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lennythenet 12-24-2020 10:44 AM

It amazes me that HIPPA laws went out the window with COVID. You can’t be told about your parents or adult children’s conditions without prior consent but heck now they can trace you and even post it on the internet or TV that you have COVID!

Joe V. 12-24-2020 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by l2ridehd (Post 1877196)
All you folks who will not tell are the reason it is spreading so fast. I personally think that is very selfish on your part. Wouldn’t you want to know to help protect yourself? I would tell everyone in my Village and anyone else I thought I might have made contact with. That is the only honorable thing to do.

Would you tell neighbors if you are an alcoholic or drug addicted to pain killers, esp. if you own guns? Don't you think your neighbors should know you are a threat to your community every time you drive your car? People get "outed" by nosy neighbors. What happened to HIPPA law protections?

Travelingal702 12-24-2020 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by FG111 (Post 1876777)
Greetings -

A neighbor of mine in her 60's two months ago relayed to our block residents that although she was asymptomatic, she tested positive for Covid and initiated her self quarantine. Although she was medically cleared four weeks ago by her physician, several members on our block have refused to communicate, socialize or even walk near her when she steps outside her residence in order to walk her dog. Several of our neighbors have completely excluded this lady and have secretly relayed to me that they will not ever socialize with this lady again until they have been vaccinated.

My neighbor has been unjustly treated like a "walking disease" although he has been medically cleared and advised by her physician that currently she will not be subjected to getting nor passing-on COVID for at least the next 90 days. I just wonder how many other Villages residents that are asymptomatic and have tested positive for COVID will not advise their neighbors in order not to become ostracized like my neighbor.

So I ask, if you test positive for COVID, will you tell anyone????

Unfortunately, in this situation, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't!!

tvbound 12-24-2020 11:24 AM

I would definitely tell all of those who I may have even remotely come into contact with, but can't see just broadcasting it to everyone. Unlike so many of my friends on Facebook who feel they have to share even the most intimate (and usually embarrassing) facets of their personal life, I'm mostly a fairly private person.

KRM0614 12-24-2020 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by FG111 (Post 1876777)
Greetings -

A neighbor of mine in her 60's two months ago relayed to our block residents that although she was asymptomatic, she tested positive for Covid and initiated her self quarantine. Although she was medically cleared four weeks ago by her physician, several members on our block have refused to communicate, socialize or even walk near her when she steps outside her residence in order to walk her dog. Several of our neighbors have completely excluded this lady and have secretly relayed to me that they will not ever socialize with this lady again until they have been vaccinated.

My neighbor has been unjustly treated like a "walking disease" although he has been medically cleared and advised by her physician that currently she will not be subjected to getting nor passing-on COVID for at least the next 90 days. I just wonder how many other Villages residents that are asymptomatic and have tested positive for COVID will not advise their neighbors in order not to become ostracized like my neighbor.

So I ask, if you test positive for COVID, will you tell anyone????

This virus is a symptom of other attitudes that are prevalent here. Conform criticize and comply in every aspect of living here. Instead of being adults that are happy content it’s closed minded petty and cruel. This is the biggest reason I’m praying that in 2021 I can sell and inspire me to be a better person in a different part of the country.

kendi 12-24-2020 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Velvet (Post 1876793)
I would not be so hard on the neighbors, research indicates the virus hangs around a long time on surfaces that may have been touched while infectious:

“Research published in the Virology Journal by Australia’s national science agency, CSIRO, is reporting that SARS-CoV-2 can survive for as long as 28 days on surfaces such as plastic, glass, steel, vinyl, and even paper.”

Some people are very vulnerable. The vaccine is here, all this will change soon.


I find it to be very sad that people have used this virus as an excuse to be so cruel. It’s one thing to stay at a safe distance if your concerned, and quite another to have nothing to do with them. I don’t think a wave and a smile is a safety risk.

