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Sandtrap328 08-02-2015 06:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Justus (Post 1094588)
:ho: It's an individual's right and obligation to ensure his own personal safety, and that's not paranoia, even in TV. If the elderly Villager woman who was brutally mugged in the Target parking lot had been armed, I believe the outcome of the situation would have been entirely different...3 against 1...

If that 80 year old woman had been armed, the chances are the pistol would have been carried in her purse.

The mugger came up in back of her, knocked her to the ground with one powerful blow, grabbed her purse and ran to a waiting car. That is how it happened according to all witnesses.

If she had been armed, the mugger would have gotten a gun as part of his loot.

Happinow 08-02-2015 07:13 AM

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Originally Posted by outlaw (Post 1094495)
The guy wasn't smoking.

Then I would have gotten up and moved. Chewing is nauseating.

Justus 08-02-2015 07:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Sandtrap328 (Post 1094593)
If that 80 year old woman had been armed, the chances are the pistol would have been carried in her purse.

The mugger came up in back of her, knocked her to the ground with one powerful blow, grabbed her purse and ran to a waiting car. That is how it happened according to all witnesses.

If she had been armed, the mugger would have gotten a gun as part of his loot.

Why would you assume it would be in her purse...? Still, the MO of these 3 thugs proves the point that danger does exist in and around TV, and it's one's legal right to protect him/herself.

Chatbrat 08-02-2015 07:23 AM

The most important thing about personal safety is awareness, know whats around you at all times, while walking driving, etc.

outlaw 08-02-2015 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Sandtrap328 (Post 1094593)
If that 80 year old woman had been armed, the chances are the pistol would have been carried in her purse.

The mugger came up in back of her, knocked her to the ground with one powerful blow, grabbed her purse and ran to a waiting car. That is how it happened according to all witnesses.

If she had been armed, the mugger would have gotten a gun as part of his loot.

I think what you are missing is the mindset of many CCW citizens. The whole idea of being responsible for your safety and protection includes being proficient in the use of your firearm, and being aware of your surroundings, among other things. The example you give is consistent with people who assume/expect the government to provide protection for them and their loved ones, or who play the numbers game thinking this will never happen to them...until it does. In this particular case, as in most, the government shows up to do the paperwork. If you are willing to offload your responsibility for your own safety to the government, be my guest. Don't buy house insurance either. After all, how many times has your house burned to the ground?

Justus 08-02-2015 07:29 AM

:bigbow:
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Originally Posted by outlaw (Post 1094605)
I think what you are missing is the mindset of many CCW citizens. The whole idea of being responsible for your safety and protection includes being proficient in the use of your firearm, and being aware of your surroundings, among other things. The example you give is consistent with people who assume/expect the government to provide protection for them and their loved ones, or who play the numbers game thinking this will never happen to them...until it does. In this particular case, as in most, the government shows up to do the paperwork. If you are willing to offload your responsibility for your own safety to the government, be my guest. Don't buy house insurance either. After all, what how many times has your house burned to the ground?

:bigbow:

outlaw 08-02-2015 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Justus (Post 1094603)
Why would you assume it would be in her purse...? Still, the MO of these 3 thugs proves the point that danger does exist in and around TV, and it's one's legal right to protect him/herself.

So true. And yet, most people think it will never happen to them. I hope they are right. But I don't like the odds. I am amazed at the number of Americans that don't understand the importance/meaning of the second amendment and would impose substantial gun control measures (even banning CCW) against their fellow Americans in spite of this being a basic right. Even though, by the FBI's own database, there are at least a couple hundred thousand instances per year where a privately owned gun prevented a crime or stopped a criminal from getting away.

Sandtrap328 08-02-2015 07:56 AM

Okay guys, my last post on the subject of carrying guns in and around The Villages.

In the instance of the 80 year old lady mugged in the parking lot - she takes one powerful blow and gets knocked to the ground and her purse is grabbed and the mugger runs to a waiting car. That is the fact of the case.

