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smilesniki 05-10-2020 07:45 AM

Food shopping
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by davem4616 (Post 1762031)
I've been doing the grocery shopping for 20 years...not a rookie at this....I get the etiquette and shop like a regular and conform to the new one way shopping traffic flows, I don't hoard...etc.

I've been going to the grocery store lately on the odd times to avoid the heavy traffic

this evening I'm waiting in produce to buy some zucchini watching this lady take her time as she handles every single damn zuke in the bin....after a while I finally said..."we're not suppose to be handling all of the veggies and fruit, you don't have gloves on, please take what you want and move one."....she turned to me and said "six feet please...and stop whining"....I replied "grow up and get with the new normal" ...

I wanted to say "hey, cupcake, give me any more of your friggin lip and I'll knock you into aisle 7 along with the guy you're with"...but I didn't (at best she was in her early 70's and certainly more than capable of knowing that in today's world you don't handle everything trying to figure out what you want to buy...come on, a zuke is a darn zuke)

what the heck is it with people that still think that it's okay handle every single piece of fruit or veggie or package of meat, and put it back and do the same thing with another until their inner voice tells them that this is the one... like they did in the pre-covid-19 days and for some reason they think that that's okay in today's world?

okay...take your best shots...and tell me how I infringed upon this sweet woman's shopping experience and how I aborted her freedom of choice...so that I can learn from this experience

We added Publix and Wal-Mart apps to our phones. I shop online and get my food dropped off outside my door. After they drop off my food I wash everything outside before bringing it into my home. I fill a bucket with water and product while wearing gloves and mask. Then I wipe everything dry.
Then I'm not near others, not standing in lines, not waiting for a turn. Not paying by credit card/ debit and putting in my code after every other person who was before me touched the key pads. Touch the key pad after an infected person without gloves is a risk.
Shop online, wait for the delivery driver to leave, wait 15 minutes or so before going out to wash your groceries. I also dip all the bottles and sealed packages right into the bucket.
This way I have no-one to feel upset with or worry they have the virus.
When I'm done with cleaning my food I take a shower, change my clothes and put the clothes I had on right in my washing machine.
We can find ways to avoid contact with others.
There are times they are out of what you want, you can ask it be exchanged for another brand or ask they make no exchanges.

Bill1701 05-10-2020 07:48 AM

I would have cut in front of her, grabbed what I wanted, and moved on.

Vi & Bob 05-10-2020 07:50 AM

Since the virus I find that people are very pushy and verbally rude. It’s to the point where I dread going into PUBLIX because of it. I’ve been food shopping for over 63 years and never felt this way. I also get irritated with slow people but never express it to them. I also wash all fruits and veggies with vinegar/water.

Lindsyburnsy 05-10-2020 07:55 AM

Just wash the fresh fruit and veggies. Dry them and store in plastic baggies with a piece of paper towel in the bag. They will last a long time. We take our grocery bags of fruit and put them directly into the sink when we get home. I also rinse the "triple washed" greens before use. It's not that difficult. I wouldn't want to go without grapes, bananas, oranges and berries if I don't have to. Also, it is advised to get in and out of a store asap. Touching every zucchini is ridiculous.

golfing eagles 05-10-2020 08:00 AM

And now for the good news:

"Given the recent plant closures across the U.S. and some in Oregon, the Oregon Health Authority (OHA) and the Oregon Department of Agriculture (ODA) want to assure Oregonians there is no evidence that human or animal food — or food packaging — is associated with the transmission of COVID-19. Food products do not need to be withdrawn or recalled from the market if someone on the farm or in the processing plant tests positive."

Sunflower1 05-10-2020 08:00 AM

I would have reached in beside her, grabbed one and moved on. Washed it when I got home. I get it about waiting while she was handling but don’t get wanting to threaten her.

