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BK001 06-22-2017 08:57 AM

1. Our home was over 100 years old and beginning to show it's age in terms of structure, plumbing, electricity, etc. etc. -- it was a never-ending fixer upper better suited for younger people.

2. We had a two family home and were sick and tired of being the good, kind and understanding landlords. ("Can't pay the rent? Here have something to eat.") An exaggeration but not by much.

3. We wanted to tap into the HUGE appreciation in our home value.

4. Most of our family and friends had already left New York City.

5. Shoveling the snow around our double corner lot home with 4 garages was becoming a marathon event that we no longer enjoyed.

6. Two of our favorite local restaurants (Indian and Chinese) changed hands and we were unhappy with new chef's cuisine.

7. The local senior citizens center was a depressing room in the basement of a church that offered a weekly movie, bingo game, chair yoga class, and a bus trip to the Staten Island Mall. Oh what joy -- Macy's.

golfing eagles 06-22-2017 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Chatbrat (Post 1415022)
If I could have still been able to maintain our boat we would still be living & cruising on it, there is a drop dead beautiful Hatteras 58' LRC, for sale--starting to have second thoughts--in the old days 1 day in the engine room 2 days on my back, now it would be a week on my back

Did you see "The Money Pit" with Tom Hanks and Shelley Long? IMHO, a boat is 100x worse:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

golfing eagles 06-22-2017 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by BK001 (Post 1415034)
1. Our home was over 100 years old and beginning to show it's age in terms of structure, plumbing, electricity, etc. etc. -- it was a never-ending fixer upper better suited for younger people.

2. We had a two family home and were sick and tired of being the good, kind and understanding landlords. ("Can't pay the rent? Here have something to eat.") An exaggeration but not by much.

3. We wanted to tap into the HUGE appreciation in our home value.

4. Most of our family and friends had already left New York City.

5. Shoveling the snow around our double corner lot home with 4 garages was becoming a marathon event that we no longer enjoyed.

6. Two of our favorite local restaurants (Indian and Chinese) changed hands and we were unhappy with new chef's cuisine.

7. The local senior citizens center was a depressing room in the basement of a church that offered a weekly movie, bingo game, chair yoga class, and a bus trip to the Staten Island Mall. Oh what joy -- Macy's.

But you lost that great view of the Verrazano Narrows bridge----you know, the one you can look at but can't afford to cross at $15/pop:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

And the Staten Island Mall---yuk. I actually did moonlighting at the urgent care center there--what a nightmare, takes 20 minutes just to get into the parking lot at holiday time. I once had to resuscitate a shopper in the parking lot 2 days before Christmas, and it took the ambulance 25 minutes to get from Richmond Ave into the parking lot. It would have been an easier bus ride to Roosevelt Field!

Gpsma 06-22-2017 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by BK001 (Post 1415034)
1. Our home was over 100 years old and beginning to show it's age in terms of structure, plumbing, electricity, etc. etc. -- it was a never-ending fixer upper better suited for younger people.

2. We had a two family home and were sick and tired of being the good, kind and understanding landlords. ("Can't pay the rent? Here have something to eat.") An exaggeration but not by much.

3. We wanted to tap into the HUGE appreciation in our home value.

4. Most of our family and friends had already left New York City.

5. Shoveling the snow around our double corner lot home with 4 garages was becoming a marathon event that we no longer enjoyed.

6. Two of our favorite local restaurants (Indian and Chinese) changed hands and we were unhappy with new chef's cuisine.

7. The local senior citizens center was a depressing room in the basement of a church that offered a weekly movie, bingo game, chair yoga class, and a bus trip to the Staten Island Mall. Oh what joy -- Macy's.

All understandable except 6 & 7. Who would move from Brooklyn for the ooohh so fine exceptional dining in TV.

And if you wanted recreation, a quick ride on the R train would bring you right to Manhattan for world class entertainment.

2BNTV 06-22-2017 09:33 AM

For three reasons:
1. Weather.
2. Weather.
3. Weather.
I hated the cold and snow, having to deal with it!

Seriously.
1. Weather.
2. Taxes in CT, (a good state to be from).
3. Much closer to son and granddaughter.

