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JMintzer 12-08-2022 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by NoMoSno (Post 2164328)
To each their own, but I have to wonder how someone with nose piercings blows their nose.

They just have to be careful not to kill the cat when they sneeze! :22yikes:

OrangeBlossomBaby 12-08-2022 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by NoMoSno (Post 2164328)
To each their own, but I have to wonder how someone with nose piercings blows their nose.
I guess very carefully.

My sister has a little nose stud - it goes into the cartiledge on the side of her nose, a little higher than the nostril. It twists in, sort of like a screw. I asked her about it, she said when she sneezes or blows her nose it stays put, no big deal at all.

Meanwhile, how about all those women who get their eyebrows and eye liner tattooed on them. All those crazy arches, and too-thin practically translucent liner that makes it look more like they smudged - LOTS of women in the Villages have that done.

And yet - I don't see a single post from anyone here, who has a problem with facial and neck tattoos, mentioning these woman - who have facial tattoos.

It's a matter of personal preference. You don't like them. That doesn't mean they're bad. I don't like eggplant. That doesn't mean eggplant is bad. If you like eggplant, I hope yours is made perfectly and that you enjoy it.

GATORBILL66 12-08-2022 09:32 AM

I have instructed my children never to get any trashy tatoos. The only exception would be that if you went in the miiltary and you wanted to get a respectable tatoo that would be fine. Some of the stuff you see around is just plain disgusting. I won't even allow myself to be served by a server in a restaurant that is covered in tatoos. I ask for a different server or walk out.

fdpaq0580 12-08-2022 09:53 AM

[QUOTE=OrangeBlossomBaby;2164
It's a matter of personal preference. You don't like them. That doesn't mean they're bad. I don't like eggplant. That doesn't mean eggplant is bad. If you like eggplant, I hope yours is made perfectly and that you enjoy it.[/QUOTE]

Everyone judges everything. It is natural. It is part of our natural instinct to judge the world around us. Like things we know and be wary of things you don't know. Even personal preference is judgemental.
As for eggplant, I love eggplant parmigiana. I will be happy to take your portion.

Kelevision 12-08-2022 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by GATORBILL66 (Post 2164344)
I have instructed my children never to get any trashy tatoos. The only exception would be that if you went in the miiltary and you wanted to get a respectable tatoo that would be fine. Some of the stuff you see around is just plain disgusting. I won't even allow myself to be served by a server in a restaurant that is covered in tatoos. I ask for a different server or walk out.

You “instructed” your children? You refuse to let a server with tattoos wait on you? Oh my…. barf

Boomer 12-08-2022 10:56 AM

Like so many other things in life, the reasons reflected in the choice to tattoo (and where) are on a spectrum/continuum — from quietly and often beautifully personal all the way to….could take up at least 3 pages in the DSM.

Boomer

Joe C. 12-08-2022 11:04 AM

I knew a girl in my younger days, who had a tattoo of a hummingbird on the top of her breast. Gorgeous, to say the least.
However, ........ 50 years later, it looks like a pelican.

fdpaq0580 12-08-2022 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by JMintzer (Post 2164326)
Maybe it's me, but I find the "fell face first into a tacklebox" look sexy!

https://i.pinimg.com/474x/ca/0a/ef/c...ns-bizarre.jpg

No maybe. It's you.

😱

tophcfa 12-08-2022 11:51 AM

The tramp stamp re-defined, the dirtbag stamp.

Nucky 12-08-2022 02:32 PM

If you really want to start a beautiful controversy at a party just let it be known that you got a new piercing in an area that you shouldn't disclose in mixed company. The amazement of people whose world is small and whose imaginations are large is really amazing.

I really like a fresh interesting tattoo. I'm not really into piercings. I was a little bit before my second marriage to an angel walking the face of the earth. She made several requests when we were getting serious a lifetime ago and I've kept every one of my promises to the "T". Each request was reasonable and worthwhile as I am sure I'd be dead and long gone if it wasn't fine this fine person being in my life. She doesn't read TOTV'S anymore so there is no Brown Nosing going on.

jimjamuser 12-08-2022 03:04 PM

When I was growing up a long time ago in a place far, far, away - I saw tattoos almost exclusively on old drunken navy guys. Then there was a transition time when I saw them mainly on NBA basketball players. Today they are on everybody and every gender. I am NOT a big fan, but neither do I condemn them. Psychologically speaking, I would guess that having tattoos started out as being an expression of rebelling, but gradually and today it is an expression of CONFORMITY.

