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OrangeBlossomBaby 05-02-2020 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by oneclickplus (Post 1757202)
You can have a little fun. No, you can't identify or email the scammer in these cases. As you probably know, their goal is to get you to "login" to paypal using their fake website; this allows them to capture your ID / password. I always go to their fake website to login. Here are my credentials:

Username: JustWanted@To.Say
password: PhuckYouScammer

I get the satisfaction of knowing that they WILL see this on their server.

Meanwhile, regarding paypal security ... everyone should have 2-factor authentication on all their accounts (all the ones that offer it) such as Amazon, eBay, PayPal, your bank, your brokerage, etc. A code is sent to your phone when you attempt to login which you then have to provide in order to proceed.

Even if some scammer got a password to your account, they are stopped dead because they don't have access to your phone and this one-time code. PLUS, if you get a code on your phone for Paypal (example) and it's not you trying to login, you have an immediate alert that your password has been compromised. But, relax ... nothing urgent ... no need to panic - they can't get in without the code. So, just go change your password after you finish your round of golf and take a shower.

I even put 2-factor on my email. Why? Because email is the primary method for password change / recovery; especially for accounts that don't offer 2-factor (yet). So, even if a hacker tried to do a password reset for my grocery delivery account and even if they had my email password, they could not possibly proceed because they can't even get into my email (no code) to complete the process.

Never go to their fake website. Often within those links are special lines of code that will inject a virus into your computer, or sell your IP info to a scam list that basically tells everyone "hey this person is a sucker who will actually check your website, so go ahead and do your damage."

OhioBuckeye 05-02-2020 09:57 AM

Ohiobuckeye
 
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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1756792)
I answered and he said . Hello grandma and he was sniffing and sounding like he was crying. I said......Who is calling please, as I always do, I am hearing impaired. My closed captioning that is a few seconds delayed showed me the caller had called me grandma. No one has ever called me grandma in my family, EVER. I hung up. Be wary...and careful. Anyone who would know you are older and do this on purpose is one awful loser.

Sounds like a scam, I got the same kind of a call 3 or 4 yrs. ago & I did what you did, hung up. I called my daughter & told her about it & she just said, you did hang up on them didn’t you. She said there on vacation & both grandkids have been with her & our son in law for a week. So to anyone that gets this kind of call like this hang up, then call them yourself & see if it was them. Good for you, you did the right thing graciegirl & didn’t get scammed!

Scorpyo 05-02-2020 09:57 AM

Name
 
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Originally Posted by vonbork (Post 1757383)
My wife received such a call and asked the "young man" to spell his last name. It's Ciacciarelli. End of call.

Let me write down the spelling of that typical Irish name so I know how to spell it the next time I call. Lol

Spike380 05-02-2020 10:01 AM

I had that happen to me recently--I have granddogs, horses, rabbits, chickens so I had some fun! I kept saying "oh honey are you all right? Do you need money? It was fun. Then I told him he should be ashamed of trying to scam old people and he hung up so fast I think I saw sparks! BE VIGILANT cause this is a scarey time.

OrangeBlossomBaby 05-02-2020 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by DanBrew (Post 1757240)
Never answer a call that is not in you contacts. When you do, you legitimize your number to these criminals. If it is a call that is important, let them leave a message and then call back.

Not all of my contacts are on my contacts list. I'm still new here to Florida, and my health insurance company sometimes calls me - from an 800 number. That's really very strange, because typically 800-lines aren't intended for outgoing calls. What's even more strange is that now, so many customer service folks are working from home and have a cell phone they're given with a unique phone number so they can do their job. It's not an official company phone number, so you can't look it up. That's the circumstances we're living in at the moment.

So if I'm expecting a call from my doctor's office, or insurance company, or any other place where many people are working from home, I'm going to answer the phone even if I don't recognize it.

If I'm NOT expecting a call - then I might let it go into voice mail.

rphil11ort 05-02-2020 10:10 AM

Same thing happened to my mother years ago.
 
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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1756792)
I answered and he said . Hello grandma and he was sniffing and sounding like he was crying. I said......Who is calling please, as I always do, I am hearing impaired. My closed captioning that is a few seconds delayed showed me the caller had called me grandma. No one has ever called me grandma in my family, EVER. I hung up. Be wary...and careful. Anyone who would know you are older and do this on purpose is one awful loser.