After visiting TV, the decision was a no brainer for me!

golfing eagles 06-22-2017 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Mikeod (Post 1415025)
We moved here from San Diego. Yep, San Diego.
We looked a several places, but most had a golf course and a rec center only. Once we saw TV, the choice was easy.

I so agree. I did a year of research before our LSP, and found that most Florida 55+ "golfing" communities were a single 18 hole course and a single clubhouse. All activities were at that clubhouse, so a limited selection. There would be one pool, one restaurant, a few tennis courts and shuffleboard. Anything else you needed---grocery store, bank, pharmacy etc. you had to get in your car and drive 5 miles in traffic, which could be quite heavy in Naples or Lauderdale area.

Like I said above, I WIKE it here:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

DigitalGranny 06-22-2017 10:06 AM

TV might not be right for everyone. If you want a big house, or lots of land, or no neighbors, this isn't for you. It definitely IS right for us. We have a modest house but it's on a golf course. Our Lanai and Florida room both face a beautiful green. We love the easy, breezy lifestyle here. We travel almost exclusively by golf cart. Go to the squares only for our favorite bands and festivals. Love the golf, landscaping, and pools. But the people are the best part. Such nice people!

Topspinmo 06-22-2017 10:41 AM

Been here about 3 years, hindsight, probably would of stayed put for 5 to 8 years. miss tinkering around acreage, fruit tree, (especially the Rainer cherries, pear, peach, apples, and grapes) garden, purple Martin colony, OU tennis, great grocery prices and restaurants. I could do everything there I do here, but just not daily. Adjusted well over the years was forced to move several time being retired military's. But, you alway miss anywhere you been for 5 to 20 years or more after ththe fact.

NotGolfer 06-22-2017 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by golfing eagles (Post 1415046)
But you lost that great view of the Verrazano Narrows bridge----you know, the one you can look at but can't afford to cross at $15/pop:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

And the Staten Island Mall---yuk. I actually did moonlighting at the urgent care center there--what a nightmare, takes 20 minutes just to get into the parking lot at holiday time. I once had to resuscitate a shopper in the parking lot 2 days before Christmas, and it took the ambulance 25 minutes to get from Richmond Ave into the parking lot. It would have been an easier bus ride to Roosevelt Field!

And folks complain about our ER/health-care here!!!

Kevin and Luci 06-22-2017 10:46 AM

One word: Illinois

vintageogauge 06-22-2017 10:52 AM

We are one of the oldest or the oldest couple in our neighborhood, we have seen many of our friends fall Ill over the last few years, our grandchildren are getting older and are more involved with their activities now, rarely are we needed for baby sitting anymore, the weather in Northeast Ohio in the winter is really bad (most years), there is very little to do here with people our age, and after spending winter vacations in TV for 5 or 6 years and staying all around Florida for several other years trying to decide where to end up, TV was by far #1. We have always had large lots or views from our homes so we chose to get into Fenney while there were affordable water front homes available and that is where we ended up buying. Can't wait to get everything down there and start enjoying the lifestyle. We have two more runs back and forth and should be settled in by summers end.

golfing eagles 06-22-2017 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by vintageogauge (Post 1415102)
We are one of the oldest or the oldest couple in our neighborhood, we have seen many of our friends fall Ill over the last few years, our grandchildren are getting older and are more involved with their activities now, rarely are we needed for baby sitting anymore, the weather in Northeast Ohio in the winter is really bad (most years), there is very little to do here with people our age, and after spending winter vacations in TV for 5 or 6 years and staying all around Florida for several other years trying to decide where to end up, TV was by far #1. We have always had large lots or views from our homes so we chose to get into Fenney while there were affordable water front homes available and that is where we ended up buying. Can't wait to get everything down there and start enjoying the lifestyle. We have two more runs back and forth and should be settled in by summers end.


Welcome to your new home!!!:pepper2::pepper2::pepper2:

PS---What was Abraham Lincoln like in high school???:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

golfing eagles 06-22-2017 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by NotGolfer (Post 1415097)
And folks complain about our ER/health-care here!!!