As to "bad driving on roundabouts" - I see that as a subset of bad, risky, self-indulged, driving behavior, in general, that has happened in recent years and is partly caused by pent-up tension from the Pandermic. US society is in flux and is under attack from forces both external and internal. US tribalism is increasing. If a car cuts you off then they are from the "other " tribe and therefore only worthy of hate. Also. in TV Land there is the added factor of an older population with bad vision and reflexes. In general, older people are more set in their ways and less forgiving.

Velvet 12-08-2022 03:06 PM

Well, there are tattoos and tattoos. Some, like the Hawaiian tribal art can look impressive. Some, like a girl I saw with big and small tattoos uncoordinated, unthematic etc looked like someone just threw paint/ink on her randomly. Then there are the gang tattoos, the tear drop, the scar. And there is Hamilton’s (F1 driver) “God is love” tattoo. So it is hard to make a blanket statement. But personally I would not have a tattoo, if I wanted body decoration it would be temporary like henna, or like in Hollywood, a slip on tattoo.

jimjamuser 12-08-2022 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Nucky (Post 2164269)
I have a M on each Cheek of my Butt! So it says MoM. When I stand on my head it says WoW! Please don’t judge me!

I’m full of tattoos and my kids, forgetaboutit, they have a fortune invested in ink. I think it looks great. No face, hand, or neck tats on any of us!

"WOW, MOM", I will try my best NOT to judge!

jimjamuser 12-08-2022 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Larchap49 (Post 2164287)
WOW did you fall out of bed and hit your head this am? are you always this angry? Have you been the brunt of ridicule or bullying your whole life? Maybe dye your hair if you have any, or wear that hat you speak of, or get that face lift, or that boob job, join weight watchers, find something that will make you like yourself so you can stop hating on everyone else

I don't think that what OBB wrote was THAT bad.

jimjamuser 12-08-2022 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by fdpaq0580 (Post 2164352)
Everyone judges everything. It is natural. It is part of our natural instinct to judge the world around us. Like things we know and be wary of things you don't know. Even personal preference is judgemental.
As for eggplant, I love eggplant parmigiana. I will be happy to take your portion.

People fall on a spectrum......from......normally judgemental, overly judgemental, to manifestly SNARKY.

JMintzer 12-08-2022 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by jimjamuser (Post 2164468)
When I was growing up a long time ago in a place far, far, away - I saw tattoos almost exclusively on old drunken navy guys. Then there was a transition time when I saw them mainly on NBA basketball players. Today they are on everybody and every gender. I am NOT a big fan, but neither do I condemn them. Psychologically speaking, I would guess that having tattoos started out as being an expression of rebelling, but gradually and today it is an expression of CONFORMITY.

As to "bad driving on roundabouts" - I see that as a subset of bad, risky, self-indulged, driving behavior, in general, that has happened in recent years and is partly caused by pent-up tension from the Pandermic. US society is in flux and is under attack from forces both external and internal. US tribalism is increasing. If a car cuts you off then they are from the "other " tribe and therefore only worthy of hate. Also. in TV Land there is the added factor of an older population with bad vision and reflexes. In general, older people are more set in their ways and less forgiving.

Good thing there were no bad drivers, no "old people with bad vision and reflexes", no "road rage" before the pandemic...

Wait, what?

JMintzer 12-08-2022 08:27 PM

Remember... some tattoos are permanent...

https://odditymall.com/includes/cont...attoo-2663.jpg

Taltarzac725 12-08-2022 11:46 PM

I have no tattoos at all. They slow down my blood and platelet donation ability.

But then I have family members with a lot of tattoos, nose rings, ear stretchers, etc.

OrangeBlossomBaby 12-09-2022 08:09 AM

I have two inks. One on my ankle, one on my upper thigh.

I have two long scars running down my leg, from two different accidents involving cars (I wasn't in the car either time). After the second accident I was on the beach recovering and enjoying my summer and a kid with his mom were passing me. Kid said "look at that lady with the scar!" (It was still very fresh, scabbed over, and unsightly, and I had my shillelagh that I use for a cane beside me on the towel). The mom scolded her son. I felt horrible about that. He was just pointing out the obvious. I stood out in the crowd. If I wanted to hide it, I would've not gone to the beach. I really didn't care who saw it but didn't realize how horrible it must've looked to a little kid.