She was told it was my son stuck in Canada and needed $2500. She wired through western union. When my sister found out what happened she went to western union about a month later and found out my mother spelt the criminals name wrong so he couldn't pick up the money and she got it back. Kudo's to my sister and may he burn in hell

Nipper 05-02-2020 10:15 AM

This happened to someone I know years ago. After the grandma spiel, she said "call your mother."

cbmerl 05-02-2020 12:07 PM

Gross!

Velvet 05-02-2020 12:23 PM

When we get a scam call hubby usually asks for their credit card information.

Donb0975 05-02-2020 12:24 PM

Had this type of call several years ago, voice saying he was my grandson and had been locked up for drunk driving could I post his bond. I asked if he had called his father and if not he should do so immediately, then hung up.

talleyjm 05-02-2020 01:34 PM

What an odd question. Who in the world would recognize EVERY phone number that called?

Velvet 05-02-2020 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by talleyjm (Post 1757559)
What an odd question. Who in the world would recognize EVERY phone number that called?

I’ve got caller ID, if I don’t know the person, they’re out of luck.

CFrance 05-02-2020 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by rustyp (Post 1756859)
So easy. Even if you believe it is your grandchild. Why are we not facetiming ? If can't be done right now what is:

1 your grandfather's middle name
2 name your first pet
3 your siblings birth date
4 what was the last gift I gave you

A little forethought about these sort of things goes a long way.

Ha! My kids wouldn't know the answer to any of those questions:1rotfl::1rotfl:


But I get your point. It can be done. Your particular questions just made me laugh. Now, ask them what was their first car or the pin code to open the garage door, the name of the girl they... well, never mind.

Westie Man 05-02-2020 02:43 PM

I agree
 
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Originally Posted by bagboy (Post 1756925)
If my grandson called from jail, I'd tell him to be careful not to drop the bar of soap.

those prison showers can be slippery when wet

PugMom 05-02-2020 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1756955)
It was a 443 area code with a lot of twos and sevens in the rest of the number...should anyone call you. I looked it up on reverse look up and it said it was a land line in Md with no name attached. I am grateful our grandchildren have been close to us all of their lives and we know them so well, know what they call us, know their mannerisms...and I am grateful that they are independent and financially successful and employed even during this awful time.

my father in law was a victim of this last year. the caller claimed to be our daughter -she told him she was in jail. Dad asked why she sounded so funny & the caller said she was attacked & had her nose broken & needed medical treatment. it scared the bejeezus out of Dad. he hung up & called us,-- we'd heard of the scam & told him how it operates.

valuemkt 05-02-2020 03:47 PM

The grandma scam is very old and well documented. Good for you for not getting taken. Most people that have been sucked into it are too embarrassed to talk about it ..

graciegirl 05-02-2020 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Westie Man (Post 1757604)
those prison showers can be slippery when wet

You know all these drop the soap and prison jokes when it is about our grandson's isn't funny at all.

Mine are not slimeballs that have been arrested. None of my friends grandchildren have either.

Don't like those unfunny attempts at all.

dpmers 05-02-2020 11:47 PM

Good for you, my answer is you figured out how to get in jail, figure a way to get out, good luck. Detach with love

ficoguy 05-03-2020 05:57 AM

You should have a code word to use with your grandkids...like "Palamino" - then you can verify

ALadysMom 05-03-2020 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1756792)
I answered and he said . Hello grandma and he was sniffing and sounding like he was crying. I said......Who is calling please, as I always do, I am hearing impaired. My closed captioning that is a few seconds delayed showed me the caller had called me grandma. No one has ever called me grandma in my family, EVER. I hung up. Be wary...and careful. Anyone who would know you are older and do this on purpose is one awful loser.

I’m sorry you had a call like that. I’m glad you didn’t fall for it. Don’t you wish law enforcement would stop them? But he’s probably out of reach in some foreign country. Thanks for posting so others can be aware.

Topspinmo 05-06-2020 08:07 AM

Wells Fargo emails scam going around “don’t respond”. Just delete it.

Sandy and Ed 05-07-2020 12:30 PM

I would also keep fraud caller on phone as long as I could. Waste their time and keep them occupied with me. Once finally implied that law enforcement had been able to trace the call and would be contacting them in person. Got off phone fast


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