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outlaw 09-18-2015 08:17 AM

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Originally Posted by rcook715 (Post 1115885)
Just exactly who are "The people who run the square"? Is their an office as part of the Community districts, etc called square management? Obviously these are the folks at fault for not enforcing the no saving policy.

The squares are owned/controlled by the developer. If the developer cared about this issue, it would be eliminated overnight.

rcook715 09-18-2015 08:38 AM

Give us a call!

I did track down The Villages Entertainment

The Villages Entertainment * Special Events Department: (352) 750-5411
The Villages Box Office (automated): (352) 753-3229

It seems the enforcement falls under their auspices.

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graciegirl 09-18-2015 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by outlaw (Post 1115895)
The squares are owned/controlled by the developer. If the developer cared about this issue, it would be eliminated overnight.



In all the time that I have lived here, and all of the things that I have read on this forum and witnessed with my own eyes, there is very little that I can perceive about the developer that doesn't speak of deep thinking, planning and great wisdom and an eye for the bottom line. I like that too..


There are mostly people living here who are kind, fair, honest, trustworthy and community spirited. But it doesn't take many selfish and uncaring folks to mess up the best ideas and plans.


The developer has sold the entertainment company to a private company Every company has a financial margin for profit. It they hire people to enforce the seat issue, then there will be less money for the entertainment.


I see this issue as having been discussed endlessly by the people who can make decisions about it. Whether it would destroy the pleasant ambiance of entertainment at the squares to confront seat savers and enforce the rule or ignore seat savers.


I have met a lot of people who are very good with people and a few large strong men who could get the job done. It will not be pretty if the enforcement happens. I HATE confrontations.


I will wait and see how this will pan out..

graciegirl 09-18-2015 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by rcook715 (Post 1115909)
Give us a call!

I did track down The Villages Entertainment

The Villages Entertainment * Special Events Department: (352) 750-5411
The Villages Box Office (automated): (352) 753-3229

It seems the enforcement falls under their auspices.

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BS Beef 09-18-2015 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by airbear (Post 1115889)
"The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing."

Edmund Burke

OK, I agree with you and I hate the whole chair saving thing, but I'm pretty sure Edmund wasn't referring to people saving chairs in the village squares.

Sandtrap328 09-18-2015 10:46 AM

The picture in the on-line news showed 5 chairs "saved" with cushions and tied together. You could see in the picture there were plenty of stacked chairs for usage. Now, if there were no other chairs available AND no one was sitting in one or two, they are fair game to anyone who wants to untie them and put the cushions to the side.

No big deal and nothing to get worked up about.

TheVillageChicken 09-18-2015 11:04 AM

Here is The Chicken Solution, which I must qualify by saying that I have no dog in this fight and have never been to entertainment at the Squares. The Chicken gets his music fix in smoke-filled honky tonks and blues bars.

Grant a concession to someone to provide rental chairs.

They could number their chairs and produce a corresponding laminated credit card sized ticket to accompany each numbered chair. This serves as proof of "ownership".

Charge $2.50 per numbered chair plus a reasonable deposit on each card.

Numbered chairs are reserved while unnumbered ones belong to whoever owns the butt that it supports.

Yeah, yeah...there are logistical issues such as manpower and having to wait in line for your card deposit refund, but who cares? That would be the problem of whoever gets the chair rental concession and the chair renter
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Barefoot 09-18-2015 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Retiring (Post 1115794)
Turn the other cheek and leave. The best part of an evening out is when you get home, it’s done. Call the police and start a court battle and you will be dealing with that poke to the chest for a long time. ...... Fight when you can’t flee. We all have to pick our battles in life, for me, a poke to the chest isn’t one of them.

Words of wisdom.

looneycat 09-18-2015 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by rcook715 (Post 1115885)
Just exactly who are "The people who run the square"? Is their an office as part of the Community districts, etc called square management? Obviously these are the folks at fault for not enforcing the no saving policy.

it's not the management that fights over the chairs it is your neighbors feeling their needs are so important that they can disobey the posted policy and screw you.

