Originally Posted by Boomer (Post 1682057)

If you really like somebody's post, tell them in your very own words, with specifics, either in the thread or privately, not with some effortless click of a silly meaningless whatever. That's how it has been done around here. That is how it should be done. It is the mannerly thing to do, even though it takes a little time -- you know -- like handwritten thank you notes.

And, oh yeah, as far as your comment on the delicate psyche, if I did not get any of those goofy things, I just know I would lie awake at night, stewing and fretting. I might even softly sink that song -- how does it go. Oh yes, I remember:

"Everybody hates me,
Nobody loves me,
I think I'll eat some worms.
etc."

I remember the whole song but I will stop there. Anybody reading this who remembers is singing it right now in their heads.


I remain,
Boomerosaurus

Originally Posted by justjim (Post 1681988)

I just noticed the new addition to TOTV. Perhaps an explanation from the administration is in order.

Originally Posted by Boomer (Post 1681894)

I don’t know what it is — but I don’t like it. :(

What is that thing that has appeared underneath our join date and number of posts?

Why would we need or want a “thanks” calculator? Geez.

I just don’t get it.

It looks to me like some form of pathetic popularity contest that will soon devolve into an “Us vs. Them” and I do not think it bodes well for forum participation.

You’re welcome.

Originally Posted by Martian (Post 1682124)

Funny how much controversy can come from such a small insignificant thing. I guess if I don't like it I will ignore it. Shat others do with it is their business.

Once upon a time in a country far far away people celebrated diversity and difference of opinion... sad to see it gone.

Originally Posted by JimJohnson (Post 1682112)

If I see 5000 posts and only a few likes, that is very telling to me.

Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1682158)

Since this thread has it's answers now that we know we can "like" a post... I will respond to this post and then soon the moddie will say "closed thread".


I don't think anyone really celebrates diversity or difference of opinion. I think most people really enjoy most the folks who think and live like they do. I think everyone should respect other's opinion and their ways, but I don't think we need celebrate them. Sometimes there is nothing wrong with the familiar and the comfortable way we are. Most of us didn't break laws, or take from others and many of us tried to help others and be supportive and kind and offer concrete help in the form of work and money to those that we saw in need. Most of us especially like folks who we see an answering smile in their faces and a gentle grasp of our hand sometimes when things are difficult. It isn't fun to be around people who do not look at things the way you do, value the things you do, and have worked for the same goals. We are rightfully taught to always be patient, try to understand and to never harm those who we do not agree with us, but I sort of debate the terms ...celebrate diversity. I think keeping our minds and hearts always open to others is a better term and do the best we can to find good in them. Sometimes that is not possible. Then we need to stay away from them.

P.S. I know that we will hear the predictable answer. Semantics and politically correct speech is stifling true understanding and possible solutions sometimes. In my opinion.

Originally Posted by billethkid (Post 1682203)

Mine currently indicates that I have thanked 4 times in 4 posts.

So how they measure is up for grabs as well. Why?
Because I haven't thanked anybody for anything on TOTV.

Originally Posted by jojo (Post 1682258)

The addition of Thanks and how many times seems totally ridiculous. It is distracting and adds to clutter on the screen. Add me to the list requesting its demise.