IF she had a gun - not in her purse that was stolen - she was knocked to the ground, suffered a broken hip (I believe), could she play through the pain; shake the cobwebs out of her head; draw her pistol from wherever it was holstered; aim at a running target now many yards away, and pump a couple of slugs into the "10 ring"?

Then, besides probably hitting some innocent bystanders, would she be charged with a crime because the bad guy did not pose a threat to her anymore since he was running away?

Wow, that would be some remarkable 80 year old lady, wouldn't it?

As to the fire insurance - my bank requires me to have it for the mortgage. The Florida law requires me to have car insurance.

As I said, it is your right to carry. Absolutely no need for it but go ahead and do it if you do everything legal.

Wandatime 08-02-2015 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Jima64 (Post 1094537)
A person that chews on the last of a cigar can have a horrible bad breath odor that goes beyond the smoking smell. I used to shop at a local market and the new clerk, an older gentleman would chew a cigar and it was so bad several customers quit shopping there. It went beyond the cigar aroma but just plain nasty breath so bad you could smell it as soon as you approached the checkout register.

Point taken, but even after removing the cigar the breath would still remain disgusting, no?

Wandatime 08-02-2015 08:09 AM

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snowbird22154 08-02-2015 08:29 AM

Crazy People
 
People Live Longer....listening to your wife :beer3:


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Originally Posted by Xcuse (Post 1094375)
My wife would insist I keep my mouth shut and that we move.


MikeyBoo54 08-02-2015 08:48 AM

I guess I'm lost in the thread now.

Did the cigar chewer have a gun? Was he letting his dog poop in the grass outside the bar? Was he a politician espousing gun control?

Is this a demonstration of how to hijack any thread into the standard issues of complaint at TV?

:ohdear:

dillywho 08-02-2015 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Sandtrap328 (Post 1094621)
Okay guys, my last post on the subject of carrying guns in and around The Villages.

In the instance of the 80 year old lady mugged in the parking lot - she takes one powerful blow and gets knocked to the ground and her purse is grabbed and the mugger runs to a waiting car. That is the fact of the case.

IF she had a gun - not in her purse that was stolen - she was knocked to the ground, suffered a broken hip (I believe), could she play through the pain; shake the cobwebs out of her head; draw her pistol from wherever it was holstered; aim at a running target now many yards away, and pump a couple of slugs into the "10 ring"?

Then, besides probably hitting some innocent bystanders, would she be charged with a crime because the bad guy did not pose a threat to her anymore since he was running away?

Wow, that would be some remarkable 80 year old lady, wouldn't it?

As to the fire insurance - my bank requires me to have it for the mortgage. The Florida law requires me to have car insurance.

As I said, it is your right to carry. Absolutely no need for it but go ahead and do it if you do everything legal.

Had one of those witnesses been carrying, they could have been apprehended sooner or the crime averted all together. There is "no need for it".....until there is.

As for the cigar guy, I would just finish my drink and leave. If eating, I would just ask to be seated elsewhere as soon as there was another place available.

outlaw 08-02-2015 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Sandtrap328 (Post 1094621)
Okay guys, my last post on the subject of carrying guns in and around The Villages.

In the instance of the 80 year old lady mugged in the parking lot - she takes one powerful blow and gets knocked to the ground and her purse is grabbed and the mugger runs to a waiting car. That is the fact of the case.

IF she had a gun - not in her purse that was stolen - she was knocked to the ground, suffered a broken hip (I believe), could she play through the pain; shake the cobwebs out of her head; draw her pistol from wherever it was holstered; aim at a running target now many yards away, and pump a couple of slugs into the "10 ring"?

Then, besides probably hitting some innocent bystanders, would she be charged with a crime because the bad guy did not pose a threat to her anymore since he was running away?

Wow, that would be some remarkable 80 year old lady, wouldn't it?

As to the fire insurance - my bank requires me to have it for the mortgage. The Florida law requires me to have car insurance.

As I said, it is your right to carry. Absolutely no need for it but go ahead and do it if you do everything legal.

I'm not required to have house insurance, but I do. I'm not required to carry $300,000 auto coverage, but I do. So, in my case, it is the same as CC. It reminds me of the flood "victims" that never buy FEMA flood insurance, and then want FEMA to rebuild their house when it gets flooded.

