in a Green Chili/Tomatillo Sauce, and Grilled Shrimp with Romesco Sauce. Hands down, these are all way better than anything ordered in even the better restaurants. All ingredients from scratch, no cans of anything, no pre-shredded bags of cheese, finest meats. Takes a few hours to prepare, but for me, cooking is relaxing and therapeutic, and the results of the extra effort are worth it. (And you fast become a welcomed and popular dinner guest).

jimjamuser 03-03-2023 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by meme5x (Post 2193807)
I can’t beat the convenience of being here.. so love the food, esp. the fresh fish at the Lighthouse on 466.. I love my Midwest home but love it here too! Especially the Daily Sun… St. Louis paper is awful plus it costs $2.50… and so biased…

Yes, the Daily Sun is famously free of BIAS.

JMintzer 03-03-2023 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by jimjamuser (Post 2193902)
Yes, the Daily Sun is famously free of BIAS.

Find me a paper that is free of BIAS...

coralway 03-03-2023 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Michael G. (Post 2193134)
What do you miss about your northern home state compared to living in Florida?
I think living in Florida is great at my age, but there are times I reminisce after 7 years down here.
We travel back, but it just isn't the same.

For me it has to be the 4 seasons, not the snow and cold, but the change in weather, the fall colors that never seem to last long enough.
The farm fields in summer watching the crops progress from month to month, or the smell of freshly cut hay and miles of corn fields.




"They" are wrong

Taltarzac725 03-03-2023 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by bark4me (Post 2193740)
Wow. That's alot of places to have lived. We're you running from the law or in witness protection? 😆

I took classes in five states while getting my 4 degrees. And also moved around as my father rose in the company he had worked for most of his life.

gymratt 03-03-2023 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Marmaduke (Post 2193394)
I sometimes miss the "era" of things we loved back then, but they are only heartfelt memories now.
Gone, but not forgotten. Sadly, no generation will experience anything as wonderful as we had.

Many of the Depression and Post-War Institutions that made the City of Pittsburgh great are no longer.

Of the bygone days, those of us who enjoyed them KNEW they we're really special. We didn't take them for granted.
It was a big city, small town atmosphere where everyone was friendly, quite like TV.
(Of course, there's always Some!)

Tailgaiting before the Steeler games at Three Rivers Stadium, the Boys of Summer Pirate Games on a warm Spring nights and the Penguins at The Civic Arena.

The Pgh. MARATHON and the Great Race.
The 3 Rivers at Point State Park, visited as often, as North and South Parks.

HOT Mancini's Bread, Sunseri and Primanti Brothers in the Strip, Donahues on 5th Avenue. The Original Oyster House in Market Square (est. 1933) FOR THE BEST Chowder and Fish Sandwiches.

Shopping in Downtown Pittsburgh during Christmas Season and marveling at their mechanical window displays.

Carnegie Libraries, Museums and the Duquesne Incline all visited at least once a year, as a tradition.

The Original HotDog Shoppe near Pitt.
The Pittsburgh Press. (My Dad set Page One as a Printer and brought home a Free Paper every single day for 30 years.)

My Testimony-
It was the Best Of Times....
And
You Can't go home again, but if you were from there, may your Pittsburgese stays with yens forever!

Go Bucs.
Go Steelers.
MARIO, Franco, and Willie.


You had me at North Park.... Must have been there a thousand times.. Need a return visit soon... agree with all the other mentions as well... and yes.. I am a Yinzer.... many in these parts....

mikeycereal 03-04-2023 08:31 AM

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Originally Posted by PugMom (Post 2193184)
i don't miss anything but the people i knew. we tried visiting 2 years ago for 5 days, & i couldn't wait to get back here

Pretty much this the 2 times I flew to Hawaii since I've been here last year.

FFF = flying for family. Looks like I might be settled in here! (since day 1)

nn0wheremann 03-04-2023 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Michael G. (Post 2193134)
What do you miss about your northern home state compared to living in Florida?
I think living in Florida is great at my age, but there are times I reminisce after 7 years down here.
We travel back, but it just isn't the same.

For me it has to be the 4 seasons, not the snow and cold, but the change in weather, the fall colors that never seem to last long enough.
The farm fields in summer watching the crops progress from month to month, or the smell of freshly cut hay and miles of corn fields.

Reliable health care. Hospitals here and in Leesburg are grossly mismanaged, inadequately staffed, and the people they hire seem to be malevolently incompetent.

Michael G. 03-04-2023 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by tophcfa (Post 2193411)
Good health care .

:yuck:

What planet are you from?
See below

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Originally Posted by nn0wheremann (Post 2194331)
Reliable health care. Hospitals here and in Leesburg are grossly mismanaged, inadequately staffed, and the people they hire seem to be malevolently incompetent.

Try the hospitals in Gainsville, it's worth the drive.


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