In all fairness to those that complain, TVRH is far from perfect, and I'm sure they all had some sort of bad experience to one degree or another. It is also fair to say that Villagers are not dropping like flies at TVRH. Their mortality and readmission data for heart attack, heart failure and stroke (the conditions that the state health dept. monitors) are all within Florida averages

bagboy 06-22-2017 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by vintageogauge (Post 1415102)
We are one of the oldest or the oldest couple in our neighborhood, we have seen many of our friends fall Ill over the last few years, our grandchildren are getting older and are more involved with their activities now, rarely are we needed for baby sitting anymore, the weather in Northeast Ohio in the winter is really bad (most years), there is very little to do here with people our age, and after spending winter vacations in TV for 5 or 6 years and staying all around Florida for several other years trying to decide where to end up, TV was by far #1. We have always had large lots or views from our homes so we chose to get into Fenney while there were affordable water front homes available and that is where we ended up buying. Can't wait to get everything down there and start enjoying the lifestyle. We have two more runs back and forth and should be settled in by summers end.

Once you get settled, concentrate on having fun and doing the things that you enjoy. This is your time, relax and make the most of it. Welcome to The Villages.

Nucky 06-22-2017 12:47 PM

I get a real kick out of telling the people we left behind in NJ about the taxes. The last house we were in was on a 50' x 100' lot. Taxes $9,600 a year or $800 a month. Here the taxes are about $1000 a year and no snow and I donated my recliner to my son. I have no time to use it. The Villages is what you make of it. We love it here. People here are mainly considerate other than the occasional blip! We don't miss the NJ/NY traffic either.

jnieman 06-22-2017 12:57 PM

moving
 
We moved here for the 1) weather 2) activities (there was nothing to do back home)

patfla06 06-22-2017 01:01 PM

Most of us from the North don't miss the taxes, the traffic and the bad weather.

When we describe how much we love The Villages I think we're all describing a QUALITY OF LIFE that is hard to find elsewhere.

raynan 06-22-2017 01:21 PM

SNOW and pensions go a lot further here than in Massachusetts.

SALYBOW 06-22-2017 03:02 PM

We visited and my hubby played 4 games of golf in a week. We came!

ColdNoMore 06-22-2017 04:05 PM

Winters too long and snowy...summer and golf season too short.

DonH57 06-22-2017 05:12 PM

The state of Massachusetts asked me to leave!

dbussone 06-22-2017 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by DonH57 (Post 1415292)
The state of Massachusetts asked me to leave!



The State of Massachusetts didn't have to ask me. The Blizzard of '78 was all the push I needed.


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DonH57 06-22-2017 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by dbussone (Post 1415300)
The State of Massachusetts didn't have to ask me. The Blizzard of '78 was all the push I needed.


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I didn't move there till 1995 and my wife was born and raised there. Besides the snow, ice, and cold it made best sense to come here and leave taxachusetts.

dbussone 06-22-2017 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by DonH57 (Post 1415333)
I didn't move there till 1995 and my wife was born and raised there. Besides the snow, ice, and snow it made best sense to come here and leave taxachusetts.



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Barboza 06-23-2017 04:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1414646)
Just a question for those that have made a permanent move to TV, why didn't you retire in your former location?

I'm more curious as to why you didn't stay as opposed to what attracted you to TV. Perhaps cost of living, weather, etc.

Personally I moved because of the weather. The winters finally beat me down. If it wasn't for the brutal weather up north there is nothing here, either in Florida or TV, that would have made me move south.

We found the Villages more than 26 yrs ago when we were still in our 40's. So impressed by the people & lifestyle, and the weather :planned on move, ASAP ( in fact 10yrs of checking everything ? too good to be true too many "smiley "people ) but bought @ 57 & now 19yrs on still love the people & place , even all the changes! Only downside (as we moved more than 4500 mils from UK) America does not permit us to live here full time, however we continue to enjoy the time we spend here and many times when we are back in UK find ourselves wishing we were back at our "home in the sun"

rjn5656 06-23-2017 05:38 AM

retired in place
 
Year round sunshine. Plenty of golf. And low taxes.

