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Stu from NYC 12-05-2020 07:29 PM

Tipping has gotten out of hand.

People picking up our trash do get paid well and we do pay for the service. Exactly why should they be tipped unless they go out of their way to help me.

Take out places almost always have a tip jar on the counter. Exactly what are we tipping them for other than taking our money and writing out our order?

Irregardless of the above will tip certain people such as newspaper delivery person and mailman and probably guy who cuts our grass but this tipping thing is getting out of hand.

If people are not satisfied with their salary they have every right to look elsewhere.

When I was a kid had quite a few part time job and do not remember ever getting tipped.

Let the flaming begin.

jimjamuser 12-05-2020 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Stu from NYC (Post 1870227)
Tipping has gotten out of hand.

People picking up our trash do get paid well and we do pay for the service. Exactly why should they be tipped unless they go out of their way to help me.

Take out places almost always have a tip jar on the counter. Exactly what are we tipping them for other than taking our money and writing out our order?

Irregardless of the above will tip certain people such as newspaper delivery person and mailman and probably guy who cuts our grass but this tipping thing is getting out of hand.

If people are not satisfied with their salary they have every right to look elsewhere.

When I was a kid had quite a few part time job and do not remember ever getting tipped.

Let the flaming begin.

Tipping is basically a stupid, primitive concept, like men wearing a necktie - totally antiquated and just a useless tradition. The sooner it goes away the better with me. So, I agree with you, and then some.

airdale2 12-06-2020 06:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Stu from NYC (Post 1869968)
Why does the fedex guy get more than the ups guy?

Does the same crew do our trash pickups all year long?

Fed X guys are private contractors

dominojc 12-06-2020 06:22 AM

If they are not allowed to accept cash why do they send out cards with a return address which seems to me a way of eliciting gift giving... which I’m happy to do. They’re always very accommodating when it comes to our comings and goings. I appreciate the service.

riley2011 12-06-2020 06:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Miriam2940 (Post 1869920)
Scrooge. These people get paid minimum wage and restaurant servers exist on tips. We are in the middle of a pandemic where everyone is hurting. Please tip.

How do you how much they are getting paid?

DONKEY10 12-06-2020 06:59 AM

Nothing! I worked in a hospital for 30 yrs and never got tipped. If you need tips to survive then you need to educate yourself and get a better career.

photo1902 12-06-2020 07:01 AM

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Originally Posted by DONKEY10 (Post 1870274)
Nothing! I worked in a hospital for 30 yrs and never got tipped. If you need tips to survive then you need to educate yourself and get a better career.

Wow. Just wow.

bill4952 12-06-2020 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by berbet (Post 1869786)
How much do you tip at Christmas for services such as lawn mowing, yard maintenance, housekeeping, paper delivery?

Good question. I give $100.00 and not sure that is enough.

richs631 12-06-2020 09:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Rsenholzi (Post 1869965)
According to CNN money proper etiquette is the following
Housekeeper - 1 weeks pay
Trash $15-20 each
Gardener - $20-50
Hairdresser cost of 1 cut + small gift
Manicurist - cost of 1 session +small gift
Personal trainer- $25 or up to 1 weeks pay
Massage therapist- $50-$100 or cost of 1 session
Groomer - small gift + 1/4 to 1/2 cost of 1 session
Dog walker- cost of 1 session
Mail carrier - gifts under $20
If you get regular deliveries:
UPS- $15
FedEx - $25
Paper carrier - $15-25 for weekly ; $5-15 for weekend only
Hope this helps

Just curious, why does Fed ex get more than UPS

MrLonzo 12-06-2020 09:42 AM

When you give money to a service provider because they've given you service that you're happy with and you would gladly hire them again, it's called a 'tip'. When you give money because you think the provider is poor and in need, it's called 'alms'. Let's use the correct terminology!

retiredguy123 12-06-2020 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by MrLonzo (Post 1870362)
When you give money to a service provider because they've given you service that you're happy with and you would gladly hire them again, it's called a 'tip'. When you give money because you think the provider is poor and in need, it's called 'alms'. Let's use the correct terminology!

That reminds me of the true story about a family who was always buying things for the "poor" elderly lady next door. Until her $600K+ bank statement was mistakely delivered to the family's mail box.

Judy n Ron 12-06-2020 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Miriam2940 (Post 1869920)
Scrooge. These people get paid minimum wage and restaurant servers exist on tips. We are in the middle of a pandemic where everyone is hurting. Please tip.

Well I don't know of any postal worker or Fed Ex delivery guy who works for minimum wage. 40 years ago, earlier in my career, my neighbor was earning 50K+ a year driving a Fed Ex truck and 2 of my HS classmates out earned everyone at the time as postal workers. I often wondered why I bothered with white collar work back then. Most of the lawn guys are self employed and can make 30-60 an hour depending on how fast they work. No need to throw the "scrooge" flag at people. Ron

Stu from NYC 12-06-2020 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Judy n Ron (Post 1870428)
Well I don't know of any postal worker or Fed Ex delivery guy who works for minimum wage. 40 years ago, earlier in my career, my neighbor was earning 50K+ a year driving a Fed Ex truck and 2 of my HS classmates out earned everyone at the time as postal workers. I often wondered why I bothered with white collar work back then. Most of the lawn guys are self employed and can make 30-60 an hour depending on how fast they work. No need to throw the "scrooge" flag at people. Ron

Right on

People seem to look down on people who did not graduate college.

Plumbers and Electricians usually make more than folks who graduated college.

shut the front door 12-06-2020 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by photo1902 (Post 1870154)
I’m calling BS. Where did you find that info for WM Wildwood Florida jobs?

You can call it whatever you wish. If you took the time to do the research, which I did and posted earlier in this thread, you wouldn't need to call anything. Even the guys who don't drive the truck average $18 an hour.

Roron123 12-06-2020 02:01 PM

Yes my husband always hands them a soda when they pass by


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