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Beechie 11-19-2014 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Bonanza (Post 970460)


I guess you failed to catch the humor in the final sentence of my post as copied above.

I, too, care little in regard (no "s" -- regards are greetings)) to a person's education because it's meaningless,
as I have found, in relationship to their spelling and grammar.

:o

Well played Bonanza. If I knew you better I would have picked up on the irony. I do believe we are on the same page however.

John_W 11-19-2014 06:01 PM

The Sumter reference reminds me of a few times I've seen posts where the developer's name is written Morris instead of Morse or reference is made to Morris Blvd instead of Morse Blvd. I don't know if they're being disrespectful or ignorant. So in that case, I feel they should be corrected, and if somebody else doesn't I will.

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Deseylou 11-19-2014 06:31 PM

I'm a terrible typist
If you read some of my posts, I might come across as an idiot
I am much better communicating verbally
Debbie

JB in TV 11-19-2014 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Deseylou (Post 970574)
I'm a terrible typist
If you read some of my posts, I might come across as an idiot
I am much better communicating verbally
Debbie

I'm not the best typist ether, however, I can edit my posts to fix typos, or re-write what I have typed, but I can't ever go back and re-do what I have spoken. I'm sure we all have said things we wish we could edit.

casita37 11-19-2014 07:28 PM

Disagree
 
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Originally Posted by Walter123 (Post 970070)
Seriously, this is a silly thread. Anyone that gets their "feelings" hurt because someone they don't know corrects their grammar or spelling should stay off public boards.

Oh, Walter....I have a thick enough skin, but not everyone does. Some are a bit intimidated, and that does NOT make them less of a contributor on a public forum. How about, if we can figure out the meaning, we LET IT GO!!

If one absolutely must correct the "p", or another error, just reply, nicely, including the correct spelling, ie....."I also enjoy Lake Sumter Landing". If the mistaken poster doesn't catch it.....oh well....!! Let it go.

Walter123 11-20-2014 07:21 AM

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Originally Posted by casita37 (Post 970609)
Oh, Walter....I have a thick enough skin, but not everyone does. Some are a bit intimidated, and that does NOT make them less of a contributor on a public forum. How about, if we can figure out the meaning, we LET IT GO!!

If one absolutely must correct the "p", or another error, just reply, nicely, including the correct spelling, ie....."I also enjoy Lake Sumter Landing". If the mistaken poster doesn't catch it.....oh well....!! Let it go.

First, I'm the last one to correct someone's grammar. I've never done it and never will. Secondly, I don't give a rats behind if someone I DON'T KNOW corrects me. This is a public board, it happens. You've seen how mean some can be on this board and any public board. Maybe I could have left out the "silly thread" part but hey, I'm not perfect, but I stand but the rest of my comment.

So enjoy your day and let it roll.

eweissenbach 11-20-2014 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by billethkid (Post 970057)
I am having a hard time relating to what ever it is that would make anyone be "afraid to post".

Maybe it is because I have no problem tuning out the irrelevent one percenters that try to rock any boat. There is no reason what so ever to be intimidated by these isolated few. They are among us no matter where we go or are.

Ignore them.....the best Rx that cures the problem.

I agree, but not everyone has the thick skin of aN eagle like you. ;)

graciegirl 11-20-2014 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by eweissenbach (Post 970877)
I agree, but not everyone has the thick skin of aN eagle like you. ;)


I don't think Billethekid's skin is any different than anyone elses. He posts what he believes and I am SURE at times he is hurt and discouraged by some of the responses.

If you can't stand the heat stay out of the kitchen. We all tell ourselves that, but as we age, we become more sure of our views. We also think that people who disagree with us are wrong, and they may be.

Not all people are diplomatic, but diplomacy will change an opinion now and again where bitter nastiness and scathing jabs will not.

eweissenbach 11-20-2014 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 970880)
I don't think Billethekid's skin is any different than anyone elses. He posts what he believes and I am SURE at times he is hurt and discouraged by some of the responses.

If you can't stand the heat stay out of the kitchen. We all tell ourselves that, but as we age, we become more sure of our views. We also think that people who disagree with us are wrong, and they may be.

Not all people are diplomatic, but diplomacy will change an opinion now and again where bitter nastiness and scathing jabs will not.

Just to be clear, I was attempting to be facetious.

graciegirl 11-20-2014 04:28 PM

and humor.

will change minds.

But it has to be good. ;)

tomwed 11-20-2014 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 970883)
and humor.

will change minds.

But it has to be good. ;)

Like this? Like Walter said, "Let it Roll". All we got is each other.
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Loudoll 11-20-2014 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Cisco Kid (Post 970204)
autocorrect is my worst enema

:eclipsee_gold_cup:

fred53 11-20-2014 09:00 PM

If you take it the way that you do perhaps...
 
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Originally Posted by redwitch (Post 970023)
What is with the great need to publicly correct people here? If someone misspells a word, including "Sumpter," and the correction does nothing more than show your superior knowledge, why not either say nothing or send a PM with the correct spelling or word suggestion? I really don't understand the need to do this.

you're assigning blame when there is no animosity intended.

