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Originally Posted by Garywt
I myself have chemo brain so that can be tough at times. As for our parents my mom is 90 and my mil is 81. Both live on there own and our siblings try to control their lives by connecting to the ring doorbell or controlling their Comcast or trying to do home improvements that might be needed etc. My wife and I are constantly asking them what do you want to do. My sister wanted to replace the furnace and roof on my moms house and I said that at 90 years old is it something that really needs to be done since they were both fine.
So I understand what you are saying but if you can manage on your own then let them know and hope they don’t get made and stop talking to you…
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It is a good thing to listen to those the love you. At some point you may NOT be able to live alone, but not realize it.