Bogie Shooter 08-02-2015 12:19 PM

As I was reading this thread I saw some interesting stats on a CNN report.
Since 911 we have had 74 people killed in terriost attacks, to which $800m has been spent. During this same period there were 150,000 gun deaths,
which nothing has been spent or anything done.
Seems like our priorities are misplaced.......

CathyandSteveG 08-02-2015 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1094276)
Yesterday, my wife & myself were sitting @ the bar at an unnamed country club.

Two men sat down a few cars away. One of the men was chewing on a non smoking cigar that had about 1" of tobacco left-the stench was horrible- As a cigar smoker I could never smoke any cigar that short.

I asked the bar person , to ask the gentleman to kindly get rid of that "stinker"

she did so- and he kinda got in my face & said."next time ask me your self"

I asked the bar person to avoid the confrontation-that I suspected would arise.

So he simply had the cigar in his mouth but he was not smoking it? it was not lit? He was chewing it?.... kind of like dipping snuff or chewing a wad of tobacco? Could the odor that you were smelling have been lingering on his clothes?

Is smoking allowed in the country clubs? although he was not technically smoking. Are vapor cigarettes allowed in the country clubs? I don't live in TV yet so I don't know the answer to these questions.

Your question is what would you have done? I would simply have moved to another table.

JGVillages 08-02-2015 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Jima64 (Post 1094286)
I sympathize with you avout this cigar stench. My dad was a lifelong cigar smoker and there is a big difference between smoking and chewing on the end. It is a terrible tobacco breath that won't go away. I guess I would have moved and if the server asked about the move I would have said why.

I think we sat next to this guy at the "Sharon" Performing Arts Center a couple weeks ago. The stench from his breath was awful. Some people have no clue.:boxing2::boxing2:

Barefoot 08-02-2015 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Happinow (Post 1094600)
Then I would have gotten up and moved. Chewing is nauseating.

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1094459)
We only eat @ the bar, & there were no more seats available.

Chatbrat already said there were no more seats available.

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Originally Posted by Wandatime (Post 1094517)
It is a country club in a golfing community in the middle of summer. Men and women come in from playing golf in this heat reeking of sweat, body odor, stale perfume, cigarette and cigar smoke. I wouldn't have done a darned thing except continue to eat my lunch.

:thumbup: Always the voice of reason.

John_W 08-02-2015 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Sandtrap328 (Post 1094593)
If that 80 year old woman had been armed, the chances are the pistol would have been carried in her purse.

The mugger came up in back of her, knocked her to the ground with one powerful blow, grabbed her purse and ran to a waiting car. That is how it happened according to all witnesses.

If she had been armed, the mugger would have gotten a gun as part of his loot.

Why would a woman with a concealed weapon permit carry a gun in the one place that a mugger would try to steal? Obviously posting opinions on a message board doesn't require training. Granny on the otherhand, would of had to undergo training, fingerprinting, background checks, photographing, pay a few dollars here and there all before she received her concealed weapon permit. Then she would of probably visited a gun shop or two and most likely would not have been quite as dumb as you protrayed her in your example.

Sandtrap328 08-02-2015 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by John_W (Post 1094893)
Why would a woman with a concealed weapon permit carry a gun in the one place that a mugger would try to steal? Obviously posting opinions on a message board doesn't require training. Granny on the otherhand, would of had to undergo training, fingerprinting, background checks, photographing, pay a few dollars here and there all before she received her concealed weapon permit. Then she would of probably visited a gun shop or two and most likely would not have been quite as dumb as you protrayed her in your example.

Let's say she had a gun in a holster tucked in her pants. She gets knocked down to the ground from behind, breaks a hip (I believe), laying on the ground with a broken hip and pulls out her pistol and plugs a running perp many yards away? Not going to happen, dude.

Let's also say "Granny" was a WAC during the Korean War. All she needs for a CCL is her DD214, fingerprinting, and pay about $100. No training or test or shooting skill required at all for a veteran even though military service might have been 70 years ago.