I'm always amazed that some people assume the worst in others...there is no way to tell how it is intended unless they specifically say they're trying to be superior or condescending. Perhaps you could read a correction and "assume" they are doing it for the right reasons...I'm sure if you tried you'd find that not everyone who corrects someone else is trying to be superior...

Bonny 11-20-2014 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by fred53 (Post 970968)
you're assigning blame when there is no animosity intended.

I'm always amazed that some people assume the worst in others...there is no way to tell how it is intended unless they specifically say they're trying to be superior or condescending. Perhaps you could read a correction and "assume" they are doing it for the right reasons...I'm sure if you tried you'd find that not everyone who corrects someone else is trying to be superior...

The problem is doing it on a public forum. If someone has a slight handicap or is just a real bad speller, it could be embarrassing to have it pointed out so all can see. As long as you understand what they are trying to say, there is no reason to correct their spelling, especially on an open forum.

tedquick 11-20-2014 09:41 PM

a quick aside
 
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Originally Posted by eweissenbach (Post 970882)
Just to be clear, I was attempting to be facetious.

Here’s just a little aside and barely off topic since we are talking about language, its intent and spelling; every time I see the word “facetious”, it reminds me that there are only two words in the English language (that I‘m aware of) that have each of the vowels in the order in which they appear. Does anybody know what the other word is?

pbkmaine 11-20-2014 09:57 PM

Abstemious

cattywampus 11-20-2014 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by tedquick (Post 970982)
Here’s just a little aside and barely off topic since we are talking about language, its intent and spelling; every time I see the word “facetious”, it reminds me that there are only two words in the English language (that I‘m aware of) that have each of the vowels in the order in which they appear.


Does anybody know what the other word is?

Hopping that the prize;, for knowink the answer;, is an all you can eat Buffett.

Using the SWAG upproach to problum solving,
I will say ....ABSTEMIOUS.

Do you know any Villagers that culd be called abstemious ?

(SWAG = Sighintiffic Wild Azz Guess.)

eweissenbach 11-20-2014 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Bonny (Post 970974)
The problem is doing it on a public forum. If someone has a slight handicap or is just a real bad speller, it could be embarrassing to have it pointed out so all can see. As long as you understand what they are trying to say, there is no reason to correct their spelling, especially on an open forum.

^^^^^what Bonny said^^^^^

DougB 11-20-2014 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by tedquick (Post 970982)
Here’s just a little aside and barely off topic since we are talking about language, its intent and spelling; every time I see the word “facetious”, it reminds me that there are only two words in the English language (that I‘m aware of) that have each of the vowels in the order in which they appear. Does anybody know what the other word is?

Facetiously.... And sometimes Y

cattywampus 11-20-2014 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by tedquick (Post 970982)
Here’s just a little aside and barely off topic since we are talking about language, its intent and spelling; every time I see the word “facetious”, it reminds me that there are only two words in the English language (that I‘m aware of) that have each of the vowels in the order in which they appear.


Does anybody know what the other word is?

I thought there were a total of EIGHT words which would qualify.

Bonanza 11-21-2014 01:03 AM

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Originally Posted by JB in TV (Post 970604)
I'm not the best typist ether, however, I can edit my posts to fix typos, or re-write what I have typed, but I can't ever go back and re-do what I have spoken. I'm sure we all have said things we wish we could edit.

JB -- you are 100% correct.
Some people should only open their mouth to remove their foot.

Bonanza 11-21-2014 01:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Beechie (Post 970551)
Well played Bonanza. If I knew you better I would have picked up on the irony. I do believe we are on the same page however.

This is a little off topic but I feel it has a place in this thread . . .

Beechie: What you say is exactly the problem with the Internet. When you can't see a person's facial expression, can't hear the inflection in their voice and can't observe their body language -- you don't know how to take them. Are they serious, being funny or what?

I think we're much too fast to jump on someone and crucify them for what they've said, without knowing how they really meant it -- present company included in that.

Thanks for giving me carte blanche and being my TOTV buddy!

rubicon 11-21-2014 06:50 AM

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Originally Posted by tomwed (Post 970503)
You lost me. sorry

tomwed: I'll PM you

graciegirl 11-21-2014 07:21 AM

No pee
 
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tedquick 11-21-2014 08:13 AM

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Originally Posted by cattywampus (Post 971002)
I thought there were a total of EIGHT words which would qualify.

When I posted last evening I was thinking of "abstemious" as two of you mentioned. In fact, catty, that was your first response before you suggested there were 8. Upon farther investigation, I have to admit that there are 8. Ten if you, as DougB suggested, added “ly” to facetious and abstemious. I actually think that is all.

And, catty, just a quick FYI, occasionally I partake in an abstemious diet. :) The truth also is, that I *do* owe you that “Buffett” that you were attempting to win, because you forced me to think beyond the end of my nose. (And I love the way you spell, BTW). 

