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Old 05-03-2020, 02:39 PM
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Originally Posted by graciegirl View Post
It is better to be safe than to be sorry.

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

God helps those who help themselves.

Don't throw the baby out with the bath waters.

Going slow also gets us there.

If you want to jump off a cliff like your friends do, go right ahead.

Follow those who have had a reasonable and successful life.
In our own individual lives, the choice whether to abandon a comfortable local maximum can be wrenching. If life is good (or safe) already should I consider changing the status quo? My parents taught me that the "very best" is always the enemy of "just good enough" as is "leave it alone" is to "make it better". Back in the olden days, my psychology professor taught us that as a rule, people become more content as they age. A plausible explanation is that the prospect of making "dramatic" improvements or changes in one's life recedes, as anxiety increases about taking on the associated labor and risks.
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