So I got up, got all my stuff, and drove to the nearest tattoo parlor and told them to give me something small, but pretty, on that leg. I got a butterfly hovering over a flower in beautiful but simple colors. Now when people see my leg they have something pretty to look at, instead of just those horrible scars.

The one on my ankle I got around 12 years later. It represents passion and compassion, and it's my own design. A burning heart with two blood-red "teardrops" dripping down beneath it.

When I'm wearing a bathing-suit, everyone can see both of them. I frankly don't care what any of you think about them. I hope you find them more attractive than the scars on my legs, but eh - closed minds are gonna stay closed. I hope your lives give you some meaning some day.

Bay Kid 12-09-2022 09:24 AM

I told my kids growing up that if you drive a Ferrari you don't need a bumper sticker.

Velvet 12-09-2022 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Bay Kid (Post 2164726)
I told my kids growing up that if you drive a Ferrari you don't need a bumper sticker.

That is funny.

When my daughter wanted a tattoo, my husband said, “Fine, I’ll do it myself.” She declined his offer but got a small one at the back of her neck because she had two girlfriends and each got the same tattoo to show solidarity. Years later they don't see each other any more, and my daughter covers the tattoo with her hair. Today she regrets getting it.

I think the idea of covering up a scar and making it into a piece of art is brilliant! That is possibly the only reason I would get one. (As far as memories go they are in my heart, invisible to everyone but me.) But if the mood struck me, I’d get whole body tats that you can peel off later.

Two Bills 12-09-2022 11:19 AM

Back in the early 60's before body art became the norm, we had in our platoon a chap with some amazing tattoos.
Emerging from his butt he had a fox's brush, and down his back huntsmen on horses. It was a true work of art.
Among many more tattoos, he also had 'Thank You' on his left hand palm. The hand he took his pay in.
On his right palm he had F*** Off. The hand he saluted with.
He was a conscript , and hated the army.
Often wonder what his body looks like now, if he is still around!

Taltarzac725 12-09-2022 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Two Bills (Post 2164786)
Back in the early 60's before body art became the norm, we had in our platoon a chap with some amazing tattoos.
Emerging from his butt he had a fox's brush, and down his back huntsmen on horses. It was a true work of art.
Among many more tattoos, he also had 'Thank You' on his left hand palm. The hand he took his pay in.
On his right palm he had F*** Off. The hand he saluted with.
He was a conscript , and hated the army.
Often wonder what his body looks like now, if he is still around!

He must get some funny looks directed at him when at the grocery store and at the check-out line. Especially when putting his purchases on the conveyor belt.

Two Bills 12-09-2022 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Taltarzac725 (Post 2164793)
He must get some funny looks directed at him when at the grocery store and at the check-out line. Especially when putting his purchases on the conveyor belt.

He probably had another beetle tattooed over it to cover it up when he was demobbed.
His knuckles were covered in them!
I remember he had a roll of honor of past girl friends on one of his arms.
He used to put a line through the 'Ex' and put the new ones name below.
He must have done well, as the list was quite long!

Boomer 12-09-2022 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Two Bills (Post 2164809)
He probably had another beetle tattooed over it to cover it up when he was demobbed.
His knuckles were covered in them!
I remember he had a roll of honor of past girl friends on one of his arms.
He used to put a line through the 'Ex' and put the new ones name below.
He must have done well, as the list was quite long
!

-- or not have done well ;) --- Of course, I am always reading between the lines......

Boomer

jimjamuser 12-09-2022 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by JMintzer (Post 2164551)
Good thing there were no bad drivers, no "old people with bad vision and reflexes", no "road rage" before the pandemic...

Wait, what?

True that those bad driving behaviors and vision problems have always been around. But, what I was pointing out is that IMO there has been an INCREASE in speeding and other bad driving behaviors beginning during and after the Pandemic and continuing until today. I also stated my opinion about what has caused the INCREASE from after the pandemic until today. I could be wrong and there could also be additional reasons for what I PERCEIVE to be increased speeding. I see it every day out of my window as lawn-mowing trucks, other commercial trucks, and "souped-up" golf carts speed by at up to 40 MPH in a 20 MPH residential zone. I see it on highway 27/441 also. I have seen MORE irate loud arguments from drivers in parking lots and gas stations in the last 4 years. I mention this because I would be CURIOUS to know if others perceive this INCREASE ?

jimjamuser 12-09-2022 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Bay Kid (Post 2164726)
I told my kids growing up that if you drive a Ferrari you don't need a bumper sticker.

