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pauld315 11-30-2010 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by l2ridehd (Post 311990)
Some folks think it is there God given right to inconvenience others so they can be taken care of and do as they please. Hats off to the chair takers. I hope it starts a trend.

These are the same people that see the lane ending sign on a highway construction zone but stay in the lane all the way until they can go no further and then cut in frontof all the people who have followed directions to get over. They believe they are just more important than everyone else.

wesmin 11-30-2010 07:27 PM

Roped Seats
 
We were on the spare at 11 am and saw chairs on upper deck tied with rope and two had a CHAIN! Whats next locks.

Bill-n-Brillo 11-30-2010 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 312208)
AND just how do you think Red broke her elbow????

So she's been fibbin' to everyone about how it REALLY happened, eh? :jester:

Bill

GeorgeT 11-30-2010 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by pauld315 (Post 312222)
These are the same people that see the lane ending sign on a highway construction zone but stay in the lane all the way until they can go no further and then cut in frontof all the people who have followed directions to get over. They believe they are just more important than everyone else.

OK, here we go with assumptions. Might as well blame everything that irritates
you on them.

Pturner 11-30-2010 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Ohiogirl (Post 312216)
I went to my first free "Total Workout" at one of the regional rec centers this week - I called first to make sure it was open to all and to confirm what to bring. Was told to "come early" as it gets crowded. Apparently they do limit the # of people in the large room, and have another room for the overflow, or maybe some people prefer it, but when I arrived (about 15 minutes early), could only find a little space in a back corner. Not too many people, but all kinds of spaces marked with mats, bottled water, etc.

Apparently, groups of friends must take turns coming early and marking their spots. Just like the town squares. Hard to tell for sure whose spaces they are as there are some people standing around, but not nearly as many (maybe 50%)? as there are spaces marked off.

Same kind of deal - wish it wasn't so.

It's a shame that this is allowed. It causes most participants to have to get there earlier and earlier to get into the class at all, just so others can sleep late and waltz in at the last minute.

Bill-n-Brillo 11-30-2010 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Pturner (Post 312262)
It's a shame that this is allowed. It causes most participants to have to get there earlier and earlier to get into the class at all, just so others can sleep late and waltz in at the last minute.

P - Time for you and your two cronies to step into this one to straighten out these misguided souls......just like with the "Rope A Dopes"!! :boxing2:

:)

Bill

Tweety Bird 11-30-2010 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by disney07 (Post 311987)
:agree:Nice work to those who said "This is BS" and took those seats. 16 seats? That is outrageous. Almost 2hrs after the band starts in walk the Special People to claim their selected seating. Would have enjoyed watching.

Ditto...ditto...Nice work alright. That rope was put there by a RUDE dope. Gather the rope and dump it in the nearby garbage. NO ONE has the right to do that. Rope a Dope! :girlneener:

memason 11-30-2010 11:40 PM

So, what's the solution ????
 
I read all these posts and wonder why someone doesn't take it upon themselves to seek a real solution to this problem. I'm not in TV now, but if the seat saving bothered me that much, I would like to think I'd contact someone to see what could be done. I liked the idea of posting "No Reserved Seating" signs in the squares.

Again....if it "appears" to be a common practice in TV to reserve seating for an event, people will do it. It isn't being rude; it's adjusting to the "culture".

Just saying .... :shrug:

Challenger 12-01-2010 06:19 AM

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Originally Posted by memason (Post 312278)
I read all these posts and wonder why someone doesn't take it upon themselves to seek a real solution to this problem. I'm not in TV now, but if the seat saving bothered me that much, I would like to think I'd contact someone to see what could be done. I liked the idea of posting "No Reserved Seating" signs in the squares.

Again....if it "appears" to be a common practice in TV to reserve seating for an event, people will do it. It isn't being rude; it's adjusting to the "culture".

Just saying .... :shrug:

a sensible solution IMHO

Talk Host 12-01-2010 07:48 AM

After reading this thread, I began thinking about another thing that I have wondered about.

First, let me say that we use this all the time. "Restaurant Call Ahead"

A restaurant doesn't take reservations. First come first serve, except if you call on the phone and have them put your name on the list. I wonder how fair that is to the people who come in and sit for an hour waiting for a table, only to have me walk through the door and get a seat.

