Battlebasset |
12-10-2022 10:46 AM |
A friend of our daughter in high school wanted to get one, and didn't want it hidden. Her dad wasn't having much luck with dissuading her so I simply said "As someone that is not your father, I don't care if you have one or not. Your body your life. And you have the right to have it and not be judged by others. However, that is not reality. Others will judge you, rightly or wrongly. Potential employers will judge you, and you'll never know it. You just won't get called back for the second interview".
She said she wouldn't want to work for someone that didn't like her tattoo, and I said "That's not the point. He/she may be fine with it. But especially if you are in a customer facing position, they don't want anything that will turn off a potential customer. Unless you are in a profession where tattoos are common, why hamstring yourself right out of the gate? If you establish yourself and later choose to get it, get it then".
She went out to CA for school, and has never come back, and as far as I know, is bouncing from job to job. I suspect she ultimately got the tattoo.
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