Joe C. 05-10-2020 08:02 AM

IMHO, picking out fresh veggies involves touching them. No big deal. Some people are very picky and take their sweetass time and it irritates me. But that's how things are. But there is NO "NEW NORMAL". It's just the "NEW ABNORMAL" and it is practiced by the lemmings.
Just be thankful that you're not in a prison or nursing home.

graciegirl 05-10-2020 08:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by karostay (Post 1762252)
Shocked
That you never heard of Ralph Kramden

Bang Zoom - YouTube

:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

I didn't understand it was in reference to Ralph Kramden. I thought he only knocked people to the moon. I am greatly relieved to tell you the truth.I thought the OP was a bully and up until now I had not read this poster as a bad guy. Well, that explains that. whew.

Halibut 05-10-2020 08:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eg_cruz@comcast.net (Post 1762158)
I wish we could come up with a joint consensus on the gloves no gloves. I stopped wearing because of the cross contamination.

Every option turns into such a rabbit hole! I wear gloves solely as a layer of protection for myself as I select and touch items. I dispose of them in the trash cans by the doors as soon as I leave the store, then sanitize my hands before touching my car to drive home.

This is more manageable for us because we've switched primarily to grocery delivery and I only go to Publix maybe once a month for a few items.

graciegirl 05-10-2020 08:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by davem4616 (Post 1762031)
I've been doing the grocery shopping for 20 years...not a rookie at this....I get the etiquette and shop like a regular and conform to the new one way shopping traffic flows, I don't hoard...etc.

I've been going to the grocery store lately on the odd times to avoid the heavy traffic

this evening I'm waiting in produce to buy some zucchini watching this lady take her time as she handles every single damn zuke in the bin....after a while I finally said..."we're not suppose to be handling all of the veggies and fruit, you don't have gloves on, please take what you want and move one."....she turned to me and said "six feet please...and stop whining"....I replied "grow up and get with the new normal" ...

I wanted to say "hey, cupcake, give me any more of your friggin lip and I'll knock you into aisle 7 along with the guy you're with"...but I didn't (at best she was in her early 70's and certainly more than capable of knowing that in today's world you don't handle everything trying to figure out what you want to buy...come on, a zuke is a darn zuke)

what the heck is it with people that still think that it's okay handle every single piece of fruit or veggie or package of meat, and put it back and do the same thing with another until their inner voice tells them that this is the one... like they did in the pre-covid-19 days and for some reason they think that that's okay in today's world?

okay...take your best shots...and tell me how I infringed upon this sweet woman's shopping experience and how I aborted her freedom of choice...so that I can learn from this experience

I am so sorry I didn't "get" your humor. YOU are a good person who was misunderstood by me. I don't know how I feel about seeing people touching the zucchini. I know that someone had to touch the zucchini at some point in order for them to get all pretty on the display. I know they didn't teleport. I can't believe I am having this conversation because I have never been a germaphobe. You would not have ever seen me wiping down a shopping cart prior to this mess. But now I worry that someone will handle the strawberries and I will eat them and feed them to Helene and Henry and they might die. It is indeed a sad state of affairs we are all in. Again Dave. I just didn't get your humor. I am sorry I misjudged you.

onejld 05-10-2020 08:29 AM

same at wallmart lady peeling the husk off the corn and putting them back

carchulita 05-10-2020 08:29 AM

Just more whining and complaining.There certainly are more important things then how a women picks her zucchini’s. None of you have any right to tell anyone what to do.

merrymini 05-10-2020 08:49 AM

Some people are just morons but may be attracting more attention these days. Incurable.

mydavid 05-10-2020 08:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by davem4616 (Post 1762031)
I've been doing the grocery shopping for 20 years...not a rookie at this....I get the etiquette and shop like a regular and conform to the new one way shopping traffic flows, I don't hoard...etc.

I've been going to the grocery store lately on the odd times to avoid the heavy traffic

this evening I'm waiting in produce to buy some zucchini watching this lady take her time as she handles every single damn zuke in the bin....after a while I finally said..."we're not suppose to be handling all of the veggies and fruit, you don't have gloves on, please take what you want and move one."....she turned to me and said "six feet please...and stop whining"....I replied "grow up and get with the new normal" ...

