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Topspinmo 11-07-2015 11:49 AM

No law against it, I'm sure she will settle in fine. Lots of young people around the villages and I'm sure she will like the weather and within hour or so from the beaches. There about 30 percent that thinks they should close the gate after they move here, so anybody after them and younger they resent. Then there the ones that been here forever thinking they have priority over new comers. They will always find something to complain about.

It's your dime if your family want to live here nothing stopping you except making the transition.

graciegirl 11-07-2015 03:05 PM

This young person can teach Elementary School. I am sure she will find a place. Good teachers are always needed.

rustyp 11-07-2015 04:24 PM

[QUOTE=Smeck;1141414]
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Originally Posted by outlaw (Post 1141374)
She's not going to like it. Many old people will resent her. If she's good looking, the married women will shun her. Highly not recommended.[/QUOTE

Wow the Villages old reputation rears it's ugly head.

I won't resent her. Maybe she can be a doctor. Higher demand here for that than teachers. I'm happy with my doctor but if she is a 9 or 10 I could switch. Still living the dream.

kcrazorbackfan 11-07-2015 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by goodtimesintv (Post 1141525)
My take is negative only toward people on this board who complain about young and/or working people who are here and working with a purpose for their future. We have kids in their 20's, and they don't look for "noisier atmosphere" where they live. They look for vitality and to me, the working people in TV add much vitality to it.

Vitality is not always "noisier" as in bothersome to others, or disturbing the peace. On the other hand, "retired" can translate to extremely "noisy" when retirees are drunk at bars in TV or when others are sitting beside a table of 20+ people yelling over each other. It also gets pretty "noisy" here when seniors b*tch about a hypothetical $2 increase to their amenities fee for something like safety striping the multimodal path curves and exits. "Noisy" in TV takes on many forms amongst "retirees"!

:bowdown::agree: Every younger person I've observed the short time I've been here always seems to be having a respectfully good time; smiling, laughing and amazed about every thing here. On the other hand, a number of the older residents here have a tendency to complain about everything under the sun, try to sit too many together in a restaurant (and with that comes the yelling), drink too much, drive drunk...... other than that, it's utopia.

tomwed 11-07-2015 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by kcrazorbackfan (Post 1142148)
:bowdown::agree: Every younger person I've observed the short time I've been here always seems to be having a respectfully good time; smiling, laughing and amazed about every thing here. On the other hand, a number of the older residents here have a tendency to complain about everything under the sun, try to sit too many together in a restaurant (and with that comes the yelling), drink too much, drive drunk...... other than that, it's utopia.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

CWGUY 11-07-2015 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by kcrazorbackfan (Post 1142148)
:bowdown::agree: Every younger person I've observed the short time I've been here always seems to be having a respectfully good time; smiling, laughing and amazed about every thing here. On the other hand, a number of the older residents here have a tendency to complain about everything under the sun, try to sit too many together in a restaurant (and with that comes the yelling), drink too much, drive drunk...... other than that, it's utopia.

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pqrstar 11-07-2015 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1142055)
This young person can teach Elementary School. I am sure she will find a place. Good teachers are always needed.

Here is the link for information on being a certified teacher in Florida

Certified Teacher Or Administrator

It does take some time to "jump throught the hoops" and get all your paperwork in, so If you decide to purchase here, she should start the process.

DARFAP 01-25-2016 07:03 PM

But can they use the adult pool...? LOL

DARFAP 01-25-2016 07:05 PM

Short term, it's okay. It is a retirement community after all.

tomwed 01-25-2016 08:01 PM

Long term, it's okay too. It is a retirement community after all.

pgc4340 01-25-2016 09:25 PM

Young people who have goals in life and are here temporarily seem to be well liked and respected in TV. Other's like our former neighbor's son, soon begin to be seen for what they are, losers with no goals in life. Many are often in trouble with the law, do not make a living wage, if they work at all. Those are the ones who are disrespected here.

tomwed 01-25-2016 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by pgc4340 (Post 1177534)
Many are often in trouble with the law, do not make a living wage, if they work at all. Those are the ones who are disrespected here.

Is it really many? I know they seem to be featured on the other news site. I have no idea how many are here. I think that's important to know.

I think it's much harder for kids to do better than their parents. We had a stacked deck.

villagerjack 01-25-2016 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by cuzg8tor (Post 1141403)
Our 25 year old Grand daughter has lived with us here in The Villages for the last three years. She works locally for a home health agency and is completing her Masters degree next month. She has loved it in The Villages. She is not resented in any way by our neighbors and she considers many of them her close friends. She will be moving to a convent in St. Leo Florida in January and we will miss her but she has a higher calling. Bring your daughter down - I think she will enjoy our community.