Jima64 09-18-2015 11:28 AM

Maapybe the management company should hire a off duty police officer to maintain the squares during the evening. Thinkmthat if an officer asked someone nicely they would not safe chairs.

TNLAKEPANDA 09-18-2015 12:29 PM

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This will work! :1rotfl:

Challenger 09-18-2015 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by BS Beef (Post 1115989)
OK, I agree with you and I hate the whole chair saving thing, but I'm pretty sure Edmund wasn't referring to people saving chairs in the village squares.

Ignoring a problem , seldom solves it. These issues will cotinue to occur and probably escalate to more serious confrontations. If this were a one and gone issue, it might be ignored, but my experience tells me that trouble is coming. Someone will get hurt. Those who believe that they are entitled to unwarrented privilege are expressing the same line of arrogance as the "Friends of Lake Miona" A strong statement and prominent posting of signs by those in charge and some enforcement may reduce the probability of further trouble.

tomwed 09-18-2015 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Challenger (Post 1116058)
Ignoring a problem , seldom solves it. These issues will cotinue to occur and probably escalate to more serious confrontations. If this were a one and gone issue, it might be ignored, but my experience tells me that trouble is coming. Someone will get hurt. Those who believe that they are entitled to unwarrented privilege are expressing the same line of arrogance as the "Friends of Lake Miona" A strong statement and prominent posting of signs by those in charge and some enforcement may reduce the probability of further trouble.

\\\\\\ I'm leaning to the left on this one.

daveersk 09-18-2015 01:42 PM

We always bring our own chairs to the squares. If the square is crowded, I walk back to the cart for our chairs.

However, not all folks are able to carry everything and make it to the square safely. We understand everyone’s getting older and look for folks to assist. Someday hopefully we will be in their place and folks will help us out.

Folks that rope off chairs are simply selfish people that most likely been that way there entire life. It’s best to not get into confrontations strangers; you never can tell how it will work out. Safe is best!

Best Regards,
Dave & Jan

Paperboy 09-18-2015 01:43 PM

GREAT IDEA!!!!!! Post signs that say "NO CHAIR SAVING"!!!!!!!!!!!

outlaw 09-18-2015 01:56 PM

I have found if you simply cut the string or rope that is reserving the seats with a 9" blade tactical knife that you carry in a belt sheath, usually no will will say anything to you.

outlaw 09-18-2015 02:06 PM

First they came for a snowbird's chair, and I did nothing. Then they came for a Floridian's chair, and I did nothing. Then they they came for my neighbor's chair, and I did nothing. Then they came for my chair, and I had to stand all night.

Cedwards38 09-18-2015 02:50 PM

Isn't crowd control, including enforcement of venue rules, a service to be provided by local law enforcement? I know I see cops at ballgames, fairs, and other places where people, alcohol, and temperaments are present.

BS Beef 09-18-2015 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by outlaw (Post 1116094)
First they came for a snowbird's chair, and I did nothing. Then they came for a Floridian's chair, and I did nothing. Then they they came for my neighbor's chair, and I did nothing. Then they came for my chair, and I had to stand all night.

That's very funny and one clever post. To you sir I say well done.
:bigbow:

hulahips 09-18-2015 03:36 PM

With so many people moving in they should enforce no seat saving to avoid confrontations. I see lately it's becoming a problem at some clubs also

Barefoot 09-18-2015 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Paperboy (Post 1116082)
GREAT IDEA - Post signs that say "NO CHAIR SAVING"!!

And put a small sign on the back of every chair that says No Seat Saving!

GMIJFI 09-18-2015 06:37 PM

If the villages has policy of not saving seats at the centers, they should have a process in place for enforcing the policy.

graciegirl 09-18-2015 06:47 PM

From an ABC news story on seat saving on cruises;

Saving Seats at the Pool: OK or Not OK? - ABC News

Atlantic 09-18-2015 08:25 PM

My husband and I took a friend to Spanish Springs in August, there were four empty chairs right up front which we headed for. We weren't five feet away when a man in a big cowboy hat got up and waved us off. He said "these seats are taken" I said" we'll get up when they get here." Sat there for more than an hour and no one showed up. I'm not confrontational but that really annoyed me especially after telling my friend how "friendly" people in TV are. Perhaps that's the way to go? I will admit I was pretty nervous sitting there--didn,t want a confrontation. If someone had shown up after an hour I would like to think I would have stood my ground. It's time for someone to correct the situation before it becomes worse.

