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Originally Posted by Rose Ann Vinci Igoe
we all would handle this differently. So if you don't want to , don't, delete message and let it go. no need to delete Him as a FB friend he meant well. If he says anything just say I'm not ready right now, I'm sure you can understand... period. or just don't respond to the message, not everyone responds back when they write to someone. you don 't need this stress right now.
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Yes, I did try that at first. I told him politely that I went through a lot with my brother and niece and the sicknesses that they had. He did not seem to get it. He message me back with their phone numbers. I then message him again and told him I am not ready for anymore grief right now and put him on ignore on messenger. There is more to it. I heard through a mutual friend that his sister got involved in drugs. I do not need that stress. Plus, I would feel funny calling someone after so many years. He also told me not to tell her that he told me to call her and not to mention her health issues, which I do not know what they are. Just too suspicious to me. After all, I do not know them that well anymore.