I wanted to say "hey, cupcake, give me any more of your friggin lip and I'll knock you into aisle 7 along with the guy you're with"...but I didn't (at best she was in her early 70's and certainly more than capable of knowing that in today's world you don't handle everything trying to figure out what you want to buy...come on, a zuke is a darn zuke)

what the heck is it with people that still think that it's okay handle every single piece of fruit or veggie or package of meat, and put it back and do the same thing with another until their inner voice tells them that this is the one... like they did in the pre-covid-19 days and for some reason they think that that's okay in today's world?

okay...take your best shots...and tell me how I infringed upon this sweet woman's shopping experience and how I aborted her freedom of choice...so that I can learn from this experience

Between politics and virus, the friendliest home town model has taken a back seat

donbettyr 05-10-2020 08:56 AM

Just came back from Publix. The people not wearing masks were the same ones going the wrong way down the aisles!!

DecaturFargo 05-10-2020 08:56 AM

You did exactly the right thing. She's probably one of the many TV people who have pretty much ignored the mandates that were put into place by the Governor.

IvorT 05-10-2020 09:09 AM

Since this started, I have figured that the chance of my catching the virus from exposure to people, in the supermarket, is slight. The real risk is in picking up something that they touched, coughed on, sneezed on, etc. I always try to pick something from the back of the display.
Also, I always wash my hands after removing the newspaper from the plastic bag. I figure the paper was only handled by a machine, but the bag was touched by several humans.

karostay 05-10-2020 09:14 AM

Next time your at Aldi's check out the discarded gloves in the bushes slobs

johnadamsUSMC 05-10-2020 09:25 AM

Do whatever i want villagers
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by swooner (Post 1762122)
They are called, I can do whatever I want Villages Idiots!

LOVE THAT COMMENT BUT WAS AFRAID TO SAY IT
In my opinion, we do have a lot of people that use old age as an excuse to be rude.
1. No, you cannot sit at a traffic light for 15 seconds after it changes to green
2. No, you can't be rude to others
3. No, you can't have the salad for free when it says $3.95 extra with a meal
4. No, you can't have your other diners get a salad for you. You didn't pay for it
5. No, you can't stay in the "passing" lane and drive 30 MPH
6. No, rolling stops (or no stop) are not allowed at stop signs
7. No, you can't drink excessively and drive. (we've been hit three times already)
8. No, you can't tell a police officer you've been driving before he was even born after you get stopped for speeding
9. No, you can't order more dinner rolls and stuff them all in your pocket or purse
10. No, you can't buy folding tables and chairs, use them for your party, then return them


As you can see, I love talking to others and sharing what goes on in the Villages
Do we have a lot of great people, WE SURE DO.

ficoguy 05-10-2020 09:31 AM

A compelling case for "stand your ground....beef"

Pamelah 05-10-2020 09:32 AM

Road Rage vs Zucchini Rage
 
One reply was right on. You have no idea how many others handled the zucchini, or squeezed a tomato or lemon, or put back a pepper due to a flaw, or Checked a melon, compared weights of oranges/ grapefruits or dumped half the grapes out of those ridiculously huge prebagged grapes.
You were way out of line. A simple, “ excuse me, I’d just like to grab a zucchini.” Would have been sufficient, then go home and wash it.
I hope it was just a bad day for you otherwise see about anti depressants which really curb anger/frustration issues. Seriously, it sounds like road rage only driving a grocery cart instead of a car..

ficoguy 05-10-2020 09:39 AM

When I worked at Food Fair, and then Pantry Pride, we always rotated the freshest produce to the back and bottom of the display. People were too lazy to reach and grabbed the first thing in front of them.

RedChariot 05-10-2020 09:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by davem4616 (Post 1762031)
I've been doing the grocery shopping for 20 years...not a rookie at this....I get the etiquette and shop like a regular and conform to the new one way shopping traffic flows, I don't hoard...etc.

