In a lot of situations another person may truly be out of line and obnoxious,
but sometimes our own fear to speak up and defend our boundries is also a problem.
You don't have to get in a shouting match,
but you can simply tell them you don't need their direction and assistance.
If that bothers them, that is their issue to deal with.
I think as I've gotten older it has become easier
to deal with the occasional jerk!
When you deal with one, another will pop up down the line, (there is no shortage),
so I found it better to improve my method of dealing with them.
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