Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
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I also call out that YOU continue to duck my questions. I answer each of yours, and provide links as appropriate. I still have not seen evidence of your claims, but we are supposed to trust you. YOU attempted to manipulate the "big boy discussion" by IMPLYING that the leaders condone bullying. It is time for you to muddle the waters once again: Quote:
You still have not identified if you even understand "due process" and how important it is. Quote:
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This thread discusses an important topic. Unfortunately, some posters have ceased discussing the topic and are directing their posts at other members and therefore not advancing the discussion. To disagree with a poster’s comment is fine. To resort to name calling or other directed comments is not. Disagree without being disagreeable or your comments will be deleted and/or the thread will be closed.
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I have tried to figure out why these mass school shootings continue to happen. Of course, the individual is not mentally stable, no person in their right mind would do something like that, but there have been mentally unstable people going to school forever. Why so many of these shootings now?
Reading this thread there are many people that have ideas as to why or what we may do to stop it. The OP started the thread by addressing gun laws. It would be nice if it was that easy and all we had to do was ban this or that and the criminals would actually obey that law. Another person thought it may be because of too much video games and such that are putting ideas in their heads. I'm not sure I can completely agree with that either. When I was a child we used to get toy guns for Christmas and played cops and robbers shooting each other. All the shows we watched showed people getting shot or stabbed. We knew it wasn't real. One person had a pretty good idea about metal detectors but the only problem with that is if there is no one there to stop them it wouldn't matter. The shooter could have pulled the gun out ten feet before he went through the door. If there is no one there to stop him he's coming in. Someone brought up bullying. Although this is a problem in schools, when hasn't it been, it's still not a reason to kill a bunch of people. What was it that the kid in Florida said was his problem? Oh yeah, his girlfriend broke up with him. None of it makes any sense. I would be willing to bet that 95% or more people reading this have been bullied at some point or another and who hasn't had a break up with a girlfriend. So what's the cause? This has been touched on by a couple of people but I believe that the main reason that school shootings continue to happen is because of the media. Getting back to what I said to start with...the person that does this has got to be mentally disturbed. I believe that seeing these kids picture and giving their names and telling their sad little stories is what is causing this to continue. In their sick minds, they see these shooters as some kind of heroes or something, championing their cause if you will. They want to be like them (famous). If they would quit showing their face and giving their names this would eventually stop. Even a sick minded person would have to know they are giving their life up as well. |
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I would like to elaborate on the mention of we used to have play guns and pretend etc..
But in movies or in theatres and even early television violence/vulgarity was absent. In recent years it is common entertainment for rape/murder/dismemberment/beheading with squirting blood scenes/disrespect for others/others property/disrespect of the law and the enforcers. When one is exposed to this type behavior they become calloused to the real severity of the reaction. They become accustomed to and unaffected by the violence. It becomes accepted/expected. We have allowed our society to make it acceptable to do/view this violence daily. A very much different person evolves from such exposure.......and we are continuing to allow it at an earlier and earlier age. Condition reflex!!!! It is real. School shootings are a perfect example. |
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What do you tell a child that is afraid to go to school? Duck and Cover? like we did when we thought a nuclear war might happen--and being under a desk would protect us
If these crimes are being committed due to isolation what happens when more kids start being home schooled? I heard on TV that someone is suggesting we close down the schools until we have a solution. I guess they don't have kids. |
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Some FOX News woman broadcaster put out the idea to the Texas AG that kids need to have a place to give information about other kids where they will not have to fear reprisals. And churches was mentioned. They do need to step up their game in many communities. Get out there with outreach. |
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That was also my suggestion. You need multiple 24 hour hotlines where you can talk to someone and get some comfort or blow a whistle. Where I taught we lost someone who everybody loved, suicide. We brought in extra grief counselors. That pales greatly in comparison.
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Tomwed why aren’t the big guys listening to people like you who were on the front lines so to speak. Mind Boggling that this hasn’t been solved.
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i don't know -- but i think about it a lot.
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Kids are staying up all night playing fortnight. The goal of this game is to kill everyone else and be the last one standing. Once they do it for multiple nights, the distinction between reality and video games becomes blurred. To make matters worse, these same kids have no social aptitude since their existence is spent playing virtual non-reality video games. Very sad indeed!
When we all grew up, if we got into trouble we were sent to our rooms and not allowed to go outside and play. No, if a kid gets into trouble the parents take away their smartphone and locks out their computer access and does not allow them to go to their rooms. Whatever happened to going outside and playing ball or climbing a tree? With the explosion of social media and got to have it immediately technology, it's no wonder bad things are happening with our youth. Last edited by tophcfa; 05-20-2018 at 09:50 PM. |
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New NRA President Oliver North blames school shootings on Ritalin, “culture of violence.”
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What is the real issue/cause and why continue to be ignored. Why? Because the politics and the media have made it to be as it is.
Different example of why some issues/causes are addressed and others are not. We have all heard about or have some knowledge of MADD (mother's against drunk driving). The mothers of America have demonstrated this cause on and off throughout history. However statistically equivalent or worse is the deaths caused by cell phone use while driving. Where is the rage and cause of the mothers about cell phones and driving? Non-existent! Why? Because guess who is a major user of cell phones while driving? Unlike alcohol.......THE MOTHERS!!!! There is not rage or rising because it would affect something they hold near and dear to their personal way of life.....THEIR CELL PHONE. The same distorted/biased/politicized focus is presented day in and day out regarding guns.......WHEN A SHOOTING OCCURS .........that fits their agenda. Until the real cause of shootings is addressed there will be no real assessment of what is the real issue, let alone what can practically be done to fix/solve/eliminate the problem. Every day, several times a day there is the call to "do something" about gun control. However there is just as obvious an absence of what is being suggested to be done than WILL RESULT in the elimination of school shootings. Why is that? |
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