Your granddaughter is a very special person. You I am sure are very very proud. I know I would be.

dbussone 01-25-2016 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by cuzg8tor (Post 1141403)
Our 25 year old Grand daughter has lived with us here in The Villages for the last three years. She works locally for a home health agency and is completing her Masters degree next month. She has loved it in The Villages. She is not resented in any way by our neighbors and she considers many of them her close friends. She will be moving to a convent in St. Leo Florida in January and we will miss her but she has a higher calling. Bring your daughter down - I think she will enjoy our community.


God bless you & your granddaughter. She would be welcome anywhere. What a wonderful life and calling.

Polar Bear 01-26-2016 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Smeck (Post 1141351)
Were thinking of moving to the villages in fact we have four days booked in March as part of the Lifestyle preview plan.

My daughter who's 23 is thinking of moving down with us, Is she allowed to live with us? If so how common is this? she really isn't enamored with living in a retirement community. Any input would be appreciated.

Our 23 year old son lived with us for two years, all legal and above board. As long as the owner of the house is 50+ and child is 19+, all is good.

HoosierPa 01-26-2016 08:06 AM

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Originally Posted by CFrance (Post 1141669)
One suggestion for you when reading the answers posted: throw out the #1 most positive and #1 most negative comment, and consider the rest.

Good advice. I can't believe the first negative comment about the married women not liking her if she is good looking. WOW - is this grade school ? I hope we don't have any neighbors like that !

If my kids ever need a place to land for awhile, they will be welcomed at our home in The Villages. Personally, I think the 30 year age rule at the Adult Pools is silly but there are many other pools for her to hang at. I think they would love it and hopefully so much so that when they get older, they will want to move right in our house full time when we are gone. There is no place like TV.

Bay Kid 01-26-2016 08:11 AM

My son and his wife have visited several times. They love it here, but they like to play! After their 1st visit they understood why I spend part of life in golf paradise. They would come stay all winter if I would let them.

2BNTV 01-26-2016 10:31 AM

My friends had their son, (26), living with them for about a year. He loved TV and the fun people in it! He just moved away and still wants to return to TV area.

Most young people will find their own fun times and the people they want to hang with.

I enjoy being around younger people as they have a greater joy for living.

Some people here are PITA's, but they are few and far between.

Smerk - I'm sure your daughter will enjoy it here and will probably move onto other places, as she gets her life in order.

Bonny 01-26-2016 10:57 AM

Our daughter moved down here with us in 2000 when she was 19.
All my neighbors & friends loved her. She worked, met a nice guy, got married, got a house & had a baby. My awesome grandson is now 14.
She actually got married at The Church On The Square.
My daughter loves older people. They live close by & come here a lot for the music, movies, restaurants, etc.
She is now a home health aide and is in school for nursing.

outlaw 01-26-2016 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by goodtimesintv (Post 1141500)
Only on this board do I see/hear people so begrudgingly adamant about keeping this a sleepy "retirement" place.

Only here do I hear negative things about people under 55 living here. Our neighborhood has many people still working part-time because they don't want to be idle, they want to let retirement investments grow more, and they don't want to be a golf addict.

We also have a good number who continue to work by computer at their career jobs but from afar, and we have small business owner neighbors, too. Who doesn't want neighbors like this who work and pay taxes/SS/medicare that benefits the whole country????

Everybody we know LIKES younger people coming to live here. Most 20-somethings I'd venture to say are here with a purpose such as working to earn college money and qualifying for in-state tuition.

It looks like many here are clueless about what it's like to have a $1,000/month student loan payment with a new grad income of $30-35,000/year and rent at min. $750 with a roommate, plus car and insurance and gas costs. Suggesting going to DC/NY/Boston with triple the cost of living is just oblivious.

To the o.p., there are plenty of young people or young-MINDED people in TV. Your daughter will be fine here and I'd figure she's not planning to make TV her residence for the next 60 years, but for just a few!

Why do you move to a 55+ retirement community if you want it to be multi generational like any other town? Move to a college town if you like having a bunch of young people around you all the time. I like young people too, but I can't imagine wanting to live in TV if I was in my 20s because I would want to be around my generation, not my parents generation. Everything is geared toward old people.

CritterLover 01-26-2016 04:04 PM

I apologize for all the Negative Nellies. Tell her to pack her bags and come on down! The Villages Charter Schools are always looking for talented teachers, their campuses are beautiful and top-notch, plus she'll be relatively close to all sorts of younger crowds from Ocala to Orlando..not that there's not lots of fun to be had, with the right outlook on life, right here!

goodtimesintv 01-26-2016 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by outlaw (Post 1177806)
Why do you move to a 55+ retirement community if you want it to be multi generational like any other town? Move to a college town if you like having a bunch of young people around you all the time. I like young people too, but I can't imagine wanting to live in TV if I was in my 20s because I would want to be around my generation, not my parents generation. Everything is geared toward old people.

