[graciegirl]

Originally Posted by Pturner

I like it. It's honest and direct. If fits the particular situation Salpal described, i.e., an ill-mannered acquaintance who invited herself. Saying, "it's not a good time," only kicks the ball down the field.

We have invited family and friends to visit and enjoy when they come. That's friendly. Letting anyone whom you know impose on you at-will is neither sincere nor friendly. It's foolish. At least, that's how I see it.

You are right...as usual.