As a related aside to the OP, I have a close friend who can hardly spell his own name (that’s a slight exaggeration), yet he is in the upper ranks of one of the largest financial institutions in the nation. In fact, he is the industry’s spokesman and “educator” for the Washington elite who think they know how to run a business better than those who have spent their lives in doing so. In other wurds, spellin’ ain’t the be all to end all.

graciegirl 11-21-2014 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by tedquick (Post 971063)
When I posted last evening I was thinking of "abstemious" as two of you mentioned. In fact, catty, that was your first response before you suggested there were 8. Upon farther investigation, I have to admit that there are 8. Ten if you, as DougB suggested, added “ly” to facetious and abstemious. I actually think that is all.

And, catty, just a quick FYI, occasionally I partake in an abstemious diet. :) The truth also is, that I *do* owe you that “Buffett” that you were attempting to win, because you forced me to think beyond the end of my nose. (And I love the way you spell, BTW). 

As a related aside to the OP, I have a close friend who can hardly spell his own name (that’s a slight exaggeration), yet he is in the upper ranks of one of the largest financial institutions in the nation. In fact, he is the industry’s spokesman and “educator” for the Washington elite who think they know how to run a business better than those who have spent their lives in doing so. In other wurds, spellin’ ain’t the be all to end all.


It is called dyslexia and a lot of smart people have it and don't spell well. There are all kinds of smart people and all kinds of dumb people too.

tedquick 11-21-2014 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 971065)
It is called dyslexia and a lot of smart people have it and don't spell well. There are all kinds of smart people and all kinds of dumb people too.

Amen to your last sentence, sister. Have a great great day!!

Walter123 11-21-2014 08:23 AM

The great Ricky Nelson once said....


But it's all right now, I learned my lesson well.
You see, ya can't please everyone, so ya got to please yourself

dewilson58 11-21-2014 08:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Walter123 (Post 971069)
The great Ricky Nelson once said....


But it's all right now, I learned my lesson well.
You see, ya can't please everyone, so ya got to please yourself

:pepper2::pepper2:

graciegirl 11-21-2014 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonanza (Post 971029)
JB -- you are 100% correct.


Some people should only open their mouth to remove their foot.

A spoon full of sugar makes the medicine go down. You can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar.

Some corrections are done diplomatically and some corrections sound cold and unfeeling. There is always a human typing behind every computer. That human might be beginning Alzheimers, or just cussed mean, but he or she thinks they are right.

Some corrections are made to feel superior and some corrections are because people are innate teachers.

I love this forum because although many are anonymous, after reading their posts for awhile you can figure out quite a bit about them.

Just because a person is diplomatic doesn't mean they are nice. And nice people are not always diplomatic.

A good deal of our misunderstandings on this forum are due to ways that people in different parts of the country communicate.

Walter123 11-21-2014 09:28 AM

[QUOTE=graciegirl;971077]A spoon full of sugar makes the medicine go down. You can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar.



Not fruit flies. A little vinegar in a cup covered in plastic wrap with some small holes punched it the top does a wonderful job.

So even flies have their preference, just like people. I prefer honey with a splash of vinegar to give it a little kick!

Life is like a box of chocolates , you know the rest.

graciegirl 11-21-2014 09:41 AM

[quote=Walter123;971087]
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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 971077)
A spoon full of sugar makes the medicine go down. You can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar.



Not fruit flies. A little vinegar in a cup covered in plastic wrap with some small holes punched it the top does a wonderful job.

So even flies have their preference, just like people. I prefer honey with a splash of vinegar to give it a little kick!

Life is like a box of chocolates , you know the rest.

Hmmmm . Walter likes honey and vinegar which places him originally from..........New Hampshire?

Walter123 11-21-2014 10:51 AM

[quote=graciegirl;971094]
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Originally Posted by Walter123 (Post 971087)

Hmmmm . Walter likes honey and vinegar which places him originally from..........New Hampshire?

You misunderstood my reference, detective Gracie.
I like to talk sweetly but add a little vinegar to liven things up from time to time. I am a little from everyplace I've ever been.

Sometimes you eat the bear and sometimes the bear eats you.

Loudoll 11-21-2014 11:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 971077)
A spoon full of sugar makes the medicine go down. You can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar.

Some corrections are done diplomatically and some corrections sound cold and unfeeling. There is always a human typing behind every computer. That human might be beginning Alzheimers, or just cussed mean, but he or she thinks they are right.

Some corrections are made to feel superior and some corrections are because people are innate teachers.

I love this forum because although many are anonymous, after reading their posts for awhile you can figure out quite a bit about them.

Just because a person is diplomatic doesn't mean they are nice. And nice people are not always diplomatic.

A good deal of our misunderstandings on this forum are due to ways that people in different parts of the country communicate.

WoW

tomwed 11-21-2014 05:04 PM

Did you hear about the dyslexic, agnostic insomniac?
He stayed up all night wondering if there was a dog.

jebartle 11-21-2014 05:47 PM

I've been known to "mis-spell" on this forum
 
and put the "hoof in the mouth", like I use to tell my Mom, when she asked me "Why are you such a bad little girl", I'd say, "I don't know Mom, it just happens"...The older I get, the more tolerant I get!....I love this forum and giving up TOTV and all of you, would not be an option, just too many really good and funny members that make me giggle....Soooo, in spite of those that find fault, there are a gazillion others that lift me up and "Make my Day":bowdown:


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