The same thing would happen if they did take reservations, but in these cases, many people don't know that you can call ahead.

I don't want the practice to go away, but I have to wonder how fair it is. Or is it different in a way that I'm not seeing?

JLK

graciegirl 12-01-2010 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by memason (Post 312278)
I read all these posts and wonder why someone doesn't take it upon themselves to seek a real solution to this problem. I'm not in TV now, but if the seat saving bothered me that much, I would like to think I'd contact someone to see what could be done. I liked the idea of posting "No Reserved Seating" signs in the squares.

Again....if it "appears" to be a common practice in TV to reserve seating for an event, people will do it. It isn't being rude; it's adjusting to the "culture".

Just saying .... :shrug:

Memason.

The reality is that we live in a restricted community that is restricted in a way that few have seen. The Developer really makes the rules and has the power to change them. We don't.

Most of us seem to think that things run pretty smoothly around here with a few who want fences or other things, but the right to change things isn't part of our lovely lifestyle.

I imagine that in some hidden board room this has been discussed by the powers that run TV and maybe they have come up with the conclusion that it would be a beast to enforce, being that they are dealing with a lot of really strong willed people who think they are right.

And so we are left with this little drama to watch. Many here have read the book "Winning through Intimidation" and many more have read that other one with the Golden Rule.

We will see.

dillywho 12-01-2010 09:45 AM

Differences
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Talk Host (Post 312292)
After reading this thread, I began thinking about another thing that I have wondered about.

First, let me say that we use this all the time. "Restaurant Call Ahead"

A restaurant doesn't take reservations. First come first serve, except if you call on the phone and have them put your name on the list. I wonder how fair that is to the people who come in and sit for an hour waiting for a table, only to have me walk through the door and get a seat.

The same thing would happen if they did take reservations, but in these cases, many people don't know that you can call ahead.

I don't want the practice to go away, but I have to wonder how fair it is. Or is it different in a way that I'm not seeing?

JLK

There are several differences:

1) The restaurant is in charge and it is their call to have such a policy or not.....not all do.

2) You have to give them an arrival time and you are seated as close to that as possible. You can't just show up if and when you feel like it. If you are not there when you say, they seat someone else instead of holding it indefinitely.

3) You don't have to stand just to eat.

3) You may choose to go elsewhere for food if you don't want to wait; there is no choice at the squares for the entertainment.

These are just a few. I'm sure others can think of more.

Just something to think about....if someone gets physically abusive, charges could be filed. Might be something to keep in mind.:boxing2:

GeorgeT 12-01-2010 09:56 AM

Again....if it "appears" to be a common practice in TV to reserve seating for an event, people will do it. It isn't being rude; it's adjusting to the "culture".

Memason,

Well said. Until something officially is done, (posting one sign) then it's sink or swim. However, I still think it's rude. I for one don't want to see anymore signs telling me what I can and cannot do. It's like that song "Signs"


The aggressive people will save chairs, the timid will not sit in them but the rebels will. I choose to be a rebel.

Boomer 12-01-2010 10:36 AM

OK. I know this is a slight little veering off topic....but when TH said that about waiting for tables in restaurants, it brought back fond memories for me.

I am feeling quite nostalgic now for the days before we were handed those little round things with the red lights -- the things that look like spaceships -- that let us know when our table is ready.

Remember when they used to call us over the loudspeaker....

It was not my idea of a good time to stand around in a crowded lobby, waiting to hear the voice on the loudspeaker, summoning us, "The Boomer Party, your table is ready."

And sometimes I could get pretty hungry during those waits and I knew others waiting were probably getting hungry, too.

And so I started giving a different name to the hostess. Instead of Boomer, I said that my name was Donner.

And then I waited with silly anticipation to hear the voice over the loudspeaker call out, "The Donner Party, your table is ready." (And usually they said it twice.)

And then I would look around at the faces in the crowd and I would see who was looking at us and smiling or maybe even laughing a little, and I would smile back.

Easily amused Boomer

GeorgeT 12-01-2010 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Boomer (Post 312325)
OK. I know this is a slight little veering off topic....but when TH said that about waiting for tables in restaurants, it brought back fond memories for me.