Age 55+ community had very little to do with our decision to move here, in fact it had almost nothing to do with it. The impeccable cleanliness, beautiful facilities, solvent "city" government, good home prices and uniquely healthy housing market, friendly people from all different states, and perfect weather were at the top of our list of reasons.

As for "everything is geared toward old people", I don't think so. We've never lived anywhere where year-round golf, bicycling, softball, outdoor swimming and tennis, pickle ball, dragon boating, polo, sand volleyball, and especially live music on 3 town squares 365 nights per year with healthy retailers all open were even a remote possibility.

IMO only a person who does not live here would say your last sentence!

Polar Bear 01-26-2016 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by goodtimesintv (Post 1177837)
Age 55+ community had very little to do with our decision to move here, in fact it had almost nothing to do with it. The impeccable cleanliness, beautiful facilities, solvent "city" government, good home prices and uniquely healthy housing market, friendly people from all different states, and perfect weather were at the top of our list of reasons.

As for "everything is geared toward old people", I don't think so. We've never lived anywhere where year-round golf, bicycling, softball, outdoor swimming and tennis, pickle ball, dragon boating, polo, sand volleyball, and especially live music on 3 town squares 365 nights per year with healthy retailers all open were even a remote possibility.

IMO only a person who does not live here would say your last sentence!

Couldn't agree more.

PattyCakes 01-26-2016 08:08 PM

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Originally Posted by cuzg8tor (Post 1141403)
Our 25 year old Grand daughter has lived with us here in The Villages for the last three years. She works locally for a home health agency and is completing her Masters degree next month. She has loved it in The Villages. She is not resented in any way by our neighbors and she considers many of them her close friends. She will be moving to a convent in St. Leo Florida in January and we will miss her but she has a higher calling. Bring your daughter down - I think she will enjoy our community.

She'll be just fine. Don't listen to Outlaw, whoever that is. She'll be free to find her own way and be safe in the process. This is not an area filled with folks her age, obviously, but if she's into education, finding herself and expanding her horizions, she'll be just fine. Bring her on.

Marathon Man 01-27-2016 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by goodtimesintv (Post 1177837)
Age 55+ community had very little to do with our decision to move here, in fact it had almost nothing to do with it. The impeccable cleanliness, beautiful facilities, solvent "city" government, good home prices and uniquely healthy housing market, friendly people from all different states, and perfect weather were at the top of our list of reasons.

As for "everything is geared toward old people", I don't think so. We've never lived anywhere where year-round golf, bicycling, softball, outdoor swimming and tennis, pickle ball, dragon boating, polo, sand volleyball, and especially live music on 3 town squares 365 nights per year with healthy retailers all open were even a remote possibility.

IMO only a person who does not live here would say your last sentence!

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Originally Posted by PattyCakes (Post 1177921)
She'll be just fine. Don't listen to Outlaw, whoever that is. She'll be free to find her own way and be safe in the process. This is not an area filled with folks her age, obviously, but if she's into education, finding herself and expanding her horizions, she'll be just fine. Bring her on.

Absolutely agree.

brovelli 01-27-2016 09:32 AM

Yes, adult children do live in the Villages.
They can get a "green" card saying they are here and have the privilages of any Villager EXCEPT.. they can not participate in activities in regional rec. pools. (we had a wv player who was not 30 and was told she shouldn't be there.) But, as far as I know, everything is open.
It gets a little lonely for youngins... so a bit of advise.. check out "meetup.com" There is a group of younger adults who get together to do fun stuff.

Bonny 01-27-2016 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by outlaw (Post 1177806)
Why do you move to a 55+ retirement community if you want it to be multi generational like any other town? Move to a college town if you like having a bunch of young people around you all the time. I like young people too, but I can't imagine wanting to live in TV if I was in my 20s because I would want to be around my generation, not my parents generation. Everything is geared toward old people.

I think we're talking about young adults, not little children.

John_W 01-27-2016 04:24 PM

If you're daughter isn't able to get a teaching job, if she is into physical fitness the MVP Athletic Club could be a possibility. They have two locations in TV. I go to the one at Brownwood Mon-Fri, they have several hundred members and the staff for the most part all have college degrees. There is about 20 emploees at my club and they are all in their 20's and 30's. I think everyone gets along with the staff just fine, age is not a problem. Here's a link to the instructor staff, you can see they are all young and educated and they are fun to work with.

Meet the Fitness Team | MVP Sports Clubs

Bogie Shooter 01-27-2016 05:25 PM

Saw the online news article of a 29 year old villager was arrested with two flat tires and totally drunk, who just happened to be on probation. These are the jerks we hear about...................not someone who is wanting to get a job and make something of themselves.
I hope she is happy.
BTW if you are reading this and have someone who fits the drunk guy and are thinking of them living with you..............don't.


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