Curious, I wonder how many Ferrari Owners have bumper stickers compared to Chevy owners. Bumper stickers are often a complaint. Even a Ferrari owner might feel a strong need to complain about something. Their lives would be better on average, but still not perfect. And complaining is a universal sport.

Two Bills 12-09-2022 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Boomer (Post 2164822)
-- or not have done well ;) --- Of course, I am always reading between the lines......
Boomer

Probably right.
Maybe they were just the girls brave enough to speak to him. He looked pretty scary.
Funny enough though, he was a really good 'Rock and Roll dancer!

JMintzer 12-09-2022 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by jimjamuser (Post 2164827)
True that those bad driving behaviors and vision problems have always been around. But, what I was pointing out is that IMO there has been an INCREASE in speeding and other bad driving behaviors beginning during and after the Pandemic and continuing until today. I also stated my opinion about what has caused the INCREASE from after the pandemic until today. I could be wrong and there could also be additional reasons for what I PERCEIVE to be increased speeding. I see it every day out of my window as lawn-mowing trucks, other commercial trucks, and "souped-up" golf carts speed by at up to 40 MPH in a 20 MPH residential zone. I see it on highway 27/441 also. I have seen MORE irate loud arguments from drivers in parking lots and gas stations in the last 4 years. I mention this because I would be CURIOUS to know if others perceive this INCREASE ?

I don't...

But then again, I try not to find the hidden meaning everything I see...

OrangeBlossomBaby 12-09-2022 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Velvet (Post 2164768)
That is funny.

When my daughter wanted a tattoo, my husband said, “Fine, I’ll do it myself.” She declined his offer but got a small one at the back of her neck because she had two girlfriends and each got the same tattoo to show solidarity. Years later they don't see each other any more, and my daughter covers the tattoo with her hair. Today she regrets getting it.

I think the idea of covering up a scar and making it into a piece of art is brilliant! That is possibly the only reason I would get one. (As far as memories go they are in my heart, invisible to everyone but me.) But if the mood struck me, I’d get whole body tats that you can peel off later.

It doesn't cover my scars. Tattoos don't translate very well over scars, it's not recommended. Instead, I had it on my upper thigh, in the front near my groin (but not on it). One of my scars is 7 inches long, the other one is 5 inches long, and they're around an inch apart from each other, on the outside of my thigh from just above my knee up. That's why - I wanted to give people something pretty to look at instead of "just" the scars.

I'm Popeye! 12-09-2022 08:24 PM

All it takes is one monkey for the rest to follow.
But, of course, they don't read Comic Books anymore; they wear them nowadays.

tophcfa 12-09-2022 08:25 PM

A good friend of mine was in the Navy about 47 years ago and got totally $hitfaced one night and woke up the next morning with a tattoo on his arm of the devil holding a pitchfork with the saying “Born to Raise Hell” written above it. To this day he deeply regrets getting inked up and his once ripped bicep now looks like crap with the faded devil tattoo. What might seem like a good idea when one is young might turn out to be a not so good idea many years later.

Pairadocs 12-09-2022 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Boomer (Post 2164103)
Some tattoos are works of art that tell a story…….

Sometimes, if I meet someone whose ink is especially eye-catching and if the opportunity presents itself, I say, “May I ask about the story of your ink?” (Never has anyone I have asked taken that question as an insult. They always share the story and I thank them for telling me.)

I don’t have any tattoos. The next generation of women in our family have a few, all of them have stories. But their ink does not draw attention. All of these women are in successful careers and probably thought carefully about where and how much to ink……

I think it was wise of them to keep their tattoos small and subtle, and maybe not showing at all, although now tattoos are commonly seen on women…….

But that’s just silver-haired me thinking it’s smart for women competing in the world of careers to not have tattoos announcing their presence and possibly drawing attention from their brains. (And don’t get me started on cleavage.) Of course, I am a dinosaur from the generation of women who read that book Dress for Success.

Speaking of being a dinosaur — and now, I am silver-haired (grew it out during Covid and I love it) — I have since found that I now have a silver-haired bad angel who wants me to say what I am thinking because the hair with an accompanying smile can get me by with more…..

When I meet young people who are covered with tattoos, that had to have cost them a fortune, my silver-haired bad angel wants me to say, “Listen sweetie, have you started a Roth IRA?”

