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Originally Posted by TOMCAT
I want a little feedback on this problem, if anyone would like to comment. Facebook is a way to connect to your old acquaintances. I do not wish to call anyone that I have not seen for twenty years.
There is this guy I have not seen in twenty years nor his sister. That time when I saw them was at a funeral for a mutual friend. To make a long story short, this past year my niece passed away and four months later her father, my brother, passed away also. This guy who is one of my Facebook friends is aware of this because I posted it on Facebook. This guy private messaged me to call his sister because she has health issues. I have not seen or talk to his sister in over twenty years. What would you do? I find it strange and inconsiderate for him to do this as he is aware of my loss.
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If you feel that you want to contact his sister then go ahead. She wasn't the one being tactless. That is her brother. As far as he goes, just disregard him. If he wants to be considerate and contact you then fine. Tell him how you felt about his lack of sympathy. If he continues being inconsiderate toward you then he is being self-centered, and the best thing to do is recognize that he is the type of person you don't need in your life. Stay away from a narcissistic person like that.