Kenswing 12-24-2020 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by KRM0614 (Post 1877231)
This virus is a symptom of other attitudes that are prevalent here. Conform criticize and comply in every aspect of living here. Instead of being adults that are happy content it’s closed minded petty and cruel. This is the biggest reason I’m praying that in 2021 I can sell and inspire me to be a better person in a different part of the country.

I truly hope it works out for you. You certainly seem like an unhappy person. Just remember, wherever you go, you take yourself with you. You might want to get a headstart and try to be that better person now.

Ecuadog 12-24-2020 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by retiredguy123 (Post 1876800)
Wow. If all Villagers kept their medical conditions private, what would there be to talk about?

In my mother's retirement community, they used to call those conversations "Organ Recitals."

Velvet 12-24-2020 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by camaguey48 (Post 1877043)
Only the ones I don't like.

Oh, I thought you were going to say the opposite. ;)

Joorn59 12-24-2020 12:22 PM

:1rotfl:: :1rotfl:

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Originally Posted by retiredguy123 (Post 1876800)
Wow. If all Villagers kept their medical conditions private, what would there be to talk about?


Bjeanj 12-24-2020 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Ecuadog (Post 1877245)
In my mother's retirement community, they used to call those conversations "Organ Recitals."

That’s hilarious!

Velvet 12-24-2020 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by kendi (Post 1877233)
I find it to be very sad that people have used this virus as an excuse to be so cruel. It’s one thing to stay at a safe distance if your concerned, and quite another to have nothing to do with them. I don’t think a wave and a smile is a safety risk.

I don’t see the behavior of avoidance being cruel, I see it as self protection. Perhaps ignorant. I agree that smiling and waving from a distance is appropriate and friendly.

But each month I learn something about this virus I didn’t know before. It lasts much longer on surfaces, every 20 degrees lower the virus stays active 10 times as long. New highly contagious variant etc There is so much we still don’t know. But what I am pretty sure of, is that due to his comorbidities if hubby gets it that’s it for him. So I, myself, tend to be “aggressively conservative” with regards to Covid.

Joe C. 12-24-2020 01:36 PM

I would isolate myself for 2 weeks......but I wouldn’t tell anyone.

jimjamuser 12-24-2020 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby (Post 1876804)
If I had reason to believe any of my neighbors were in close enough proximity to me that I felt they should know that their health might have been compromised, I would absolutely tell every single neighbor potentially affected.

But I don't know the people behind my house, and they don't know me. There's no reason they should know my situation, and none for me to know theirs.

In my neighborhood, most of us kind of look out for each other. It's one of the #1 things that "clenched the deal" when we were making a decision to put the deposit on the house. We met with many of the neighbors before we signed that contract. I would want to make sure my neighbors are safe and as healthy as possible. That includes letting them know if I might have passed a potentially deadly illness to them when I sat with them on their lanai, or walked with them while they walked their dog, etc.

I would hope they'd do the same thing for me. Actually - no, I know they would do the same for me. I'd probably bring them treats and leave them at the doorstep for them to take after I walk away, or get their groceries for them, pick up their prescriptions if necessary, and have them call me once a day so I know they're okay in there. Maybe I'd even sit outside their lanai while they're on it, and we can talk through the screen, at a significant distance (more than 6 feet).

If what the OP says is true, I feel horrible for anyone who moves into that neighborhood expecting it to be part of the "friendliest" retirement community. Because there's nothing about that situation that screams "friendly" to me.

A well-written post about an important topic, for which the whole US is reeling-about for answers and we have been given terribly mixed messages. Unfortunately, it is left to the individual to decide. So, it gets down to - let your conscious be your guide - and what would Jesus do ?

jimjamuser 12-24-2020 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by coffeebean (Post 1877036)
When you refer to "close contact", what exactly do you mean? We, as a population, have been instructed to socially distance ourselves and wear masks when in public or anywhere near people that do not live with us in the same home. My family circle includes my husband, and that's it!

Just walking down the street for exercise, my hubby and myself do not get close to anyone, even if they try to get close to us (to chat for example). I step back and remind them to PLEASE do not get close. It really is quite simple to do this.

