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Meanwhile, how about all those women who get their eyebrows and eye liner tattooed on them. All those crazy arches, and too-thin practically translucent liner that makes it look more like they smudged - LOTS of women in the Villages have that done. And yet - I don't see a single post from anyone here, who has a problem with facial and neck tattoos, mentioning these woman - who have facial tattoos. It's a matter of personal preference. You don't like them. That doesn't mean they're bad. I don't like eggplant. That doesn't mean eggplant is bad. If you like eggplant, I hope yours is made perfectly and that you enjoy it. |
I have instructed my children never to get any trashy tatoos. The only exception would be that if you went in the miiltary and you wanted to get a respectable tatoo that would be fine. Some of the stuff you see around is just plain disgusting. I won't even allow myself to be served by a server in a restaurant that is covered in tatoos. I ask for a different server or walk out.
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It's a matter of personal preference. You don't like them. That doesn't mean they're bad. I don't like eggplant. That doesn't mean eggplant is bad. If you like eggplant, I hope yours is made perfectly and that you enjoy it.[/QUOTE] Everyone judges everything. It is natural. It is part of our natural instinct to judge the world around us. Like things we know and be wary of things you don't know. Even personal preference is judgemental. As for eggplant, I love eggplant parmigiana. I will be happy to take your portion. |
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Like so many other things in life, the reasons reflected in the choice to tattoo (and where) are on a spectrum/continuum — from quietly and often beautifully personal all the way to….could take up at least 3 pages in the DSM.
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I knew a girl in my younger days, who had a tattoo of a hummingbird on the top of her breast. Gorgeous, to say the least.
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If you really want to start a beautiful controversy at a party just let it be known that you got a new piercing in an area that you shouldn't disclose in mixed company. The amazement of people whose world is small and whose imaginations are large is really amazing.
I really like a fresh interesting tattoo. I'm not really into piercings. I was a little bit before my second marriage to an angel walking the face of the earth. She made several requests when we were getting serious a lifetime ago and I've kept every one of my promises to the "T". Each request was reasonable and worthwhile as I am sure I'd be dead and long gone if it wasn't fine this fine person being in my life. She doesn't read TOTV'S anymore so there is no Brown Nosing going on. |
When I was growing up a long time ago in a place far, far, away - I saw tattoos almost exclusively on old drunken navy guys. Then there was a transition time when I saw them mainly on NBA basketball players. Today they are on everybody and every gender. I am NOT a big fan, but neither do I condemn them. Psychologically speaking, I would guess that having tattoos started out as being an expression of rebelling, but gradually and today it is an expression of CONFORMITY.
As to "bad driving on roundabouts" - I see that as a subset of bad, risky, self-indulged, driving behavior, in general, that has happened in recent years and is partly caused by pent-up tension from the Pandermic. US society is in flux and is under attack from forces both external and internal. US tribalism is increasing. If a car cuts you off then they are from the "other " tribe and therefore only worthy of hate. Also. in TV Land there is the added factor of an older population with bad vision and reflexes. In general, older people are more set in their ways and less forgiving. |
Well, there are tattoos and tattoos. Some, like the Hawaiian tribal art can look impressive. Some, like a girl I saw with big and small tattoos uncoordinated, unthematic etc looked like someone just threw paint/ink on her randomly. Then there are the gang tattoos, the tear drop, the scar. And there is Hamilton’s (F1 driver) “God is love” tattoo. So it is hard to make a blanket statement. But personally I would not have a tattoo, if I wanted body decoration it would be temporary like henna, or like in Hollywood, a slip on tattoo.
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I have no tattoos at all. They slow down my blood and platelet donation ability.
But then I have family members with a lot of tattoos, nose rings, ear stretchers, etc. |
I have two inks. One on my ankle, one on my upper thigh.
I have two long scars running down my leg, from two different accidents involving cars (I wasn't in the car either time). After the second accident I was on the beach recovering and enjoying my summer and a kid with his mom were passing me. Kid said "look at that lady with the scar!" (It was still very fresh, scabbed over, and unsightly, and I had my shillelagh that I use for a cane beside me on the towel). The mom scolded her son. I felt horrible about that. He was just pointing out the obvious. I stood out in the crowd. If I wanted to hide it, I would've not gone to the beach. I really didn't care who saw it but didn't realize how horrible it must've looked to a little kid. So I got up, got all my stuff, and drove to the nearest tattoo parlor and told them to give me something small, but pretty, on that leg. I got a butterfly hovering over a flower in beautiful but simple colors. Now when people see my leg they have something pretty to look at, instead of just those horrible scars. The one on my ankle I got around 12 years later. It represents passion and compassion, and it's my own design. A burning heart with two blood-red "teardrops" dripping down beneath it. When I'm wearing a bathing-suit, everyone can see both of them. I frankly don't care what any of you think about them. I hope you find them more attractive than the scars on my legs, but eh - closed minds are gonna stay closed. I hope your lives give you some meaning some day. |
I told my kids growing up that if you drive a Ferrari you don't need a bumper sticker.
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When my daughter wanted a tattoo, my husband said, “Fine, I’ll do it myself.” She declined his offer but got a small one at the back of her neck because she had two girlfriends and each got the same tattoo to show solidarity. Years later they don't see each other any more, and my daughter covers the tattoo with her hair. Today she regrets getting it. I think the idea of covering up a scar and making it into a piece of art is brilliant! That is possibly the only reason I would get one. (As far as memories go they are in my heart, invisible to everyone but me.) But if the mood struck me, I’d get whole body tats that you can peel off later. |
Back in the early 60's before body art became the norm, we had in our platoon a chap with some amazing tattoos.
Emerging from his butt he had a fox's brush, and down his back huntsmen on horses. It was a true work of art. Among many more tattoos, he also had 'Thank You' on his left hand palm. The hand he took his pay in. On his right palm he had F*** Off. The hand he saluted with. He was a conscript , and hated the army. Often wonder what his body looks like now, if he is still around! |
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His knuckles were covered in them! I remember he had a roll of honor of past girl friends on one of his arms. He used to put a line through the 'Ex' and put the new ones name below. He must have done well, as the list was quite long! |
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Maybe they were just the girls brave enough to speak to him. He looked pretty scary. Funny enough though, he was a really good 'Rock and Roll dancer! |
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All it takes is one monkey for the rest to follow.
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A good friend of mine was in the Navy about 47 years ago and got totally $hitfaced one night and woke up the next morning with a tattoo on his arm of the devil holding a pitchfork with the saying “Born to Raise Hell” written above it. To this day he deeply regrets getting inked up and his once ripped bicep now looks like crap with the faded devil tattoo. What might seem like a good idea when one is young might turn out to be a not so good idea many years later.
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A friend of our daughter in high school wanted to get one, and didn't want it hidden. Her dad wasn't having much luck with dissuading her so I simply said "As someone that is not your father, I don't care if you have one or not. Your body your life. And you have the right to have it and not be judged by others. However, that is not reality. Others will judge you, rightly or wrongly. Potential employers will judge you, and you'll never know it. You just won't get called back for the second interview".
She said she wouldn't want to work for someone that didn't like her tattoo, and I said "That's not the point. He/she may be fine with it. But especially if you are in a customer facing position, they don't want anything that will turn off a potential customer. Unless you are in a profession where tattoos are common, why hamstring yourself right out of the gate? If you establish yourself and later choose to get it, get it then". She went out to CA for school, and has never come back, and as far as I know, is bouncing from job to job. I suspect she ultimately got the tattoo. |
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