Anyhow, enjoy packing your gun in legal places.

dbussone 08-02-2015 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Sandtrap328 (Post 1094957)
Let's say she had a gun in a holster tucked in her pants. She gets knocked down to the ground from behind, breaks a hip (I believe), laying on the ground with a broken hip and pulls out her pistol and plugs a running perp many yards away? Not going to happen, dude.



Let's also say "Granny" was a WAC during the Korean War. All she needs for a CCL is her DD214, fingerprinting, and pay about $100. No training or test or shooting skill required at all for a veteran even though military service might have been 70 years ago.



Anyhow, enjoy packing your gun in legal places.


The granny I know is far younger than 80, very skilled with a pistol, and I would not want to hack her off. She is very aware of her surroundings. And has excellent reflexes. I think you may be underestimating the skills of certain Villagers.

Barefoot 08-02-2015 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by John_W (Post 1094893)
Why would a woman with a concealed weapon permit carry a gun in the one place that a mugger would try to steal? Obviously posting opinions on a message board doesn't require training. Granny on the other hand, would of had to undergo training, fingerprinting, background checks, photographing, pay a few dollars here and there all before she received her concealed weapon permit. Then she would of probably visited a gun shop or two and most likely would not have been quite as dumb as you protrayed her in your example.

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Originally Posted by MikeyBoo54 (Post 1094649)
I guess I'm lost in the thread now.
Did the cigar chewer have a gun?

I'm a little confused also. :confused: What on earth does a gun have to do with a man with bad breath in a bar chewing on a cigar?
I guess I need to read all 60 posts.

John W -
Most 80 year old woman I know wouldn't have the slightest interest in obtaining a permit to carry a concealed weapon. :shocked:

CFrance 08-02-2015 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by MikeyBoo54 (Post 1094649)
I guess I'm lost in the thread now.

Did the cigar chewer have a gun? Was he letting his dog poop in the grass outside the bar? Was he a politician espousing gun control?

Is this a demonstration of how to hijack any thread into the standard issues of complaint at TV?

:ohdear:

No, it's a demonstration of how rumors get started!

Skybo 08-03-2015 12:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1094276)
Yesterday, my wife & myself were sitting @ the bar at an unnamed country club.

Two men sat down a few cars away. One of the men was chewing on a non smoking cigar that had about 1" of tobacco left-the stench was horrible- As a cigar smoker I could never smoke any cigar that short.

I asked the bar person , to ask the gentleman to kindly get rid of that "stinker"

she did so- and he kinda got in my face & said."next time ask me your self"

I asked the bar person to avoid the confrontation-that I suspected would arise.

Personally, if I were seated next to someone who somehow offended me, I would have moved. But since you "only eat at bars", I guess that limits your options, so you just have to deal with it.

outlaw 08-03-2015 06:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Bogie Shooter (Post 1094754)
As I was reading this thread I saw some interesting stats on a CNN report.
Since 911 we have had 74 people killed in terriost attacks, to which $800m has been spent. During this same period there were 150,000 gun deaths,
which nothing has been spent or anything done.
Seems like our priorities are misplaced.......

About half of those gun deaths were suicide; that's their choice, I'm libertarian. The other half were drug/gang bangers; again, no problem there; taking out the trash.

Bogie Shooter 08-03-2015 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by outlaw (Post 1095037)
About half of those gun deaths were suicide; that's their choice, I'm libertarian. The other half were drug/gang bangers; again, no problem there; taking out the trash.

Do you carry when taking out the trash?

NotFromAroundHere 08-03-2015 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by outlaw (Post 1095037)
About half of those gun deaths were suicide; that's their choice, I'm libertarian. The other half were drug/gang bangers; again, no problem there; taking out the trash.

Half suicides and half criminals. I had no idea that of all the gun deaths not a single innocent victim was involved. Learn something new every day.

Carla B 08-03-2015 08:01 AM

I'm curious about why the OP only eats at bars. More chance to socialize with strangers?

outlaw 08-03-2015 08:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Bogie Shooter (Post 1095070)
Do you carry when taking out the trash?