You mention "close contact". There should be NO CLOSE CONTACT with anyone other than who lives in your home with you. I will never understand how people do not follow this simple rule. I've almost given up on the mask debate. That seems to be a lost cause so I'll just hammer home how important it is to not get close to anyone other than who lives in your home and sleeps with you in your bed.

Thanksgiving and Christmas has all been called off in our household this year. I have family who live in The Villages but will NOT be spending the holidays with them this year. We are being careful. "Close contact" is not in my vocabulary until hubby and I are vaccinated.

Very true. Good post!

Moderator 12-24-2020 03:09 PM

The thread topic is if you would notify your neighbors if you had Covid. It's not where Covid originated. Not about the media. Not about masks.

If you can't stay on this one simple topic this thread like many others that hopelessly stray will also be closed.

Moderator

llmcdaniel 12-24-2020 04:30 PM

5 of our neighbors tested positive, quarantined for 14 days, and then began their lives all over again. Two of them sent out emails to all the residents on our 3 streets basically saying, “Hey y’all, we’re well, come on over.”

jimjamuser 12-24-2020 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by llmcdaniel (Post 1877350)
5 of our neighbors tested positive, quarantined for 14 days, and then began their lives all over again. Two of them sent out emails to all the residents on our 3 streets basically saying, “Hey y’all, we’re well, come on over.”

I would have preferred if they had quarantined for 3 weeks. And since there is NO standard definition of quarantined and no enforcement or laws governing it - it would be like just ASKING everyone to stop at stop signs and lights - what would happen then? So, is a quarantine REALLY (?) a quarantine? That IS why people are avoiding EVEN people who say that they can NOT spread it. And Medical professionals are still researching to find out the answer to the question - can they still spread CV. It is still unknown!

Velvet 12-24-2020 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by llmcdaniel (Post 1877350)
5 of our neighbors tested positive, quarantined for 14 days, and then began their lives all over again. Two of them sent out emails to all the residents on our 3 streets basically saying, “Hey y’all, we’re well, come on over.”

And, I’d be right over... next year.

DrPickletickl 12-25-2020 07:47 AM

yes and you should tell this whole junk about keeping illness hidden is old school and ignorant. I am immune compromised and I sure as hell would wanna know if my neighbor could potentially kill me.

nick demis 12-25-2020 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by FG111 (Post 1876777)
Greetings -

A neighbor of mine in her 60's two months ago relayed to our block residents that although she was asymptomatic, she tested positive for Covid and initiated her self quarantine. Although she was medically cleared four weeks ago by her physician, several members on our block have refused to communicate, socialize or even walk near her when she steps outside her residence in order to walk her dog. Several of our neighbors have completely excluded this lady and have secretly relayed to me that they will not ever socialize with this lady again until they have been vaccinated.

My neighbor has been unjustly treated like a "walking disease" although he has been medically cleared and advised by her physician that currently she will not be subjected to getting nor passing-on COVID for at least the next 90 days. I just wonder how many other Villages residents that are asymptomatic and have tested positive for COVID will not advise their neighbors in order not to become ostracized like my neighbor.

So I ask, if you test positive for COVID, will you tell anyone????

I fell sorry for these small minded neighbors you have. I wonder how they would feel if one of them got it and they were treated that way?

Dgizzi 12-25-2020 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Velvet (Post 1876793)
I would not be so hard on the neighbors, research indicates the virus hangs around a long time on surfaces that may have been touched while infectious:

“Research published in the Virology Journal by Australia’s national science agency, CSIRO, is reporting that SARS-CoV-2 can survive for as long as 28 days on surfaces such as plastic, glass, steel, vinyl, and even paper.”

Some people are very vulnerable. The vaccine is here, all this will change soon.

If that is true we would ALL be sick. All of us going to the grocery stores and every public place! Come on already! We would ALL be sick. You don’t need to wear a mask while you are walking outside, in your car or on golf cart!

