Free Speech has been extinguished in most successful Marriages. It's sorta like the probationary period in a new job except it lasts alot longer. It's not like making it into the union where you can cruise once you make it. Consideration & Patience is needed for success. What I'm struggling to say is you can say what's on your mind kindly but you better be ready for the response. That's the best I can explain it until someone on here straightens me out and I have to defend myself. I know one thing for certain that it's no fun being the Chief when you don't have any Indian's!