BS Beef 09-18-2015 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1116210)
From an ABC news story on seat saving on cruises;

Saving Seats at the Pool: OK or Not OK? - ABC News

Indeed interesting. The problem I see is the fact that 14% of people think it's OK to "save" a seat indefinitely. It just galls me how rude people can be.

Thanks for sharing the interesting article.

Sanibel7 09-18-2015 10:02 PM

Folks please remember this. The Squares are Public. Seat Saving is an announced policy i.e... They announce it at the beginning of the entertainments set to hope that people will just respect the announcement! Just like No coolers, No Pets in the square and please watch and control your children. Well how many of these policies are actually followed also! The only enforcement on public property is the Law enforcement for that area. Seat saving is a policy .. not a law and our local law enforcement will not respond to a seat complaint. They will however react to the complications (as was originally posted here). Folks remember you are dealing with not just Villagers but anyone who wants to attend these functions. That's why we have the announcements but lets face not everyone listens! so lets as Villagers, Take the higher road and before we yell, gripe or argue... remember they might not have heard the Announcement!

Challenger 09-19-2015 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1116210)
From an ABC news story on seat saving on cruises;

Saving Seats at the Pool: OK or Not OK? - ABC News

This is the same attitude that brings us, unauthorized parking in handicap spaces, talking in a theater, and illegally cutting down trees. Most of us don't like confrontation, but ignoring issues just allows them to escalate into violent outcomes. There have only been a few reported instances thus far, however, I suspect there had been many more , unreported.

2BNTV 09-19-2015 09:13 AM

The saving seats issues will never be resolved. Too many people who are inconsiderate or selfish, tends to ruin other's experiences, at the squares.

Human nature hasn't changed in 3,000 years and you expect it to start now?

:popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn:

On the other hand, a family member had too much too drink and a nice gentlemen, (Dan), offered to help carry him from his chair, to a car, as he was very unstable on his feet.

Some people are so nice.

BTW - I know what you are thinking, it wasn't me!!!!

golfing eagles 09-19-2015 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by 2BNTV (Post 1116393)
The saving seats issues will never be resolved. Too many people who are inconsiderate or selfish, tends to ruin other's experiences, at the squares.

Human nature hasn't changed in 3,000 years and you expect it to start now?


No, but that is why we live by the RULE OF LAW, not by whatever whim any individual has at the moment.

So IF there is a rule (not a law) against seat saving, either enforce it or get rid of it.
As far as enforcement goes, my understanding is that the roads in the squares are public, but the square itself (where the seats are) is privately owned but OPEN to the public. This makes it similar to a retail store. If you behave inappropriately at Walmart, they can BAN you from entering, even though it is OPEN to the PUBLIC. If this is true, there certainly is an enforcement option, for both residents and non-residents

Cedwards38 09-19-2015 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Challenger (Post 1116342)
This is the same attitude that brings us, unauthorized parking in handicap spaces, talking in a theater, and illegally cutting down trees. Most of us don't like confrontation, but ignoring issues just allows them to escalate into violent outcomes. There have only been a few reported instances thus far, however, I suspect there had been many more , unreported.

Well stated. I agree, and would add that at some point one incident will escalate into a catastrophe!

Sweet Caroline 09-19-2015 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Villager Joyce (Post 1115568)
There are many legitimate reasons why this isn't a good solution. It is hard to carry a chair and a drink. Seriously, people with difficulties walking might not be able to manage and could no longer enjoy the squares. In the good old days, young men would jump up and help but those may well be the folks that now need help.

