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graciegirl 10-23-2011 04:41 PM

In this mornings Daily Sun there was an article about adult children returning to the nest.

It also stated that 60% help their adult children financially.

Tweety Bird 10-23-2011 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by gatherer47 (Post 407437)
I agree with everything you're saying Bogie Shooter.I'd rather know about the problem though by reading about it than not being informed.I used to eat breakfast with a guy every week that was arrested for theft.And he was 67! So crime knows no age limit.

Did he steal your eggs?

BlueHeronFan 10-24-2011 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by redwitch (Post 408865)
My daughter was one of those young people who lived here with me. She came with me when I moved here. Had she not been able to stay with me, there is no way I would have moved here. Not her fault she was young or that her mother decided she needed to live elsewhere.

She worked at Applebee's. She was quiet, respectful and kind. All of my neighbors adored her since she went out of her way to help them however she could. She did move out after a year to be around people closer to her age.

My neighbors have their 26 YO son living with them right now. He doesn't make enough money to live on his own right now. He's in a band that is getting more gigs weekly (including at least once a month in TV) and will move out as soon as the band makes enough money for him to do so. A friend of mine's daughter (40ish) moved here after her job became non-existent and she couldn't find another position. She's looking hard but has had no luck finding something new.

A couple I know had their son living with them after he had gone through rehab. Sadly, he went back on drugs and they felt compelled to kick him out. A young man that used to work for me moved in with his grandparents to get away from the drug scene at home. After six months, he went back home. Last I heard, he was back to using drugs, but had not used any here.

So, yes, some kids are with their parents because of legal or drug issues. Just as many are not. Today's economy is going to make it more and more common for single offspring or offspring without children to be moving in with their parents. Like it or not, it is legal and unavoidable. I'd really hate to live in a community that has so little compassion that young adults were unwelcome simply because they were young adults.

This is a 55+ RETIREMENT Community! It is not a family neighborhood or a rehab center for problem children. However, there are many of those type neighborhoods throughout this country. Personally, I am getting very tired of reading in the police blotter of those who are getting arrested for every type of crime that is listed, and those who feel it's not unusual in a 55+ community.

buggyone 10-24-2011 03:26 PM

Only one person in the household has to be 55 or more. Also, 20% of the homes can go to those under 55.

Only restriction I know of is that no person under 19 can stay for more than 30 days. I guess the only way that would be known is if a neighbor "squealed" on the offender.

Nothing anyone can do about adult children living with parents for any reason here.

memason 10-24-2011 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by BlueHeronFan (Post 409927)
This is a 55+ RETIREMENT Community! It is not a family neighborhood or a rehab center for problem children. However, there are many of those type neighborhoods throughout this country. Personally, I am getting very tired of reading in the police blotter of those who are getting arrested for every type of crime that is listed, and those who feel it's not unusual in a 55+ community.

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nitehawk 10-25-2011 06:55 AM

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Originally Posted by BlueHeronFan (Post 409927)
This is a 55+ RETIREMENT Community! It is not a family neighborhood or a rehab center for problem children. However, there are many of those type neighborhoods throughout this country. Personally, I am getting very tired of reading in the police blotter of those who are getting arrested for every type of crime that is listed, and those who feel it's not unusual in a 55+ community.

:mademyday:

villagegolfer 10-25-2011 07:18 AM

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Originally Posted by BlueHeronFan (Post 409927)
This is a 55+ RETIREMENT Community! It is not a family neighborhood or a rehab center for problem children. However, there are many of those type neighborhoods throughout this country. Personally, I am getting very tired of reading in the police blotter of those who are getting arrested for every type of crime that is listed, and those who feel it's not unusual in a 55+ community.


:agree:

BigLew 10-25-2011 08:56 AM

Some of you have got to be kidding!
 
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Originally Posted by BlueHeronFan (Post 409927)
This is a 55+ RETIREMENT Community! It is not a family neighborhood or a rehab center for problem children. However, there are many of those type neighborhoods throughout this country. Personally, I am getting very tired of reading in the police blotter of those who are getting arrested for every type of crime that is listed, and those who feel it's not unusual in a 55+ community.

But this is America's friendliest home town!

Personally I don't know which police blotter you people are reading. The one I see SOMETIMES lists people from the Villages both young and old for legal infractions.I can't believe how reckless with labels some of you are! Really, every person living here under 40 is a deadbeat? ridiculous!
I've seen some of these deadbeats around caring for their parents, imagine the gall, allowing your child to live with you so that they can care for you...they must be on drugs.