I've been going to the grocery store lately on the odd times to avoid the heavy traffic

this evening I'm waiting in produce to buy some zucchini watching this lady take her time as she handles every single damn zuke in the bin....after a while I finally said..."we're not suppose to be handling all of the veggies and fruit, you don't have gloves on, please take what you want and move one."....she turned to me and said "six feet please...and stop whining"....I replied "grow up and get with the new normal" ...

I wanted to say "hey, cupcake, give me any more of your friggin lip and I'll knock you into aisle 7 along with the guy you're with"...but I didn't (at best she was in her early 70's and certainly more than capable of knowing that in today's world you don't handle everything trying to figure out what you want to buy...come on, a zuke is a darn zuke)

what the heck is it with people that still think that it's okay handle every single piece of fruit or veggie or package of meat, and put it back and do the same thing with another until their inner voice tells them that this is the one... like they did in the pre-covid-19 days and for some reason they think that that's okay in today's world?

okay...take your best shots...and tell me how I infringed upon this sweet woman's shopping experience and how I aborted her freedom of choice...so that I can learn from this experience

I want to slap her silly! She's the type that does not give a rip what anyone thinks. I hope she reads your post- and mine.

Lindamct 05-10-2020 09:44 AM

I think everyone is on edge thanks to the confusion the Media...in my opinion has caused. Try to be kind. Read up on the real health benefit of wearing gloves. The grocery store etiquette I don't understand is should the "pets" riding around in carts wear masks and paw coverings? Hum
It's ALL crazy live on and try to smile at someone today🌞🇺🇲🇺🇲

Shawn70 05-10-2020 09:47 AM

You touch it, you buy it.

photo1902 05-10-2020 09:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shawn70 (Post 1762407)
You touch it, you buy it.

So you don’t test drive cars?

ficoguy 05-10-2020 10:00 AM

There is no, and was there never, any grocery store etiquette...can't tell the number of times someone's butt thumped me with a cart, stepped on a foot, reached over, stepped in front of me, stood in line with items on the 10 item express lane, can't figure out how to operate a scanner with an overflowing cart....yada yada yada.....

karostay 05-10-2020 10:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by photo1902 (Post 1762410)
So you don’t test drive cars?

Humans don't eat cars..I hope

photo1902 05-10-2020 10:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by karostay (Post 1762429)
Humans don't eat cars..I hope

I must’ve missed something. Is COVID 19 spread by eating food now?

karostay 05-10-2020 10:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by photo1902 (Post 1762410)
So you don’t test drive cars?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pamelah (Post 1762381)
One reply was right on. You have no idea how many others handled the zucchini, or squeezed a tomato or lemon, or put back a pepper due to a flaw, or Checked a melon, compared weights of oranges/ grapefruits or dumped half the grapes out of those ridiculously huge prebagged grapes.
You were way out of line. A simple, “ excuse me, I’d just like to grab a zucchini.” Would have been sufficient, then go home and wash it.
I hope it was just a bad day for you otherwise see about anti depressants which really curb anger/frustration issues. Seriously, it sounds like road rage only driving a grocery cart instead of a car..

I wonder if the produce section spray mist for freshness now has an added disinfectant ?.. Just a thought

GoodLife 05-10-2020 10:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by karostay (Post 1762429)
Humans don't eat cars..I hope

Eating the virus won't infect you. Your stomach enzymes kill it.

You are more likely to get salmonella from a head of lettuce.

PugMom 05-10-2020 10:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gadaboutgal (Post 1762111)
And just how close to the lady were you. Six feet?
Also, why couldn't you just continue on your list and come back when the lady was finished. Because you wanted to do what you wanted to do when you wanted to do it. No sympathy for you.
I think you were out of line. JMO

no need to be so mean; i can understand his point. yes, i'm glad he didnt say to knock her one, lol, but you must admit that shopping is an act of patience these days. some have NO consideration of others @ all, regardless of the circumstances, & i TRY to be the nicer person. i try, lol:pray:

Rosebud1949 05-10-2020 11:03 AM

Not Villages Idiots, these are the folk with attitude and entitlement.. they are everywhere.. For those of us who obey the rules its tough...........

