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Originally Posted by charlieo1126@gmail.com
and remember when they say it’s not about the money, it’s always about the money
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It’s sad as I read this. I have been married 3 times. I was completely fair before , during and after. My ex’s are still friends... I wish them well. I have given anything I wanted to my family, I’m not leaving it for death. Really? The money? My spouse will get everything in death. I choose him. I took his name. It’s my death name. I am apart of his family in every aspect even though his kids are gimme- gimme. At this age my spouse needs anything he can get as he can’t work anymore- consider that. You would rather give everything to your children whom are perfectly capable of earning their own?- no money is not important to them as a person the same age or close to you. Consider that. When I leave this world it is completely ethically right. Everyone got everything heirloom while I am alive. Money too for that matter. I had to earn mine, they can earn theirs. My spouse can rest knowing he will not struggle. As far as marriage again. Lol. Old baggage comes with each person at this age- I learned that getting married at 50- no way. Not again. Not worth it. Everything will be divided after my spouse 6 children equally. Even the brats that hate me just for marrying him.