Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
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Soon went to a very expensive Methodist university -- the U of Denver-- where the men and women acted like you would expect 20+ years old to act. Drugs, sex, and rock and roll, etc. Not mine so much as I did still carry the world view that at one time had made BYU look OK. Us librarianship graduate students liked to party. I had met Mormons in Reno, Nevada that really old gave their moral code lip service. But at BYU you have all kinds of eyes and ears on you all the time. Did go to the U of MN Law School in 1986 which had more women than men in its starting Class of 1989 but they kept us so busy the First Year of law school that I doubt if many of us thought of anything but law books. Last edited by Taltarzac725; 08-24-2018 at 08:11 AM. |
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Spelling of "Nun's" is not important as all know who is being addressed. It is critical to remember that Nun's have no power. The power is with the priests. Where is the best hiding place for a pedophile? In the church? It is not a crime limited to the Catholic Church although the basic behavioral requirements to be a Priest is more favorable to this terrible problem. Nun's are essentially a "servant" of the Priest so to bring them into the equation is unfair although some also have their problems with this behavior.
As long as the Vatican tolerates this by neglecting to install the equivalent consequences it will continue and my guess would be at the same level as today. We should all feel bad for the life long harm this does to a child. |
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The issue is not sexual orientation. The issue is pedophilia.
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I know the OP was about nuns, but the thread was quickly derailed to the children and the massive coverup. |
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We cannot really teach about this, because I don't think any valid studies have been made on the subject. My opinion is that a person is born with their sexual orientation. It cannot be changed by therapy or punishment so the behavior continues for a persons life. Pedophilia seeks gratification from unwilling, weaker children and is heinous to us. I think that the whole sexual orientation thing is emotional and confusing because we only really know and understand our own. And may be repulsed by others. Most people are comfortable about what consenting adults do in private. I know I am, but pedophilia is extremely disturbing to me and most. Now that I know that pedophiles are drawn toward groups and organizations that are trusting, I look back and wonder about a lot of situations in scout and church groups that didn't ever directly affect me. Our public grade school principal was a pedophile. He committed suicide in the school basement after it was discovered he had impregnated a sixth grader. Now I find myself suspicious of male grade school teachers. We cannot help our questioning, or our instinctive reactions. I have often thought pedophiles should be castrated.
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Many of us grew up not hearing sexual matters discussed and now find the world discussing all sorts of things relating to sex. I know one thing, sex is a powerful force. Every person in a huge stadium all got here because of it. We need to understand it and respect it. It has felled strong governments and destroyed civilizations. It has also cemented good and loving relationships, inspired art and music and is in general a wonderful thing. .
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Priest should be allowed to marry, period.
Those found guilty should be punished immediately. Those who covered up what they knew should be punished. The Nuns never Rat on the Priest because they had to Change Their Habits. Proud non practicing Catholic but sick over this situation, just terrible. Those poor children. How can they be helped? Help them first then deal with the scum who hid behind the church. Reminds me of Ray Donovan, permanent damage I think, what a sin. |
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Do Catholic priests have a worse abuse problem than most? - xkcd
Found this very interesting about Catholics and insurance carriers with respect to abuse by priests. Quote:
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Scholar Calls Pedophilia 'An Unchangeable Sexual Orientation' that Should Be Accepted by Society | CBN News Moreso, pedophila is an opportunistic crime, not a specific orientation. Growing up in Catholic Brooklyn, one of my childhood aspirations was to be an altar boy. Father John was fond of rewarding us trainees with a swat on the rear. This plus Nuns rapping my hands with a ruler for writing left-handed, quickly turned me away from organized religion. Last edited by SFSkol; 08-24-2018 at 12:20 PM. |
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Sorry. WAY too much time on my hands.
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It is better to laugh than to cry. Last edited by graciegirl; 08-24-2018 at 12:28 PM. |
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ABSOLUTELY!!
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Interesting thread to read. Interesting opinions. Life long Catholic. I'm about done. Someone said to me the other day, why would anyone listen to the words of people alive in the bronze age? They didn't know where the sun "went" at night. They didn't know the land we are on even existed.
Have heard it before of course, but this time it kinda stuck with me. This Pope is a Socialist and Communist at the same time. Not a fan. He wants redistribution of wealth? How about starting with some of that stolen art? With that said I find going to mass comforting and have met many great Clergy members. Also unfortunately there was a terrible incident in the 80s in my Parish is New Jersey. And in retrospect, we shoulda saw it coming. I have never been abused in any way and feel terrible for anyone that has been. The nuns are supposed to be "married to God." I'm sort of embarrassed to say that sounds sort of cultist to me. |
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