Michael Charles 05-10-2020 11:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Madelaine Amee (Post 1762250)
The "gloves thing" as you so elegantly put it, is to protect ME, not you. My hands are encased in gloves, when I leave the store I roll them off inside out and discard them, my hands are germ free.

I agree. I put my groceries in coolers and big totes in my car then I remove the gloves like you, then I go back inside and wash my hands just in case. Once at home I wipe everything down and/or wash them Those extra steps make me feel good and also pretty much ensure that I don't pass anything along to my wife who's health situation is in a very compromised condition.

Astron 05-10-2020 11:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by devorejh (Post 1762132)
You have drank the Kool-Aid. There is no new normal. For many of us we’re going to get back to the old normal and that includes handling zucchini. Even if that woman didn’t touch the zucchini there were probably 100 other people in the store that did through the day. The truth is you can’t hide from this virus. The more tests they do the more people they’re finding out had it which is actually a good thing. Mortality rate keeps dropping. I’m guessing you’re wearing a mask also which is pretty much useless except for it’s psychological value. Maybe you should have somebody else do your shopping for you. If you had said that to me you would’ve gotten a much more harsh answer than that Lady gave you. You’re not in charge!

If you think the old normal is ever coming back, I fear you are in for disappointment. If this pandemic has done nothing else it has deepened the schism between the self centered and the community centered. Consideration and accommodation is the path I am on. You must choose your own path.

Greyson 05-10-2020 11:30 AM

My wife has expressed the same complaints several times.

DeafDeaf 05-10-2020 11:49 AM

Feeling same!
 
I do observe their poor habits of touching all veggies, fruits, and canned foods, too. What I did is when I got home, I dipped each item in the pail of water with bleach inside the garage, and then bring cleaned items inside the house. Better be safe than nothing!

:bigbow:

Number 10 GI 05-10-2020 11:50 AM

I've been doing the shopping for a bit now due to my wife's health. I would rather let Mike Tyson chew on my ear for an hour than grocery shop.

mariamdg@hotmail.com 05-10-2020 11:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by davem4616 (Post 1762031)
I've been doing the grocery shopping for 20 years...not a rookie at this....I get the etiquette and shop like a regular and conform to the new one way shopping traffic flows, I don't hoard...etc.

I've been going to the grocery store lately on the odd times to avoid the heavy traffic

this evening I'm waiting in produce to buy some zucchini watching this lady take her time as she handles every single damn zuke in the bin....after a while I finally said..."we're not suppose to be handling all of the veggies and fruit, you don't have gloves on, please take what you want and move one."....she turned to me and said "six feet please...and stop whining"....I replied "grow up and get with the new normal" ...

I wanted to say "hey, cupcake, give me any more of your friggin lip and I'll knock you into aisle 7 along with the guy you're with"...but I didn't (at best she was in her early 70's and certainly more than capable of knowing that in today's world you don't handle everything trying to figure out what you want to buy...come on, a zuke is a darn zuke)

what the heck is it with people that still think that it's okay handle every single piece of fruit or veggie or package of meat, and put it back and do the same thing with another until their inner voice tells them that this is the one... like they did in the pre-covid-19 days and for some reason they think that that's okay in today's world?

okay...take your best shots...and tell me how I infringed upon this sweet woman's shopping experience and how I aborted her freedom of choice...so that I can learn from this experience

I am on your side. All supermarkets should provide gloves in the produce department like they do in Italy and most parts of Europe. They are made of same thin plastic material as the bags used to place them. No one dares to touch fruits nor vegetables with bare hands.

OrangeBlossomBaby 05-10-2020 12:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Madelaine Amee (Post 1762250)
The "gloves thing" as you so elegantly put it, is to protect ME, not you. My hands are encased in gloves, when I leave the store I roll them off inside out and discard them, my hands are germ free.

...UNTIL you put your hands on all the groceries that were in your bag.
and then, it will be as though you hadn't been wearing gloves at all.


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