I am feeling quite nostalgic now for the days before we were handed those little round things with the red lights -- the things that look like spaceships -- that let us know when our table is ready.

Remember when they used to call us over the loudspeaker....

It was not my idea of a good time to stand around in a crowded lobby, waiting to hear the voice on the loudspeaker, summoning us, "The Boomer Party, your table is ready."

And sometimes I could get pretty hungry during those waits and I knew others waiting were probably getting hungry, too.

And so I started giving a different name to the hostess. Instead of Boomer, I said that my name was Donner.

And then I waited with silly anticipation to hear the voice over the loudspeaker call out, "The Donner Party, your table is ready." (And usually they said it twice.)

And then I would look around at the faces in the crowd and I would see who was looking at us and smiling or maybe even laughing a little, and I would smile back.

Easily amused Boomer

Very Funny!!!! Did you order the "Rack Of Man"

Tbugs 12-01-2010 12:01 PM

Christmas tree lighting today
 
Well, I plan to be at the Christmas tree lighting ceremony early today. I am really anxious to see if chairs are "roped" or chained or if there are entire blocs being saved. I am anxious to see if any of those saved seats will be taken by others.

Personally, I am betting that there will be some saved and some "blocs" being saved but also am betting the Villagers will act civilized instead of the bar room brawls that some in this forum believe will occur.

graciegirl 12-01-2010 01:01 PM

:(:grumpy::cryin2:

P is there and I am not.

Mudder 12-01-2010 01:30 PM

chair saving
 
When I got out of Spin class at 9:05 AM this morning I took a little stroll into the square.....yep, some chairs were already tied together with plastic bags saving them for tonight. Wanted to rip the bags off but then decided in the spirit of the season not to do that, but I may just sit in thise chairs tonight !

Bill-n-Brillo 12-01-2010 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Skip2MySue (Post 312348)
I had the pleasure of meeting Pturner this week and let me warn ya all. Dynamite comes in small packages and she wouldn't be one you'd want to mess with:thumbup:
Skip 2

P - Is this assessment accurate??? :)

Bill

Pturner 12-01-2010 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Skip2MySue (Post 312348)
I had the pleasure of meeting Pturner this week and let me warn ya all. Dynamite comes in small packages and she wouldn't be one you'd want to mess with:thumbup:
Skip 2

Who moi? :shrug: I plead not guilty.
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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 312353)
:(:grumpy::cryin2:

P is there and I am not.

What a coincidence. I said the same thing about you! :(:grumpy: :cryin2: To make matters worse, I'm not there anymore. (Another cryin' buddy goes here, but I had to cut it. TOTV counts smilies-- including those I quoted-- and said I'm past quota. Kindly picture another grumpy face here.)

I did meet some wonderful people who don't save chairs though. (Notice how I got back on message.;)) Let's see, there was Bare and Fireboy! Beedy! Mr. and Mrs. Scrapple! Then there was Skip2MySue. Gotta watch out for those two.:girlneener:

Larry Wilson 12-01-2010 02:25 PM

Good news. This cooler weather and wind will keep many people away from tonight's tree lighting. Yes, both square have chairs with the ropes already but I'm betting I won't have any problem because we bring our own chairs.

Bill-n-Brillo 12-01-2010 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Larry Wilson (Post 312374)
Good news. This cooler weather and wind will keep many people away from tonight's tree lighting. Yes, both square have chairs with the ropes already but I'm betting I won't have any problem because we bring our own chairs.

You've got the best solution, Larry - "bring your own chairs"!

Bill

Barefoot 12-01-2010 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Bill-n-Brillo (Post 312379)
You've got the best solution, Larry - "bring your own chairs"! Bill

Bringing your own chairs doesn't work when people are saving air space for their friends. :popcorn:

And I'm pleased to report that PTurner is just as perky in person as she is in her posts.

Taltarzac 12-01-2010 03:42 PM

Bringing your own chair.
 
Some of the morning regulars at the Doggie Doo Run Run have bought chairs and brung them to the dog park where these chairs remain. All of these chairs have their owner's names somewhere on them. The chairs do get moved around at times by the very early morning or late afternoon people looking for a seat.

