[thirtyoughtsix]

My wife passed away 16 months ago and was quite lll for many years prior, early on I decided to stay and did just that. There is no better place to be with all the fabulous friends one makes here. The kids back North all have jobs and the grandkids are having fun growing up. Everyone needs companionship, someone to eat with, play (golf, cards,pickleball etc).At our age it is amazing how honest and open we are with each other and no subjects (except religion and politics) is forbidden to discuss. In my case I have no interest in getting married again or having someone move in with me or vice versa. I was married to the most wonderful woman for 53 years and still think of her daily. That being said however, life goes on and I have started a new chapter in my life with a new lady friend who thinks exactly how I do. Obviously each has to do what is best for them.

[firebiker]

Almost eight years ago when my husband and I were touring The Villages and deciding about moving here, one of the things he said was when the time came that one of us was alone, he thought The Villages would be a great place to find peace and heal for the one left behind. He passed almost three years ago, and he was so very, very right. If it wasn't for the wonderful people we met here, who have become dear friends, I'm not sure what shape I would be in. I thank the Lord he led us to this amazing community.

[davem4616]

It's unlikely that either of us would ever remain in TV for long if the other spouse passed.

Too much of a game changer to remain in a huge house so far away from the rest of our family...

life is for the living...that would be the time to move on to the next life chapter

[perrjojo]

I can’t say what we would do but I know several who have stayed and have rich full lives here. Each person is different.

[Debfrommaine]

Husband and I have discussed......of course one never knows until they are in the situation. But, as of now whomever is alone would definitely consider moving into one of the new apartments The Villages is building.

[Stu from NYC]

Originally Posted by thirtyoughtsix

My wife passed away 16 months ago and was quite lll for many years prior, early on I decided to stay and did just that. There is no better place to be with all the fabulous friends one makes here. The kids back North all have jobs and the grandkids are having fun growing up. Everyone needs companionship, someone to eat with, play (golf, cards,pickleball etc).At our age it is amazing how honest and open we are with each other and no subjects (except religion and politics) is forbidden to discuss. In my case I have no interest in getting married again or having someone move in with me or vice versa. I was married to the most wonderful woman for 53 years and still think of her daily. That being said however, life goes on and I have started a new chapter in my life with a new lady friend who thinks exactly how I do. Obviously each has to do what is best for them.

Good for you

[buzzy]

I've been a widower for over three years. Different situation than most. No kids, no family at all, just me. Here, I have friends, acquaintances, hobbies and activities. Even if I wanted a change of scenery, geography, or climate, I'd be alone and have to start over. There are lots of sights to see by land and air travel, but The Villages will remain my home base.

[FG111]

Originally Posted by thirtyoughtsix

My wife passed away 16 months ago and was quite lll for many years prior, early on I decided to stay and did just that. There is no better place to be with all the fabulous friends one makes here. The kids back North all have jobs and the grandkids are having fun growing up. Everyone needs companionship, someone to eat with, play (golf, cards,pickleball etc).At our age it is amazing how honest and open we are with each other and no subjects (except religion and politics) is forbidden to discuss. In my case I have no interest in getting married again or having someone move in with me or vice versa. I was married to the most wonderful woman for 53 years and still think of her daily. That being said however, life goes on and I have started a new chapter in my life with a new lady friend who thinks exactly how I do. Obviously each has to do what is best for them.

Thank You for your honesty and God Bless...

[dpscmsgt]

My wife passed away in Nov of 2016. I soon entered the single life here and found that there were many clubs and functions just for singles. During my single life I met my current wife and true soul mate. During normal times this is the best place to be a single person

[Mikef99]

As a widower I moved here. The social activites and friendly atmoshere attracted me. I have family north and a little here. Covid and lock down has changed my outlook some as the people here have been nasty compared to a year ago, Lack of interaction is a problem if you are by yourself. I also do not see the rioting and extreme issues as in NY , Portland , Philly ,,,,,while I consider moving back I have not ....I hope as covid and the election passes things become more like they were....

[linsid]

My husband passed away seven years ago. We had so many wonderful friends and neighbors I couldn’t imagine leaving. My children are spread all over the country with none living in my home town. I stayed and I am so happy I did. Five years ago I met a wonderful man and I couldn’t be happier.

[chrisinva]

We've discussed this...

If I survive, I'll get a smaller villa (now in designer).

If husband survives, he'll get cable.

[airdale2]

when U stay in a motel U dont talk to anyone, staying in a campground U talk to everyone.

[IndianaJones]

Originally Posted by cypress

Nope. She like likes it here and I could care less about this place.

Copy that - I didn’t want to be here in the first place, but she really likes it so it was worth moving here just to make her happy. I got a F/T job outside of TV so I’d only really have to be here 2 days per week!

[maryanddoug]

I lost my husband in February. Although it’s been incredibly hard during the pandemic, my friends have been so great at visiting and lifting my spirits. I’m a people person and had to put myself out there. There are good people here. Yes it’s lonely at times, but I think it would be worse somewhere else. I can’t imagine being anywhere other than the Villages I feel safe and know my friends are there for me. I hope to stay here until the end.