Boomer

Some will interpret this as "snarky", but it isn't. I am just giving you an honest comment that I have also had the exact same thoughts... the expense of of all those tattoos, of course they have not even started an IRA and could not care less about "sheltering' any of their income. Also, have they paid on their college loans ? Of course not, they are waiting for "amnesty" of course. I know one young woman, B.A. and M.A., and now C.P.A., she FLIES to Chicago to a nationally known artists to does many of the Hollywood and entertainment people. She "could" have paid her loans off with what she has spent, and she's on target to be CFO in 10-15 years. Frankly, (and I am scratching my head here in wonder !) but frankly many of the largest "woke" corporations see tattoos as one indication of a person with the kind of open and progressive mind they are seeking. I am with you because in "my day", woke, progressive, forward thinking, etc. were not the characteristics companies were seeking... very very different today.

Pairadocs 12-09-2022 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Boomer (Post 2164382)
Like so many other things in life, the reasons reflected in the choice to tattoo (and where) are on a spectrum/continuum — from quietly and often beautifully personal all the way to….could take up at least 3 pages in the DSM.

Boomer

So well said, completely agree... all the way to those who could indeed take at least 3 pages in the DSM (to shock the public at large in only one, and not the most subtle ! LOL !)

Pairadocs 12-09-2022 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by JMintzer (Post 2164316)
So, shaming people who shame people about tattoos is cool?

It's all so confusing...

I agree, very confusing ! I am not drawn to getting them, but I have seen tattoo pictures on people who have lost a child or other loved one, and it seems to bring them so much more joy than just looking at pictures. Then I've seen folks that I just can't (from my perspective" imagine any circumstances that a person would want such a permanent (and difficult to look at) picture permanently on their body. It's .... yes, I guess, confusing.

fdpaq0580 12-10-2022 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by jimjamuser (Post 2164832)
Curious, I wonder how many Ferrari Owners have bumper stickers compared to Chevy owners. Bumper stickers are often a complaint. Even a Ferrari owner might feel a strong need to complain about something. Their lives would be better on average, but still not perfect. And complaining is a universal sport.

Ferrari with a sticker that says, "Should have bought the Maseratti".

charlieo1126@gmail.com 12-10-2022 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Pairadocs (Post 2164947)
Some will interpret this as "snarky", but it isn't. I am just giving you an honest comment that I have also had the exact same thoughts... the expense of of all those tattoos, of course they have not even started an IRA and could not care less about "sheltering' any of their income. Also, have they paid on their college loans ? Of course not, they are waiting for "amnesty" of course. I know one young woman, B.A. and M.A., and now C.P.A., she FLIES to Chicago to a nationally known artists to does many of the Hollywood and entertainment people. She "could" have paid her loans off with what she has spent, and she's on target to be CFO in 10-15 years. Frankly, (and I am scratching my head here in wonder !) but frankly many of the largest "woke" corporations see tattoos as one indication of a person with the kind of open and progressive mind they are seeking. I am with you because in "my day", woke, progressive, forward thinking, etc. were not the characteristics companies were seeking... very very different today.

so everyone getting tats is woke , so everyone should never purchase anything frivolous because they need to fund there IRA ,so this young woman who seems to be very smart has told you she’s not paying off her loans , if there is one sure thing about tats is you can’t put the wearers into any one group of people , tats are universal and mean different things to different people and sometimes the tattoo is just a tattoo , BUT WOKE THATS TO FUNNY, after a long night in Orlando and feeling a little off this morning that cleared my head faster then the first cup of coffee

Battlebasset 12-10-2022 10:46 AM

A friend of our daughter in high school wanted to get one, and didn't want it hidden. Her dad wasn't having much luck with dissuading her so I simply said "As someone that is not your father, I don't care if you have one or not. Your body your life. And you have the right to have it and not be judged by others. However, that is not reality. Others will judge you, rightly or wrongly. Potential employers will judge you, and you'll never know it. You just won't get called back for the second interview".

She said she wouldn't want to work for someone that didn't like her tattoo, and I said "That's not the point. He/she may be fine with it. But especially if you are in a customer facing position, they don't want anything that will turn off a potential customer. Unless you are in a profession where tattoos are common, why hamstring yourself right out of the gate? If you establish yourself and later choose to get it, get it then".

She went out to CA for school, and has never come back, and as far as I know, is bouncing from job to job. I suspect she ultimately got the tattoo.


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