Doubt if this would work at the Squares though that a person would bring his or her own chair and expect that no one else would sit there. You would probably have to guard your chair or have a friend watch it or go to the old standby and throw some rope around it.

The people who come to the Doggie Doo Run Run almost daily would recognize the various names on the chairs.

I wonder if the people who frequent the Squares would recognize each others names on chairs waiting to find a sitter.

Tbugs 12-02-2010 09:39 AM

Great Christmas Tree Lighting
 
I was at the Lake Sumter Landing tree lighting last night and it was just wonderful.

I arrived around 3:30 with my own chairs and was able to set them up in the second row very close to the Christmas tree. Yes, there were lots of chairs tied together but people came to them when the program started. No trouble with anyone arguing about hijacked chairs at all.

We stayed in our chairs until around 5 and then went to Cody's for their 2 for 1 fajita special (and a couple glasses of warmth - also 2 for 1) and returned at about 6:30 to our chairs. The chairs were right where we left them.

The Classy Lassies, the Silver Rockettes, and the Chatham Chick Cheerleaders gave a great show and the tree lighting was the highlight at 8.

The square was full of Villagers (and some from outside The VIllages) and everyone had a great time. Big traffic jam at 8 pm getting out! Took us 10 minutes to get onto Buena Vista. We laughed at that happening once a year instead of the 1 hour traffic jams every night going home from work in Washington, DC.

graciegirl 12-02-2010 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Tbugs (Post 312589)
I was at the Lake Sumter Landing tree lighting last night and it was just wonderful.

I arrived around 3:30 with my own chairs and was able to set them up in the second row very close to the Christmas tree. Yes, there were lots of chairs tied together but people came to them when the program started. No trouble with anyone arguing about hijacked chairs at all.

We stayed in our chairs until around 5 and then went to Cody's for their 2 for 1 fajita special (and a couple glasses of warmth - also 2 for 1) and returned at about 6:30 to our chairs. The chairs were right where we left them.

The Classy Lassies, the Silver Rockettes, and the Chatham Chick Cheerleaders gave a great show and the tree lighting was the highlight at 8.

The square was full of Villagers (and some from outside The VIllages) and everyone had a great time. Big traffic jam at 8 pm getting out! Took us 10 minutes to get onto Buena Vista. We laughed at that happening once a year instead of the 1 hour traffic jams every night going home from work in Washington, DC.

What a nice post. I am glad for you and pleased that the Christmas Spirit is alive and well in my favorite part of the universe.

Larry Wilson 12-02-2010 10:35 AM

We also had a great time on the SS side. SS can close down all the 4 roads around the square and put up tons of tables so there are many many chairs and more room than Sumter. As the roads have no cars and become part of the square and walkway there is plenty of room. People carried the chairs from the tables to set up on the sidewalk to get better views. Everyone was wonderful. A lady with a cane came just before the lighting and I went out and got her a chair and there were tons of chairs left over. The organizers thought the crowd was down about half from other years because of the weather. There was a great Christmas spirit. I think all the nastiness goes away when there are enough chairs.

2BNTV 12-02-2010 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Tbugs (Post 312589)
I was at the Lake Sumter Landing tree lighting last night and it was just wonderful.

I arrived around 3:30 with my own chairs and was able to set them up in the second row very close to the Christmas tree. Yes, there were lots of chairs tied together but people came to them when the program started. No trouble with anyone arguing about hijacked chairs at all.

We stayed in our chairs until around 5 and then went to Cody's for their 2 for 1 fajita special (and a couple glasses of warmth - also 2 for 1) and returned at about 6:30 to our chairs. The chairs were right where we left them.

The Classy Lassies, the Silver Rockettes, and the Chatham Chick Cheerleaders gave a great show and the tree lighting was the highlight at 8.

The square was full of Villagers (and some from outside The VIllages) and everyone had a great time. Big traffic jam at 8 pm getting out! Took us 10 minutes to get onto Buena Vista. We laughed at that happening once a year instead of the 1 hour traffic jams every night going home from work in Washington, DC.

:mademyday:

I'm glad everyone had a good time. the Christmas spirit is alive and well in TV.

I would be nice if everyone kept this spirit throughout the year!!!!

:BigApplause: for Larry Wilson for helping a lady with a cane.


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