I can't believe that you immediately jump on EVERY young person living here....just because they are young! you must have been real drug addict delinquents when you were young!

chuckster 10-25-2011 10:25 AM

Big Lew you said it perfectly. I know of several caring younger people tending to their parents and working here in the villages. Checked Mon. 10/24 Daily Sun "Police Blotter" and found an astonishing number of criminal acts (ONE, I SAID 1) and it was for a license infraction. WOW, I SAY AGAIN, WOW, some crime wave by villagers. Personally I enjoy having open minded younger people to chat with, had my share of closed minded negative types that seem to get worse with age. jmho

graciegirl 10-25-2011 11:14 AM

I have spent my lifetime enjoying children. I taught preschoolers for several decades, went to school to learn all about children and their behavior and tried to be a good mother, grandmother, aunt and neighbor. I really enjoy kids of all ages, love their spirit, joy and exuberance. Love their attitudes, their fresh take on things and everything about them.

But my wise grandmother taught me something that I still believe.

There isn't a kid in the world that's cute after eight o'clock at night.

:wave:

Mudder 10-25-2011 11:50 AM

It must be 8 o'clock somewhere! Only kidding, spent years as a teacher.....you can also learn alot from the younger generation. .

duffysmom 10-25-2011 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 410269)
I have spent my lifetime enjoying children. I taught preschoolers for several decades, went to school to learn all about children and their behavior and tried to be a good mother, grandmother, aunt and neighbor. I really enjoy kids of all ages, love their spirit, joy and exuberance. Love their attitudes, their fresh take on things and everything about them.

But my wise grandmother taught me something that I still believe.

There isn't a kid in the world that's cute after eight o'clock at night.

:wave:

Gracie, you go girl, you have a way of expressing yourself that keeps me coming back to TOTV. I was thinking that the girl posse should load their squirt guns with cool aid.:girlneener:

alwann 10-25-2011 05:59 PM

Younger (Bad) Villagers, new territories
 
Re: the thread on crime in The Villages. Thought you'd find this interesting. From Ocean City Today newspaper report:

Based on the investigation, OCPD Narcotics Unit detectives with the assistance of the Worcester County Sheriff’s Criminal Enforcement Team obtained a Search and Seizure warrant for the suspect, his unit and vehicle which were located at 12704 Old Bridge Road in West Ocean City.

On October 7, 2011, police executed the Search and Seizure Warrant. As a result of the Search and Seizure Warrant, investigators seized the following items:

• Package containing 1lb and 1 oz of marijuana
• 6 additional bags of marijuana containing 4 additional oz of marijuana
• Several MDMA tablets
• Scales
• 2 computers
• Cell Phone
• $310 in cash

As a result of the investigation two persons have been arrested and charged as follows:
• Edward Dale Cropper Jr., 26, of The Villages, Florida has been charged with Possession of Marijuana with the Intent to Distribute, Possession of Marijuana, Possession of CDS Paraphernalia
• Susan Degregory, 52, of Ft. Lauderdale, Florida has been charged with Possession of MDMA.

eweissenbach 10-25-2011 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by alwann (Post 410420)
Re: the thread on crime in The Villages. Thought you'd find this interesting. From Ocean City Today newspaper report:

Based on the investigation, OCPD Narcotics Unit detectives with the assistance of the Worcester County Sheriff’s Criminal Enforcement Team obtained a Search and Seizure warrant for the suspect, his unit and vehicle which were located at 12704 Old Bridge Road in West Ocean City.

On October 7, 2011, police executed the Search and Seizure Warrant. As a result of the Search and Seizure Warrant, investigators seized the following items:

• Package containing 1lb and 1 oz of marijuana
• 6 additional bags of marijuana containing 4 additional oz of marijuana
• Several MDMA tablets
• Scales
• 2 computers
• Cell Phone
• $310 in cash

As a result of the investigation two persons have been arrested and charged as follows:
• Edward Dale Cropper Jr., 26, of The Villages, Florida has been charged with Possession of Marijuana with the Intent to Distribute, Possession of Marijuana, Possession of CDS Paraphernalia
• Susan Degregory, 52, of Ft. Lauderdale, Florida has been charged with Possession of MDMA.


There is a very spirited thread right now on Talk of Ocean City (TOOC) regarding Florida people coming to Ocean City and how they should not be allowed in the town.

graciegirl 10-25-2011 06:53 PM

I take it that Ocean City is not in Florida.


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