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11-04-2020 11:16 PM |
[QUOTE=TimeForChange;1856308]Been here eight and one half years. Own two homes. One on a Championship course and a rental. Lots of changes here even in that time. The luster of TV has worn off. More we don't care for than we do. Thinking of taking my equity and moving on. Looking at homes elsewhere tomorrow. Outside realtors say many feel the same way. Not a lot posted about people leaving and why other than grandkiditus! Thoughts? I'm sure the first will be "don't let the door knob catch you"!
Well, you are so right that on a forum like this there will be the "punish" them squad you will hear from first. But, you did not even ASK them to reply did you ? You asked if any of us out here have had been having those thoughts, and so I'll answer you without a smarty holier than thou reply. Yes, I have been thinking a LOT of those same thoughts. Been here much longer, bought the lot and designed every detail, moved walls, added a laundry off the master suite, thought out every detail of day to day living to make retirement a joy. But the changes, which one expects anywhere, have been breath taking in their bredth and depth. Our closest relative here floored us with their announcement their home if on the market. We'd not expressed our doubts about the future to anyone, but are thinking and looking. The haters who may jump on you for your post, could also have some deep fears about valuation here. I have those same fears, if we stay, will things continue to go down hill ? Then thinking that this down hill slide (and keep in mind, many do not even know what the villages used to offer, like the very affordable health club they showed off to everyone as one of the major features, indoor pool, all kinds of free classes, something that could not be found anywhere else, and so much more, now, all gone, parking lots, apartments, offices, and never ending traffic, etc.) but I digress, things change and this is a private, capitalist business, they can do as they wish, we don't own our community, there is no mayor, no city council, etc. That is what we have thought about. But many arguments to be made on all sides, and that is what you asked all of us to write about. Yes, those of us brave enough to say we are "thinking", will immediately be asked to get out, you are right, and that's too bad. Discussions are the only way all of us can learn what others are thinking, how they think, and why they are thinking in the direction they are. One can get caught in a velvet trap, not where they want to be any more but not quite bad enough to move on and possibly loosing money with all the expenses, after the huge amounts paid to agents, storage, movers, and even age plays into it. I am sure the villages owners, being good capitalists that they are (no condemnation, as a business person if I owned land more valuable as an apartment house or factory than a farm, I'd sell it too), have thought about all this. How far can you go and still sell the original dream, the place where anyone can live like a millionaire they said back then. Yes, we are thinking, but where to go, not at all sure. Guess it's like our parents used to say, when you find it, you'll KNOW It....LOL ! Will be interesting to see how many nasty comments you get, I think it could be a fascinating discussion since I know a LOT of people thinking the same thing and not saying a word ... LOL !
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