Barborv 12-25-2020 04:44 PM

Unless you are deemed a close contact with someone, There is no reason to advertise. In my school here in NY, The district will notify anyone who is considered a close contact( being within 6 ft for a cumulative of 15 minutes or more with a person who tests positive.. Even if wearing your masks. My co worker informed over 2 weeks ago that she tested positive and the district will be contacting me because she said we were working on a project together and we were within a few feet from each other wearing our masks. I had to quarantine for 2 weeks, even though my test came back negative. My 2 week quarantine is over today and will go tomorrow for another test to be 100% sure. Thank goodness everyone has to wear masks in school. Masks do work for the most part.

FG111 12-25-2020 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by KRM0614 (Post 1877231)
This virus is a symptom of other attitudes that are prevalent here. Conform criticize and comply in every aspect of living here. Instead of being adults that are happy content it’s closed minded petty and cruel. This is the biggest reason I’m praying that in 2021 I can sell and inspire me to be a better person in a different part of the country.

BYE ------:clap2::clap2::clap2:
I hope you find happiness in another area.

For me, I'm very happy here and plan to live here for the next fifty years.....

Lindsyburnsy 12-25-2020 07:31 PM

Are these also people who refuse to wear a mask? They sound like a bunch of uninformed neighbors. QUOTE=FG111;1876777]Greetings -

A neighbor of mine in her 60's two months ago relayed to our block residents that although she was asymptomatic, she tested positive for Covid and initiated her self quarantine. Although she was medically cleared four weeks ago by her physician, several members on our block have refused to communicate, socialize or even walk near her when she steps outside her residence in order to walk her dog. Several of our neighbors have completely excluded this lady and have secretly relayed to me that they will not ever socialize with this lady again until they have been vaccinated.

My neighbor has been unjustly treated like a "walking disease" although he has been medically cleared and advised by her physician that currently she will not be subjected to getting nor passing-on COVID for at least the next 90 days. I just wonder how many other Villages residents that are asymptomatic and have tested positive for COVID will not advise their neighbors in order not to become ostracized like my neighbor.

So I ask, if you test positive for COVID, will you tell anyone????[/QUOTE]

rjn5656 12-26-2020 07:57 AM

Our neighbors let everyone know, quarantined themselves. No issue.

Chellybean 12-26-2020 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by FG111 (Post 1876777)
Greetings -

A neighbor of mine in her 60's two months ago relayed to our block residents that although she was asymptomatic, she tested positive for Covid and initiated her self quarantine. Although she was medically cleared four weeks ago by her physician, several members on our block have refused to communicate, socialize or even walk near her when she steps outside her residence in order to walk her dog. Several of our neighbors have completely excluded this lady and have secretly relayed to me that they will not ever socialize with this lady again until they have been vaccinated.

My neighbor has been unjustly treated like a "walking disease" although he has been medically cleared and advised by her physician that currently she will not be subjected to getting nor passing-on COVID for at least the next 90 days. I just wonder how many other Villages residents that are asymptomatic and have tested positive for COVID will not advise their neighbors in order not to become ostracized like my neighbor.

So I ask, if you test positive for COVID, will you tell anyone????

Hell no, Maybe, sometimes, I don't know!
I would go to my neighbors I don't like and give them all a sloppy Kiss. LMAO
Does that answer your question, God I crack myself up!
Just a little humor for the folks that are to uptight!

Chi-Town 12-26-2020 12:41 PM

Virus shamers are usually ignorant.

Velvet 12-26-2020 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Chi-Town (Post 1877928)
Virus shamers are usually ignorant.

Hmmm... some are just trying to protect themselves. Avoiding a person to protect yourself is not shaming them. It has been done in all pandemics. They used to burn the house down of families with the virus. Again, not to shame them but for others’ protection.

I think it is nice to be friendly towards people who had the virus. Compassion and caring are always welcome. But I don’t hold it against a person if they try to protect themselves. We still know so little about this virus.

TNLAKEPANDA 12-26-2020 05:20 PM

Never! Too many people are A holes. Plus they have no business knowing anything about my health or any other personal information. Remember there are a Lot of False Positive test results.


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