redwitch |
08-15-2010 09:39 PM |
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Originally Posted by JimJoe
(Post 284118)
I love the villages but this 19 yr old rule must have some exceptions. If the child does not use the amenities, is it really that big of thing?
How about a child who is handicapped or recovering from an injury, or in desperate financial situation?
Has anyone ever heard of this rule being enforced?
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It really is one of those rules set in stone. The only exception is when you're not reported for having a juvenile living with you. My daughter was 22, pregnant and living with me. She looks a lot younger. Someone reported her as living in TV and being around 17. She actually had to show her driver's license to prove she was eligible to be living here. The fact she was single, pregnant and unemployed (sigh) was completely irrelevant to Community Watch -- all that mattered was her age.
I do know of a couple of kids that were living here (there was a long, indignant thread about it awhile ago). In those two cases, the neighbors were aware of the child. In one case, the father was dead and the mother was serving in Iraq. She has since come home and has moved to a neighboring town. The neighbors were well aware of the facts and did not report the child. In the other, the grandparents fought for custody and won. They immediately put their home on the market (their grandchild had a lot of emotional issues and this was definitely a good place for him to be). I believe (not sure since I no longer go to that neighborhood on a regular basis) they are still here and patiently waiting for their home to sell so they can move. Had a neighbor chosen to report either of these kids, the grandparents would have had a very limited amount of time to find alternative living arrangements for their grandchild.
The other exception that I know of is one that should have neighbors up in arms -- it really does put their homes at serious risk. There is at least one set of TVers that are emergency foster parents. No child stays longer than 30 days, so, technically, no rule is broken. The children range in age from newborn to 17 years. Some of the kids that have stayed there are violent, firestarters and the like. I would not want to live in that neighborhood.
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