No. Actually, I don't carry in the compound. I feel pretty safe here. I admit that is a flimsy excuse for shirking my responsibility as a citizen to rely on others to protect me. But it is what it is. An Orlando LEO friend tells me "you have no idea what kind of people are around you". He even carries at Disney World. I guess you have to walk in his shoes to really appreciate how many predators there really are out there.

outlaw 08-03-2015 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Carla B (Post 1095081)
I'm curious about why the OP only eats at bars. More chance to socialize with strangers?

Smaller tip?

outlaw 08-03-2015 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by NotFromAroundHere (Post 1095080)
Half suicides and half criminals. I had no idea that of all the gun deaths not a single innocent victim was involved. Learn something new every day.

That's why I said "about". Check out the FBI stats on suicides; it was an eye opener for me.

Bonny 08-03-2015 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Carla B (Post 1095081)
I'm curious about why the OP only eats at bars. More chance to socialize with strangers?

We tend to usually eat at the bar. We love people and have met many fun people at the bar. There's more of a chance to talk and meet people. Plus we like the bartenders. :)

Bonny 08-03-2015 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by outlaw (Post 1095092)
Smaller tip?

Why would you think smaller tip? We tip the same as we would tip any where in the restaurant. We tip on the bill. Sometimes we tip more at the bar because we've been having a fun time.

kcrazorbackfan 08-03-2015 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by outlaw (Post 1095091)
No. Actually, I don't carry in the compound. I feel pretty safe here. I admit that is a flimsy excuse for shirking my responsibility as a citizen to rely on others to protect me. But it is what it is. An Orlando LEO friend tells me "you have no idea what kind of people are around you". He even carries at Disney World. I guess you have to walk in his shoes to really appreciate how many predators there really are out there.

Whenever we leave the home, I really never know where we might end up for the day, so mine is always with me. Concerning Orlando, I've lived in STL (one of the most dangerous cities in America) and KC (a relatively low crime city); Orlando (including the metro area) is as violent as STL (and it's metro area) is.

outlaw 08-03-2015 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by kcrazorbackfan (Post 1095140)
Whenever we leave the home, I really never know where we might end up for the day, so mine is always with me. Concerning Orlando, I've lived in STL (one of the most dangerous cities in America) and KC (a relatively low crime city); Orlando (including the metro area) is as violent as STL (and it's metro area) is.

Orlando's expanding and we're only 60 miles north....

outlaw 08-03-2015 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonny (Post 1095125)
Why would you think smaller tip? We tip the same as we would tip any where in the restaurant. We tip on the bill. Sometimes we tip more at the bar because we've been having a fun time.

I believe it is custom/tradition.

Bonny 08-03-2015 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by outlaw (Post 1095151)
I believe it is custom/tradition.

Never heard of that. Everyone I know tips according to what their bill is. Doesn't matter if I get a $30.00 bill at a table or at the bar, I tip on the $30.00.

outlaw 08-03-2015 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Bonny (Post 1095164)
Never heard of that. Everyone I know tips according to what their bill is. Doesn't matter if I get a $30.00 bill at a table or at the bar, I tip on the $30.00.

I think if you ask your friends specifically if they tip the same % at a bar and table, they will tell you differently.

newguyintv 08-03-2015 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1094276)
Yesterday, my wife & myself were sitting @ the bar at an unnamed country club.

Two men sat down a few cars away. One of the men was chewing on a non smoking cigar that had about 1" of tobacco left-the stench was horrible- As a cigar smoker I could never smoke any cigar that short.

I asked the bar person , to ask the gentleman to kindly get rid of that "stinker"

she did so- and he kinda got in my face & said."next time ask me your self"

I asked the bar person to avoid the confrontation-that I suspected would arise.

Why would you ask a bar person to do your dirty work for you?

Bonny 08-03-2015 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by outlaw (Post 1095260)
I think if you ask your friends specifically if they tip the same % at a bar and table, they will tell you differently.

No they definitely wouldn't. My friends tip on the bill. Never heard of anyone tipping less because someone else served them.


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