Barefoot 06-23-2017 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Barboza (Post 1415407)
Only downside (as we moved more than 4500 mils from UK) America does not permit us to live here full time,

Same for Canadians, unfortunately we are only allowed to spend 182 days in a calendar year in our home in The Villages.
However we treasure every day we spend in TV, and always look forward to the winter season.
Yes, I am one of the dreaded seasonal residents.:throwtomatoes:

golfing eagles 06-23-2017 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefoot (Post 1415622)
Same for Canadians, unfortunately we are only allowed to spend 182 days in a calendar year in our home in The Villages.
However we treasure every day we spend in TV, and always look forward to the winter season.
Yes, I am one of the dreaded seasonal residents.:throwtomatoes:

I feel your pain----it must be horrible to be banished to the frozen tundra 183 days a year. (Do you get an extra day here in leap year???) Maybe you could find the satellite camera at Ice Station Zebra. Better yet, maybe you could find THE LOBSTER you owe me:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

NotGolfer 06-23-2017 02:52 PM

Here's the short list....the weather, the weather, the weather!!! Add to that NOT enough to do, especially in the winter THEN add taxes to these and that's our reason(s) for coming here!!! Plus the cost of living in FL is cheaper!! Yes, we're full time!!

Buffalo Jim 06-23-2017 03:00 PM

I see a hefty " Exit Tax " ahead for those who are pulling up stakes from one of the Northern Heavy-Tax Dependent States .

Bavarian 06-23-2017 03:33 PM

I liked where we were, but my wife wanted one story house. She wanted warm temps. We don't play Golf, but I like the ethnic and location social clubs. Seh wanted to move here because some old neighbors way back lived here and she wanted to work on Shoebox.

Have our own pool, none nearby. Nice to walk out an into pool, can grill most any day and can eat out with birdcage keeping out the bugs.

A big advantage is no State and County Income Taxes, but Property taxes higher then our two story plus basement in MD. Another bad feature is having to pay water, (well), swer (septic tank) and trash, took ours to the dump or transfer station, so those are added costs.

Like Golf cart transportation though!

I do miss doing my own garden work though.

JourneyOfLife 06-24-2017 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1414646)
Just a question for those that have made a permanent move to TV, why didn't you retire in your former location?

I'm more curious as to why you didn't stay as opposed to what attracted you to TV. Perhaps cost of living, weather, etc.

Personally I moved because of the weather. The winters finally beat me down. If it wasn't for the brutal weather up north there is nothing here, either in Florida or TV, that would have made me move south.


If winter weather was the only/main reason you moved to TV, why didn't you just "Stayput & Snowbird"?

Gpsma 06-24-2017 11:58 AM

No reason to keep a house up north when we could snowbird with family. Didnt only move because of the weather but also because there is no reason to pay high taxes to educate the snowflakes anymore.

TV has its benefits but it cant shine a light to the activities, culture, dining and real entertainment you can find in the northern urban areas.
Its nothing more than a clean, well managed city....with lousy pizza and terrible bagels and few people who know what a knish is.

Aw Man 06-24-2017 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Chi-Town (Post 1415024)
The Chicago area is alive the end of May until the beginning of September.
The Lakefront, neighborhood festivals, art fairs, the Cubs (and Sox), and the suburbs mirroring the city with a number of events. Never a dull moment....until the end of September. The tables come in and the entertainment stops, and then it's time to enter the winter doldrums.
When working you get through this and hope for an early Spring. There was no way we were going through that period retired.

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We loved Chicago but our reasons for moving are as stated in the partial post above. Plus year round golf!

SCasey 06-26-2017 06:41 AM

My wife got tired of shoveling snow!

Allegiance 06-26-2017 06:51 AM

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Originally Posted by SCasey (Post 1416883)
My wife got tired of shoveling snow!

That was funny!

thelegges 06-26-2017 07:40 AM

still have our home up north. use it for summers and holidays. Plus other half still works full time and maintains it alone for the rest of the year. Its about being active here, golf, friends, not so much of the food. taxes are more for us and do miss the change of seasons, fall is just beautiful. In a few years will make the move to sell up north and stay put in TV

TomOB 06-26-2017 09:18 AM

Moved from Hawaii because of expense. Moving out of TV because of overcrowding.

JP 06-26-2017 11:07 AM

Not the swinging lifestyle of the villages

MSGirl 06-26-2017 01:58 PM

We moved for the lifestyle!


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