Maybe the young men are afraid that if they get up to assist then their seats will be stolen:-) Personally I have no problem of saving a couple of seats if the person for whom the seat was saved arrives on time when the music starts. But an hour later? NO! We have a group who loves to dance in the square so we bring our own chairs. And if someone tried to take MY chair the police would need to be called. Rude people bring their rudeness with them to the friendliest hometown. "Wherever I go, there I am". Just another sign of the times. Parents, please raise your children to be responsible adults!

wesmin 09-19-2015 10:11 AM

saved seats
 
A solution, at 4:30 a village employee will remove all ropes pillows and any other marker of a saved seat ant place it in a large tub to be reclaimed at the owners convenience.

biker1 09-19-2015 10:16 AM

I do not think you will see that happen - too confrontational. The Villages Employees barely enforce no chairs in the "aisles", and that is a safety issue.

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Originally Posted by wesmin (Post 1116438)
A solution, at 4:30 a village employee will remove all ropes pillows and any other marker of a saved seat ant place it in a large tub to be reclaimed at the owners convenience.


golfing eagles 09-19-2015 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by biker1 (Post 1116442)
I do not think you will see that happen - too confrontational. The Villages Employees barely enforce no chairs in the "aisles", and that is a safety issue.

I think a small subset of community watch employees with LEO experience wearing an official looking uniform and carrying a nightstick and a taser would probably not be confronted

Jimturner 09-19-2015 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by golfing eagles (Post 1116456)
I think a small subset of community watch employees with LEO experience wearing an official looking uniform and carrying a nightstick and a taser would probably not be confronted

Sounds good. Something should be done if for no other reason than common fairness. Just seeing chairs tied together creates a less favorable atmospheres for the majority. All around bad situation just to satisfy the selfishness of a minority.

PennBF 09-19-2015 02:47 PM

Like Idea & Another One
 
I like the idea of a person working for the Villages just take the stuff on bthe chair and put it in a basket for the people to pick up later if they were holding the seat. The other idea is to sit in the seat, if someone comes over to claim a saved seat tell them you are staying put AND remind them that in the State of Florida it automatically becomes aggravated assualt as opposed to simple assualt if you strike of hit or push a person over the age of 65 in Florida. And ask them if they really want to pay a stiff fine and go to jail as that will happen.
:ho:

graciegirl 09-19-2015 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by PennBF (Post 1116567)
I like the idea of a person working for the Villages just take the stuff on bthe chair and put it in a basket for the people to pick up later if they were holding the seat. The other idea is to sit in the seat, if someone comes over to claim a saved seat tell them you are staying put AND remind them that in the State of Florida it automatically becomes aggravated assualt as opposed to simple assualt if you strike of hit or push a person over the age of 65 in Florida. And ask them if they really want to pay a stiff fine and go to jail as that will happen.
:ho:



Yeah well, what if the answer is YES, followed by a huge, ugly WHOMP?

Barefoot 09-19-2015 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by PennBF (Post 1116567)
The other idea is to sit in the seat, if someone comes over to claim a saved seat tell them you are staying put AND remind them that in the State of Florida it automatically becomes aggravated assualt as opposed to simple assualt if you strike of hit or push a person over the age of 65 in Florida. And ask them if they really want to pay a stiff fine and go to jail as that will happen.

Going to the Town Squares is supposed to be a fun experience.
Surely there are solutions that don't involve hostility and confrontation.
I'd much rather skip a performance than fight with someone over a chair.

golfing eagles 09-19-2015 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Barefoot (Post 1116575)
Going to the Town Squares is supposed to be a fun experience.
Surely there are solutions that don't involve hostility and confrontation.
I'd much rather skip a performance than fight with someone over a chair.

On the other hand, we have hundreds of clubs in TV. Ever see the movie "Fight Club"?

KeepingItReal 09-19-2015 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Barefoot (Post 1116575)
Going to the Town Squares is supposed to be a fun experience.
Surely there are solutions that don't involve hostility and confrontation.
I'd much rather skip a performance than fight with someone over a chair.


Agreed, Obviously this is a well known continuous problem and the fact that the ones that could easily do something about it choose to turn a blind eye and remain totally mute on the subject says a lot about their concern for the average resident. Non enforcement or selective enforcement of the numerous rules in the compound just creates even more problems. If you have to have a confrontation at the squares to get get a seat it isn't worth going. We and our neighbors don't even consider going anymore.



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