[dillywho]

It was reported that she had reached her wits end because of his domineering and controlling and she reportedly said that she just couldn't take any more. I have seen this first hand in others, as well as experienced it myself. Shooting, etc. is not an answer, but divorce can most certainly be.

Unfortunately, some of the contolling/domineering can get really dangerous for the party leaving or even trying to leave or attempting to get help for the situation. This is why many times couples perceived to be "ideal" are such a shock to everyone when something drastic or tragic happens.

I was asked to edit this for clarification as to the statement I made that it was "reported" that she could no longer endure his control and being "always on her case".

I saw it reported on a newscast, Channel 9 to be specific. It is also on Channel 9 and Channel 6 websites.

The whole point of this post is to say that others really don't know why this happened as it did and that we have no right to judge her at this point. Did she handle it the best way? Absolutely not! I just wonder what the comments would be if she had shot herself instead to change her situation or her perception of it.

My dad had a great philosophy: To quote him, "I never did see a board that didn't have two sides."

I don't mean to offend anyone, but would just like for everyone to withhold judgements of either of them. We didn't live there...they did.